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superseducer

Space Monkey
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“Hey i’d be down to hang out as friends but I have a boyfriend.”

I get this text a lot. Problem with sexual intent or should i just ignore the boyfriend thing?
 

empath

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“Hey i’d be down to hang out as friends but I have a boyfriend.”

I get this text a lot. Problem with sexual intent or should i just ignore the boyfriend thing?
Never experienced this myself.

I picked up a girl from cold approach, though she didn't told me he have a boyfriend, there was an issue in her relationship and I ended hooking up with her and taking her as my Gf.

Now about your situation I would ignore it and try best to seducer her, coz she know your intentions, right?

Then calibrate according to her actions,
If she encourages and participates in flirting and touching escalate more.

If she don't then take her as friend or stop hanging out with her.

I made an online date my friend after first date itself, there was no vibe

Now she acts as my wing woman. Today only she tried setting me up with her single friend.

So the basic is escalate and calibrate.

Also, discuss her relationship to figure out whether there are chinks in the relationship.

Also, previously guys here have laid girls in your situation, search LRs.
 

superseducer

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Never experienced this myself.

I picked up a girl from cold approach, though she didn't told me he have a boyfriend, there was an issue in her relationship and I ended hooking up with her and taking her as my Gf.

Now about your situation I would ignore it and try best to seducer her, coz she know your intentions, right?

Then calibrate according to her actions,
If she encourages and participates in flirting and touching escalate more.

If she don't then take her as friend or stop hanging out with her.

I made an online date my friend after first date itself, there was no vibe

Now she acts as my wing woman. Today only she tried setting me up with her single friend.

So the basic is escalate and calibrate.

Also, discuss her relationship to figure out whether there are chinks in the relationship.

Also, previously guys here have laid girls in your situation, search LRs.
never experienced is crazy.

Just for reference I do day game on campus 10k university size
 

superseducer

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I am not getting time to put this much volume, so maybe that. Yeah i guess it's more common in day game.
Na I didn’t mean anything by it, I just figured it meant there was definitely something wrong with my approach.
 

empath

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Na I didn’t mean anything by it, I just figured it meant there was definitely something wrong with my approach.
Well you need to give details of your interaction.

When ever, I have gotten friendzone was 1) being very fun to be around 2) lacking physical touch 3) girl not being into me 4) not running game properly i.e. no push pull, not showing intent, talking on random topics instead of those that move seduction forward, lack of chase framing, not being dominant efc.

Now if I was not fun and other factors included, she would have thought I am no good in anyway and would have left me, i.e. not offered even friendship.

Now if number 3 is issue but if I run my game properly I can turn a read/yellow into green and escalate with the touch

If number 2 is issue then seduction will stall

If number 4 is issue she might give me few more shots but I need to move things forward or again seduction will stall.

Maybe post some field reports or summary of your interaction

Also, compare your successful approach vs unsuccessful ones.

Also, for this particular case hang out and see how much forward you can move things
 
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isildur1

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If she has a boyfriend just move on- don’t get yourself involved being the third wheel of a relationship you don’t want to be responsible for a girl cheating or a relationship break up

2017 In Mexico I pulled a Australian woman who told me she had a boyfriend at the time I didn’t give a f but the next morning she was depressed as f that her relationship had ended and I was at least partly responsible I will never have sex with a woman in a relationship again

just date women who are single it’s much better for you and gives you peace of mind. You never know she might have a psycho boyfriend that might come after you - I believe one Alan roger currie’s students f’ed a woman with a boyfriend the boyfriend then found out and shot him- a once in a blue moon scenario but definitely not out of the realms of possibility . ( not saying you will get shot everytime you have sex with someone with a boyfriend but you are putting yourself at risks of conflict)
 

superseducer

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If she has a boyfriend just move on- don’t get yourself involved being the third wheel of a relationship you don’t want to be responsible for a girl cheating or a relationship break up

2017 In Mexico I pulled a Australian woman who told me she had a boyfriend at the time I didn’t give a f but the next morning she was depressed as f that her relationship had ended and I was at least partly responsible I will never have sex with a woman in a relationship again

just date women who are single it’s much better for you and gives you peace of mind. You never know she might have a psycho boyfriend that might come after you - I believe one Alan roger currie’s students f’ed a woman with a boyfriend the boyfriend then found out and shot him- a once in a blue moon scenario but definitely not out of the realms of possibility . ( not saying you will get shot everytime you have sex with someone with a boyfriend but you are putting yourself at risks of conflict)
If he was her husband maybe.
 

Bill Juan

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It's token resistance mostly.
Meaning consciously she is trying to friendzoner you but subconsciously she would be open to sex if you manoeuver properly.
Let's look at it like this :
- I have had students take home a married woman and fuck her the same day , and the said woman lied about being married. Denied it until after having sex .

- I also have had students try to pick up a chick in daygame, see her boyfriend join her, leave the Interaction but then the chick ran after him and asked for his number . In front of the boyfriend.

The common factor was an indirect approach, and building subconscious attraction.
 

superseducer

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It's token resistance mostly.
Meaning consciously she is trying to friendzoner you but subconsciously she would be open to sex if you manoeuver properly.
Let's look at it like this :
- I have had students take home a married woman and fuck her the same day , and the said woman lied about being married. Denied it until after having sex .

- I also have had students try to pick up a chick in daygame, see her boyfriend join her, leave the Interaction but then the chick ran after him and asked for his number . In front of the boyfriend.

The common factor was an indirect approach, and building subconscious attraction.
That's what I'm trying to hear!
 

Bill Juan

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Having sex with a woman in a relationship comes down to personal morals and preferences.
I don't teach morals, I teach tools that work . I give you the gun . I don't tell you when to shoot with it .
 

DarkKnight

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2017 In Mexico I pulled a Australian woman who told me she had a boyfriend at the time I didn’t give a f but the next morning she was depressed as f that her relationship had ended and I was at least partly responsible I will never have sex with a woman in a relationship again
Dont white knight for her. She likely knew what she was doing at least subconsciously. I am assuming you didnt hypnotize her.

@superseducer

Super seduce her. If she is uncomfortable you will know. She isnt stupid, she knows what you want.
 
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