Letting the girl plan the dates.(Time sensitive)

[Skippy]

The girl I made out with on tinder wants to meet up again. We agreed on Saturday.

Her: Saturday night. Hmm I can plan this one. bc you did the last one.

I'm a little worried since last time, she suggested watching Hamlet. Instead I told her I already had a surprise planned (bringing her to my place for dinner) if I had followed her lead, I would have spent the evening watching men in tights instead of making out with a pretty girl in my room.

So how would you recommend I respond in case she ends up doing something that's not conducive to us getting together.

 

[Reave Krieger]

Two Options

Hi ShuaiGe,

My opinion on that: Either try to reclaim your lead to set up the date (you are the man so you lead) or you let her set up the 2nd date (if she insists) and decide how to "handle" the date. What I mean is, that you can maybe turn it around later.. When you watch Hamlet for instance, then you could somehow get her alone with you afterwards or during a pause?! Be somewhat spontaneous and take action when opportunities come up.

Just some thoughts from me

 

[Skippy]

Thanks for the advice jumok, I'll use it in the future. In fact, its sort of what actually ended up happening.

I responded saying

Me: Gonna try and seduce me, huh...I think that's your "plan" anyways, see you on saturday!
Her: LOL just returning the favor. Don't set your expectations too high though

I just responded by throwing a chase frame since I figured she was already investing by trying to plan the date. When we met up and got dinner, we were planning to watch a film screening but she was like "do you just want to watch another movie instead" and so we went back to my place where fun stuff happened