FR++ LMR she wins over

[josephjo]

So I meet this girl last night at a bar before I went home. Had some great convo really hitting it off chemistry wise but didn't have the logistics to take her home, made some tentative plans to meet the next day. Today I go meet her, shuffle her, great convo, deep dive, even start some make outs on the date. I invite her home and she agrees, within 5 mins shes on my bed and we are full on making out. We both take our shirts off and its getting hot and heavy but when I try to finger her, she starts the LMR (last minute resistance). So I stop, rinse, repeat make out making her horny, dry humping and all that crazy jazz. Around 10 (about 45 mins we've making out now) she tells me shes has to pick her friend at the airport so she has to go soon and sets an alarm. At this point I just start laughing at her telling her shes a crazy tease and we keep going. Eventually I get worn out, couldn't get her pants off and she bails to get her friend. I try to end on a good note not being needy or mad, she jokes that we never watched the comedian Gabreial Igesias that she came over to see and I said "Just means you have to come back" then she says "Really?" I respond with "maybe" in order to keep the mystery. Walk her to the door kiss goodbye and I give her a spank.

As I write this FR, it pains me with serious blue balls. Now I know Chase wrote that I should ignore her for a week and try some preselection in order to get her back. The only problem I just moved to the city so I don't have the social circle in order to pull this off. Is there any other options for me? Or some advice to handle LMR, especially in a time limit situation (I.E girl has something to do, friends to go back to, etc... time constraint)

 

[NarrowJ]

This sounds like ASD (Anti Slut Defense) to me. She wants to fuck, but she's making you see her a couple times first so you don't view her as just another easy hoe. Don't wait, but don't press either. Text her tomorrow afternoon and tell her you had a great time hanging out with a nice winky face or something, and use any response from her as a basis to schedule the next meetup. All she's doing is making sure you're not going to totally bail after she sleeps with you. Build a little more rapport on the next date, deep dive, and I bet she doesn't resist as much.

Let us know what happens, cowboy!
-NJ

 

[josephjo]

This sounds like ASD (Anti Slut Defense) to me. She wants to fuck, but she's making you see her a couple times first so you don't view her as just another easy hoe. Don't wait, but don't press either. Text her tomorrow afternoon and tell her you had a great time hanging out with a nice winky face or something, and use any response from her as a basis to schedule the next meetup. All she's doing is making sure you're not going to totally bail after she sleeps with you. Build a little more rapport on the next date, deep dive, and I bet she doesn't resist as much.

Let us know what happens, cowboy!
-NJ

Sent a follow up text today, no response. Was thinking doing radio silence for a day and then following up again. Also having some issues with catching feelings, any advice?