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Hi all,
Got this text from a few girls over the past months.
Some girls suggest this in a kinda cute, shy way (group A). Other girls are quite condescending, i.e. "i'm busy, so make it spontaneous", or "please let's make it spontaneous, i don't like planning lately" (group B).
My attitude as of late is to come up with an excuse for the meet if she's group A, as she's probably quite nervous. For group B I'd force a schedule, i.e. "spontaneously never works unfortunately. what about thu or fri? don't worry, we can reschedule if something comes up".
I haven't fully tested this strategy with an extensive number of girls tho, so I was wondering if there's a better way to approach this, especially with group B. Although I suppose it could be a frame issue on my side with this group.
Ciao,
-en
Got this text from a few girls over the past months.
Some girls suggest this in a kinda cute, shy way (group A). Other girls are quite condescending, i.e. "i'm busy, so make it spontaneous", or "please let's make it spontaneous, i don't like planning lately" (group B).
My attitude as of late is to come up with an excuse for the meet if she's group A, as she's probably quite nervous. For group B I'd force a schedule, i.e. "spontaneously never works unfortunately. what about thu or fri? don't worry, we can reschedule if something comes up".
I haven't fully tested this strategy with an extensive number of girls tho, so I was wondering if there's a better way to approach this, especially with group B. Although I suppose it could be a frame issue on my side with this group.
Ciao,
-en
