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They are twins, not identical ones though. [I'll use names to make it easier to understand] So I first started dating Slindile for about a month or two. I was emotionally insecure back then. She cheated on me, well not exactly, she told me that she's leaving me for another man. It didn't really bother me, so I was very understanding and I let her go. A year later, say early 2011, I went into what turned out to be a very long relationship with her sister Zanele while maintaining a good friendship with Slindile. They say "You can't be just friends with someone you fell in love with". There has always been that sexual tension between us since we attended pretty much all of our high classes together. She once confessed to still loving me and how hurt she was that her sister (Zanele) went behind her back and dated her ex - things that she never did, even when she wanted to. I wasn't really interested in her drama - I just thought that she was jealous of what I had with Zanele. She went into a relationship with one of my close cousins. Things went well for them, but changed the moment she refused to sleep with my cousin which I found very amusing having bedded her before.
Moths later she began complaining about how Boring it is to date my cousin. I suggest the greats from this site to my cousin, but he accused me of being too "close" to his girl so I backed off for a while and tried knocking some sense into his head a while later - impossible.
So the dude went to university this February, leaving Slindile in my capable hands
. Slindile became bored and lonely - spent more time with me afterschool and on weekends.
Three weeks ago I got a call from Zanele who asked me to fetch Slindile at a hair salon down the road. I picked her up minutes later and she told me to just drive around for a while before taking her home. I drove half way into the city and stopped, things escalated to point X and I drove her back home.
My relationship with Zanele hasn't been great for whatever reason/s this week. I read on Chase's Knowing When to Break Up with a Girl post and honestly, I think it's high time I DO break up with her, considering the things Chase has covered are exactly what I've not only went through this week, but are a constant hicup in our relationship. So yesterday, in our Physics class, while sitting there bored and exhausted; Slindile showed up with a long face and told me all about how weak of a man my cousin is for the hundredth time. "Why stick in a relationship you're not happy in - let alone a long distanced one?" I asked... Failing to respond, I excused myself and went home early. I listened to a recorded conversation with her and my cousin this morning and saw endless text from him, begging for a second chance. She broke up with him. "It's your turn" she said with a grin on her face.
Her (slindile's) feelings are somewhat mutual to mine. The thing is, what if I break up with Zanele and not have a long or as fun of a relationship with Slindile? And what if I don't break up with Zanele and have Slindile upset with me to a point where she tells Zanele that I've been messing around with her and end up losing both of them.
P.S. She once told Zanele that I've bedded her, but Zanele simply laughed it off saying "we'd never do such a thing to her" not knowing that Slindile was serious.
Moths later she began complaining about how Boring it is to date my cousin. I suggest the greats from this site to my cousin, but he accused me of being too "close" to his girl so I backed off for a while and tried knocking some sense into his head a while later - impossible.
So the dude went to university this February, leaving Slindile in my capable hands
. Slindile became bored and lonely - spent more time with me afterschool and on weekends. Three weeks ago I got a call from Zanele who asked me to fetch Slindile at a hair salon down the road. I picked her up minutes later and she told me to just drive around for a while before taking her home. I drove half way into the city and stopped, things escalated to point X and I drove her back home.
My relationship with Zanele hasn't been great for whatever reason/s this week. I read on Chase's Knowing When to Break Up with a Girl post and honestly, I think it's high time I DO break up with her, considering the things Chase has covered are exactly what I've not only went through this week, but are a constant hicup in our relationship. So yesterday, in our Physics class, while sitting there bored and exhausted; Slindile showed up with a long face and told me all about how weak of a man my cousin is for the hundredth time. "Why stick in a relationship you're not happy in - let alone a long distanced one?" I asked... Failing to respond, I excused myself and went home early. I listened to a recorded conversation with her and my cousin this morning and saw endless text from him, begging for a second chance. She broke up with him. "It's your turn" she said with a grin on her face.
Her (slindile's) feelings are somewhat mutual to mine. The thing is, what if I break up with Zanele and not have a long or as fun of a relationship with Slindile? And what if I don't break up with Zanele and have Slindile upset with me to a point where she tells Zanele that I've been messing around with her and end up losing both of them.
P.S. She once told Zanele that I've bedded her, but Zanele simply laughed it off saying "we'd never do such a thing to her" not knowing that Slindile was serious.
