London cold approach: Should I set the details of the date when I meet her or leave it for texting?

[razir110]

Hi lads, I am continuing my battle on the streets on London and pfew.. it's a bit frustrating let me tell you!

I need a little advice here, so I open her, talk bla bla, then I go "we should go for a drink" she says "ok"
MY QUESTION:
Should I set the date? Like "cool, when u have some time?" and kinda let it set at Xpm X day right there,
Or should I exchange numbers and then text her to set the date?

I do the former, however, I've been getting quite a lot of fake numbers for some reason, may be just an anomaly, but it may also be because the girl feels too much pressure or something, because I am setting up all the details right there? Maybe it's better to leave it for later?

What you guys think?

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

There's no guarantee that you'll see her again, which is what you're trying to do.

If you set the date and get the # - she "forgets".
If you leave it to text - she will leave it on read.

There's no rock solid technique to make her responsive/or show up later. Ultimately she has to deeply buy into you and her, and generally that's very difficult to do.

Some girls will of course be keen, but Krauser said himself, God of the London Day Game Model, he only ends up hooking up with a chick in 1 in 20 times.

Her Life has a way of intervening in on your plans, and even a strict promise will be broken. Because who are you to her really? Some random dude from the street.

The error most day game guys make is thinking that a good 5-15 minutes of chatting her up/kino, means the girl is into them to such an extent that she wants to see him again. That sort of works outside of the Anglosphere - (UK, US, AUS, CAN), but even then it's hit and miss.

It's a lot like the night club. Pay for a girls' drink, dance for hours, sloppy kisses on the dance floor - but if you don't take her home THAT NIGHT, probability of hooking up drops considerably.

WIA

 

[razir110]

West_Indian_Archie Two things,
1 I think you are way too negative about day game.. What is the solution then, to go to apps? Or to nightclubs? (not) For me day game is still by far the best method, even though London is snobby af, but hey this is where I live, so this is what I have to deal with.
2. Your comment didn't answer my question, is it better to set the date or to leave later for text? @Hector Castillo tells to propose the date and get the number then, but doesn't specify if I should set the place etc or leave for later,

So this is my main doubt here

 

[ProblemSolving]

Personally, when I ask a girl out, I purposefully make it easy for her to say, "No". This is to screen out the girls that really have no desire to see me again.

So instead of saying, "We should get drinks sometime", I usually go with, "Would you like to get drinks sometime?"

What you are doing is what is called "assuming the sale" which is great for getting numbers, but not so great for screening out the buyers from the window shoppers.

My way tends to cut through more of the bullshit and asks her directly if she's in or out. Once she bought into my date proposition with a "Sure" or "Sounds good", then I just exchange numbers.

Figure out the date, time, location, and logistics over the phone.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

So this is my main doubt here

As someone that has done this a lot - it doesn't matter

Pick one and stick with it - your results will be the same. Once she leaves your presence, the only reason that she will make plans with you/or keep plans - is how much you've affected her.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Hi lads, I am continuing my battle on the streets on London and pfew.. it's a bit frustrating let me tell you!

I need a little advice here, so I open her, talk bla bla, then I go "we should go for a drink" she says "ok"
MY QUESTION:
Should I set the date? Like "cool, when u have some time?" and kinda let it set at Xpm X day right there,
Or should I exchange numbers and then text her to set the date?

I do the former, however, I've been getting quite a lot of fake numbers for some reason, may be just an anomaly, but it may also be because the girl feels too much pressure or something, because I am setting up all the details right there? Maybe it's better to leave it for later?

What you guys think?

Fellow Londoner here, I like to set the date.

Why?

1. Allows me to gage her interest level

2. Makes follow up texting easier

You can be pleasantly surprised with girls saying... I’m free now or in a few days vs week