Hey guys,
Just need a bit of advice.
Met a girl and we've been getting to know eachother over the last couple of weeks.
We've never gone out on an official date yet as she has apparently been working some crazy hours. She's apologized for not being able to get together yet.
Been playing it with the law of least effort, keeping most of my text short and simple focused on meeting up and common interests general stuff.
I messaged her about meeting up again this week.
My question is :
1. Should I next her if she comes up with another excuse to not meet up or does not respond?
2. Would you agree on a bit of persistence? I know this is contrary to the laws of least effort but have you found that a bit of persistence pays off? I'm finding that if you completely leave it hanging it doesn't really lead to anything and unless they are invested in you chances are they won't be reaching out to meet up.
Your thoughts?
Thanks
Just need a bit of advice.
Met a girl and we've been getting to know eachother over the last couple of weeks.
We've never gone out on an official date yet as she has apparently been working some crazy hours. She's apologized for not being able to get together yet.
Been playing it with the law of least effort, keeping most of my text short and simple focused on meeting up and common interests general stuff.
I messaged her about meeting up again this week.
My question is :
1. Should I next her if she comes up with another excuse to not meet up or does not respond?
2. Would you agree on a bit of persistence? I know this is contrary to the laws of least effort but have you found that a bit of persistence pays off? I'm finding that if you completely leave it hanging it doesn't really lead to anything and unless they are invested in you chances are they won't be reaching out to meet up.
Your thoughts?
Thanks
