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SlyGuy

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Long story short; 2 girls come over, one passes out in her own puke and the other walks her way to my bed to sleep, I escalate but don't have the motivation or sex-drive to overcome her resistance because I had sex like 8 times that day and I was slightly drunk. I finger her and definetely turned her on ladadada, but don't penetrate her vaginally. I know it's all situational, which i elaborate on below, but are the chances fairly low I'll get another shot at actually getting my dick in her? Also anything I could do to increase the chances?

Okay so I'm laying in my bed, it's about 12:30am, and I'm about to go to sleep when I get a call from a girl, lets call her brunette, who I don't commonly chill with but she has been to my house more than a few times to drink and chill because she's also friends with my younger brother and sister. She's definitely cute enough to hang out with so I decide to answer and ask her what's up. She asks me if there are people over at my house drinking and chilling and I reply with no; she than mentions how her friend, lets call her blondie, just got off work and they're looking for something to do. I have chilled with brunette a few times when other people came over to chill and I've also chilled with blondie once before with brunette and other people but it never escalated into anything. So I say they're welcome to come over and drink some beers and they say okay cool and come over. So it's just brunette, blondie, and me.

Once they get here we chill in my room and they want to play with my snake so I take it out for them to play with, (actual snake, not sexual). We listen to music and drink some beers for a little while until we decide to roll up a blunt and smoke it outside. After we finish smoking the blunt we decide to play beer pong and while we're out there we wake up my sister and her boyfriend; so they come out and play with us too. This whole time I am definitely making sure to touch than physically and flirt in any way i can smoothy; I decide I'm going to try to hook-up with blondie but I flirt with them both.. just blondie more. I make sure to stand close, put my hand on her lower back, other simple ways to touch, one time we make two really nice shots at the same time and she hugs me. So ladadada we go back inside and we take some bong rips than we go out back because they want to smoke some cigarettes. While we're out there brunette starts puking and she lays down and refuses to get up; I start to get cold and say I'm going to go inside for a minute and not to much later blondie comes in and says we should just leave her out there for a while and that shes ready to go to bed. Well this whole time I've been trying to figure out how I'm going to isolate blondie from brunette and escalate and than she just takes it upon herself to go to my bed to sleep. That made things a whole lot easier.. so from there I just start making out with her obviously and I try to escalate sexually. But wait; there's a catch. I had sex 8 times already today and I even told brunette and blondie that because they asked how my day was and I thought it was a pretty good day because of that. Lol. They both knew who I hooked up with 8 times that day because they've seen her over at my house with me before recently and it's just known at my house. So even though I'm trying to escalate, my dicks about as soft as it can get because I've already had sex 8 times.. but I'm like fuck it I'm still going to try anyways. Well every time I try to get on top of her; or in between her legs with my body she resits and positions her body to make it hard on me. She says 'nuh-uh' and ladada, but I can also get her in the moment where she starts grinding me and such. But I can't get my dick hard enough to really turn her on without her letting me on top of her; which she doesnt let me do. I manage to start fingering her for a little while but after she gets into it she stops me. I also obviously rub all up and down her body and try to take her pajama pants off once but she pulls them back on. She tells me to just go to sleep but I keep trying; I'll stop for a little and than start trying again. I think I may have stopped for too long.. just a few minutes; than started slowly making out and such again and it may have been better to continue to persist from the first go with better push-pull.

Ultimately, we both fall asleep and I never penetrate her vaginally; is it safe to assume she's going to lose attraction because I didn't overcome her resistance? I think if I hadn't had sex 8 times that day with someone else and also wasn't slightly drunk than I would have had the motivation and energy to be able to overcome her resistance. Any advice on getting another shot?

Thank you for taking the time to read this and I really appreciate any responses!
 

SlyGuy

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UPDATE:
The next night I went out to a free concert in my city with a group of friends and she was there. I hung out with her through the group of friends and did some talking, eye flirting, but that's about it. By then end of the night I went home with her brother because I was ready to go and him and I are friends; and she tagged along. I think she was willing to come inside and chill with me but the brother wanted to just take her and him home; so I didn't persist. Today; a couple days later, I get a message from her on facebook saying "Hi", i say about an hour later "Hey you.". What do you guys think of all of this so far? She left her shoes in my room and I can bring that up and as the conversation evolves I'll bring up the topic of chillling but I'm not sure what she was expecting when she messaged me. Do you think I can still have sex with her without dating, chasing, or anything even after the first failed seduction attempt?
 

SlyGuy

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This is how our texting conversation went; let me know please if I'm playing this wrong.
Her: Hi

Me: Hey you

Her:Whats up?

Me: Class... whats up with you?

Her: Same, you go to bcc (local community college)?

Me: Nahh, I goto a school that actually requires some thinking, FIT.

Her: Hahhah, Nice
Her: Are you just studying to get a degree or are you studying for a major or ?

Me: Studying for software engineering.. always been interested in technology. What do you hope to do after high school?

Her: Hmm, thats good your interested in something, to tell you the truth I used to want to be a massouse or a dental hygeniest but I dont know anymore

Me: Give me a massage sometime and I'l;l let you know if youve got a gift or not ;) Lets chill sometime this weekend and watch a movie or something

Her: Lol I think I have good hands, but I work all weekend, and would it be weird, I mean id feel bad

Me: Ill be the judge of that.. and we can chill after you get off, better than just going home to sleep dont you think? And there's no reason to feel bad.

Her: Yeah thats true lol but the reason id efel bad is I got kinda bitched at for what happened friday night, I mean I dont like drama so.. (lil bit of back story.. another fwb got pissed when she found out)

Me: A girl that doesnt like drama?? Thats surprising. But that wont happen again I promise plus no one has to know.


Her: I stay away from it, and true, ill have to think about it im srry im just hestiate

Me: Its cool, no worries. I just thought you seemed pretty interesting and wanted to chill some more and get to know you better.

Her: Really??

Me: Yeah I like the way you hold yourself and when I look in your eyes there seems to be so much more to find out (am I being too relationship like???)

Her: Thank you I appreciate it, and yeah there is more. but most people dont care to find out what there is, but then again i feel as if theres nothing to me cause i dont open up to people

Me: Well I'd like to get to find out what else there is to you because I think you seem pretty interesting. I'm busy most this week though so if youre down I saw we chill this weekend after work and maybe listen to some eminem (we both like eminem a lot) and figure out what else we have in common.

Her: Haha okay SlyGuy, so what do you want to talk about?

PLEASE GIVE ADVICE IT IS MUCHO APPRECIATED.. Am I setting the wrong frame?
 

SlyGuy

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I was kind of confused by her last text asking me what I want to talk about; did she mean right than in text or this weekend? who knows.. I just ignored it which might not be the best option but I don't really care about this girl; just practicing my process I guess.
Does this text mean she's qualifying me for a boyfriend?
 

SlyGuy

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This morning she texted me "Goodmorning!" I don't have time to text her though.. I need some advice for this situation please! Is she worth my time, am I just leading myself and her on?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Stewie

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Firstly , relax man. We are all busy people and can't answer one guys post. That being said, you should not be building rapport over text. Big no no. When she texted you, you should have thrown in a little flirting and then try to set something up pronto. By building rapport over text, you are showing her that you aren't a busy guy and can text all day indicating how NOT high value you are. Remember high value men don't have time to text for hours on end, we got shit to do:D. Next time she contacts you ( and I suggest you let her contact you to build back up your value) don't beat around the bush, get straight to the point. Example:

Her: good morning!
You: hey pretty lady, hope your day has started well!
Her: thanks and yours?
You: busy per usual! Hey when are you free, we need to get together sometime soon and chill. Hope the rest of your day goes well:).


That's it!

Cheers,
R4l
 

SlyGuy

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I apologize for being antsy, I just really wanted some advice and it seeeeemed like everyone was getting replies but me. Thank you for your response as well I appreciate your advice; I realized the mistake after I made it and moved towards setting up a date. If anyone else has any insight it would be greatly appreciated!
 

lux7

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Jeez, blondie actually suggested to leave her own friend lay down on her own vomit. Talking about the kind of friend you'd really love to have! :)
 
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