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Hey guys, after talking to Dern, I had a moment of clarity, and decided to write this post out for guys who are struggling to bring women home because they are in high school and live with their parents still, so I'm going to break down your logistics.
As a side note, this is what works for me, this is from my own life, and that's how I'm writing it =)
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There are about three things that you'll want to handle first:
-Understanding
-Privacy Factor
-X Factor
Understanding
With understanding, you'll want to talk to your parents about it. At 17 or 18, most parents understand that this is a time when you'll be sexually active. So switch roles! You set them down and give them the birds and the bees speech! Seriously though, sit down with your parents and discuss your perspective, let them know your interest in women, let them know you'll be safe, you'll use protection. Because you approach them about it with the information at-hand, they're more likely to view you as responsible, and will be more likely to accept your view =)
With my dad and myself, he knows I'll be bringing women home, but he's fine with it as long as I use a condom.
With women, you'll want to tell them up front that you're living with your parents while you're in school. Don't lie and make plans on days where your parents won't be home... restricts you to a time constraint, and she'll auto-reject when she walks through the door of the house and sees your baby pictures all over the walls. Be serious with her about it, if she's interested in you, she won't mind. I'm 18 taking 22-25 year olds home who know I live with my dad, it's generally not a problem as long as you have:
A Privacy Factor
You'll want a space to yourself where you can escalate sexually. Maybe it's a room with a TV and DVD player, your bed and a laptop, the basement with an air hockey table (Yes. I laid a girl on her air hockey table. HAHA) But you'll want a spot where your parents won't go, and won't hear anything. When you bring a girl home, your parents will usually allow for some privacy, so that's your go-to spot! For me, it's my room with a locked door and a TV, Xbox 360 for Netflix, and a very comfortable bed that makes no noise. ( My mom came by one time and heard my bed springs going... Good thing I can persuasively explain things)
But that's what you want. You want some privacy, an area to yourself and her where you can escalate from start to finish.
X-Factor
This is something I pretty recently found out about. Women love sex! and most are turned on to sexual danger. (by that I mean spots or situations where something can go wrong. Public fucking where people can walk by, fucking on your parents bed while they're out...). New exciting sexual situations.
So play it up! It's a thrill for her to fuck you while your parents are home, provided that she's experienced and doesn't care too much about it. Most girls I bring home don't really care and can handle themselves rather well. But that's your X-Factor, the new exciting sexual situation.
I wrote this in a rush in-between two college classes, so if you have questions, feel free to reply.
-Richard
As a side note, this is what works for me, this is from my own life, and that's how I'm writing it =)
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
There are about three things that you'll want to handle first:
-Understanding
-Privacy Factor
-X Factor
Understanding
With understanding, you'll want to talk to your parents about it. At 17 or 18, most parents understand that this is a time when you'll be sexually active. So switch roles! You set them down and give them the birds and the bees speech! Seriously though, sit down with your parents and discuss your perspective, let them know your interest in women, let them know you'll be safe, you'll use protection. Because you approach them about it with the information at-hand, they're more likely to view you as responsible, and will be more likely to accept your view =)
With my dad and myself, he knows I'll be bringing women home, but he's fine with it as long as I use a condom.
With women, you'll want to tell them up front that you're living with your parents while you're in school. Don't lie and make plans on days where your parents won't be home... restricts you to a time constraint, and she'll auto-reject when she walks through the door of the house and sees your baby pictures all over the walls. Be serious with her about it, if she's interested in you, she won't mind. I'm 18 taking 22-25 year olds home who know I live with my dad, it's generally not a problem as long as you have:
A Privacy Factor
You'll want a space to yourself where you can escalate sexually. Maybe it's a room with a TV and DVD player, your bed and a laptop, the basement with an air hockey table (Yes. I laid a girl on her air hockey table. HAHA) But you'll want a spot where your parents won't go, and won't hear anything. When you bring a girl home, your parents will usually allow for some privacy, so that's your go-to spot! For me, it's my room with a locked door and a TV, Xbox 360 for Netflix, and a very comfortable bed that makes no noise. ( My mom came by one time and heard my bed springs going... Good thing I can persuasively explain things)
But that's what you want. You want some privacy, an area to yourself and her where you can escalate from start to finish.
X-Factor
This is something I pretty recently found out about. Women love sex! and most are turned on to sexual danger. (by that I mean spots or situations where something can go wrong. Public fucking where people can walk by, fucking on your parents bed while they're out...). New exciting sexual situations.
So play it up! It's a thrill for her to fuck you while your parents are home, provided that she's experienced and doesn't care too much about it. Most girls I bring home don't really care and can handle themselves rather well. But that's your X-Factor, the new exciting sexual situation.
I wrote this in a rush in-between two college classes, so if you have questions, feel free to reply.
-Richard
