FR library moments

[skin_man]

Yesterday, 13th February.

I approached the first girl at the library. Initially she was rather aloof to speaking to me. She kept looking at me like she didn't know what my intention for speaking to her was. Eventually I bit the bullet by telling her I was talking to her cuz I thought she was cute. After I made this clear, I just kept the convo going on. It seemed to work out but she was only getting comfortable speaking to me (not excited). after a few more minutes, I introduced myself and she did as well, then I left.
After I left, she did her study time and left the library.
From that interaction,I found out a few bits about her via deep diving. It was hard cuz she did not'hook'(which I've been working on for some time now.

Next encounter was at the library with one of my staff whom I'd asked out earlier last week. She was not available cuz of a deadline. Anyways I got talking with her at the contrasty. It was rather awkward for the first few minutes but I handled it smoothly by making her break circle a bit in my behalf (asked her to call the person sitting next to her for me to tell him something). After I did that,I could tell from her body language that she was feeling stressed but I kept my cool and remained quiet a bit. Then she started talking to me. I think I challenged her quite a bit cuz she immediately started qualifying herself. Then she began telling me her background, her ambitions...my! I could see that she was hooking.

In the middle of her story, I asked her to move with me. Now, we're in the library but I ask her to leave her seat to a place not too far. Then she said she was tired. I didn't expect that cuz the next thing that came out my mouth was me saying that I was tired too. She said I could go home...she so on. I still tried to move her and even left and called out to her. Ouch!

She didn't come. I left her there without another word and there I know I'm moving on from her.

Maybe I've been a bit different to her over the past moments but Yh. If she still wants to tell me her story, good for her but I'm gonna look for more muffins to bake . I probably could have let her speak a bit more and flirt lightly before trying to move her. Maybe she didn't think I was even listening, which wasn'T the case.

Any comments or recommendations.

 

[Garrett]

skin_man,

If a girl doesn't move when you tell her to, don't waste your time, she's not interested. Keep practicing, and once you get a girl to move with you, you'll know you're in .

Garrett

 

[Chase]

Skin Man-

One note:

In the middle of her story, I asked her to move with me. Now, we're in the library but I ask her to leave her seat to a place not too far. Then she said she was tired. I didn't expect that cuz the next thing that came out my mouth was me saying that I was tired too. She said I could go home...she so on. I still tried to move her and even left and called out to her. Ouch!

She didn't come. I left her there without another word and there I know I'm moving on from her.

It's very difficult to move girls who are already sitting down into standing / moving positions. If a girl's standing or walking, it's very natural to get her to move elsewhere with you and to sit down, unless she's VERY high energy, but the reverse is true for sitting. Path of least resistance... it's easy to sit when you're standing, but not so easy to stand when you're sitting.

To get some initial movement with girls who are sitting, it's much more effective to tell them to move over or slide down, and you pull up a chair or grab a seat yourself. Have them move to make room for you first, and only try to move them out of a seated position once they are very into you and you have somewhere good to take them that you'll know they'll be excited about (e.g., your place for drinks or a movie).

Chase