I'm one of the people taking Hector's lesson.
If you have the money, then I recommend taking his lesson. My results improved a bit after taking the coaching lessons (before I had dates but not consistent, after I could consistently get dates).
If you don't have the money, you can find wing men from this forum, or other forum. Just post your phone number and area in this forum, and usually you will have people contact you (not right away, but over a next few months).
Either the wing men will be higher skills than you or lower skills than you. It's random.
You can learn from the ones with higher skills.