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Hey guys, new here, Tight_Genes... get it? Anyway, I have been reading the blog and posts for about a week now, but my situation precedes it by a few weeks. IF I ONLY KNEW! I'll start with a story and end with a question.
I was out with the guys at a local/dive bar about 6 weeks ago, BEFORE I knew what i was doing... I met a girl and really didn't think anything of it until I was leaving. She's friends with an old female friend of mine and as I was leaving, she opened my passenger side Jeep door and said, "I had a really great night meeting people, especially you..." There was an obvious sexual innuendo so I immediately offered her a ride home. She said she couldn't that her BOYFRIEND was taking her home and he was already pissed she was talking to me. I said, "Are you sure?" She fleetingly grabbed my hand and nodded as she shut my door. Dammit, I thought, the one that got away...
The next morning I find her through my friend's Facebook and start up a conversation with her. Apparently that night, her boyfriend went ape shit insane, busted out a window of her car and ripped her turn-signal switch out while she was in it! I told her call the cops! She said she couldn't 'cause she returned the favor. She is now calling him her EX-boyfriend... Needless to say she's a bit of a wild one but I like it!
Fast-forward three hours...
She, our mutual friend and I have lunch and drinks. We go for a walk in the park and I finally get my opportunity, our friend had to leave but she wasn't ready. I invited her to my place to have an outside fire, and a few drinks in the hot tub... Worked like a charm. Hour by the fire, ten minutes in the tub, in the bed, satisfied customer.
I was able to pull her once more and then out of the blue she decided she wanted to go back with the EX!?! Well, I managed to get her to spend the night again and bedded her down again but then the next day she said no more. Well, we've made out like 6 times since then.
Now, I feel like I may be entering friend zone but there is still a HUGE amount of sexual tension between us. I see her maybe once a week without the "boyfriend" but the last time was the first time I didn't get more than a hug.
My question is, is it too late? Have I blown it? If not, what steps do I need to take to get her out of her crazy boyfriend's arms and back in mine without screwing up my other game?
Sorry if that was longwinded, trust me its the abridged version.
I was out with the guys at a local/dive bar about 6 weeks ago, BEFORE I knew what i was doing... I met a girl and really didn't think anything of it until I was leaving. She's friends with an old female friend of mine and as I was leaving, she opened my passenger side Jeep door and said, "I had a really great night meeting people, especially you..." There was an obvious sexual innuendo so I immediately offered her a ride home. She said she couldn't that her BOYFRIEND was taking her home and he was already pissed she was talking to me. I said, "Are you sure?" She fleetingly grabbed my hand and nodded as she shut my door. Dammit, I thought, the one that got away...
The next morning I find her through my friend's Facebook and start up a conversation with her. Apparently that night, her boyfriend went ape shit insane, busted out a window of her car and ripped her turn-signal switch out while she was in it! I told her call the cops! She said she couldn't 'cause she returned the favor. She is now calling him her EX-boyfriend... Needless to say she's a bit of a wild one but I like it!
Fast-forward three hours...
She, our mutual friend and I have lunch and drinks. We go for a walk in the park and I finally get my opportunity, our friend had to leave but she wasn't ready. I invited her to my place to have an outside fire, and a few drinks in the hot tub... Worked like a charm. Hour by the fire, ten minutes in the tub, in the bed, satisfied customer.
I was able to pull her once more and then out of the blue she decided she wanted to go back with the EX!?! Well, I managed to get her to spend the night again and bedded her down again but then the next day she said no more. Well, we've made out like 6 times since then.
Now, I feel like I may be entering friend zone but there is still a HUGE amount of sexual tension between us. I see her maybe once a week without the "boyfriend" but the last time was the first time I didn't get more than a hug.
My question is, is it too late? Have I blown it? If not, what steps do I need to take to get her out of her crazy boyfriend's arms and back in mine without screwing up my other game?
Sorry if that was longwinded, trust me its the abridged version.
