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Going out with a bang. Very fresh of the press as the girl literally left my place 15 minutes ago.
The girl
Pretty & petite brunette. If anyone has spoke to me or read my reports you know this type is my weakness. She was Asian too which I love & on the edgier side with a few self-added tattoos.
My outfit
One of my worst lol. I had no intention to approach girls & went out solely for my weekly food shop. I had black Nike gym shorts, a white T-shirt, blue vans and a black baseball cap.
Approach
This Sunday I was on the phone to a friend and stopped at a spot because I had bad signal. I noticed her on a bench reading a book so I said I’d call my friend back before walking over taking off my cap & saying
“Saw you and liked your vibe / had to say hello... I think it was your air forces, not seen those before”
Honestly don’t really think what I said mattered much. As I was in a good sociable mood & it came across. She was also super receptive so it was straight forward.
From there I followed the structure of my daygame guide before asking what she was doing after we exchanged numbers.
Same day date / pull
Turns out she’s free so I say what about a walk now? I know a park nearby And she agrees. I then say let me drop of my groceries and don’t worry I won’t be weird and invite you to my place and she says
“You can invite me if you’d like”
**ding ding ding green light.
Long story short she comes to mine, I deep dive / learn about her & we kiss and play around but no sex happens. Throughout I’m chill & maintain the frame of “only what you’re comfortable with”
She also mentions how she was sexually assaulted before and in my head I think so why the hell are you here at a strangers house lol but out loud I say well “it’s impressive to see you have such a bright energy that hasn’t been dimmed by that experience”
Full blown “womanese.” I feel like part of the problem with how I communicate in dating now
We end the day on good terms and squeeze in a walk in between us fooling around on my bed and she agrees to come over on Wednesday (tonight) for “cake”.
2nd Date Pull & LMR
The 2nd date is more of the same. Lot of conversation and physical intimacy.
Early on she says “we aren’t having sex tonight”
just lol. At this point girls saying that increases the % chance.
Some physical escalations later I verbalised her LMR and said I get it you’re conflicted because you want to but are holding back for whatever reason.
“I only want people who are fully into me.” (Copied from this forum)
Turns out she’s seeing a therapist and is working on building “better boundaries” whatever the that means but she wants to have sex.
I say do what you want but you shouldn’t let past things effect the present and future. She asks if that is me trying to “convince her” & I say god forbid again I only want girls who are into me (she perks up to say she is) & I Confidently say I don’t do “convincing”.
Sex
Ends up being an act of attrition. 2 hours in she shows me her pants which are soaked through with how wet she is. I start of offering her a massage. Playfully getting her to take her top off because “it gets in the way”. Before she gives me a massage. I then flip over kiss a bit more and she says “just a finger no sex” which then leads to “do you have a condom”?
Post Sex
She smokes, we have cake and have good conversation after with her lying on me. She’s clearly working through some stuff & I think what won her over sex wise is when I made it clear that us having sex changes nothing. We’ll just carry on doing what we have been doing.
I then get her an Uber home as it’s late.
Prediction
This girl isn’t wifey material and even if she was I’m not maintaining a rotation anymore as I focus on other things. Cool experience & I can read this in a year’s time when I need to brush off rust.
DWW out x
The girl
Pretty & petite brunette. If anyone has spoke to me or read my reports you know this type is my weakness. She was Asian too which I love & on the edgier side with a few self-added tattoos.
My outfit
One of my worst lol. I had no intention to approach girls & went out solely for my weekly food shop. I had black Nike gym shorts, a white T-shirt, blue vans and a black baseball cap.
Approach
This Sunday I was on the phone to a friend and stopped at a spot because I had bad signal. I noticed her on a bench reading a book so I said I’d call my friend back before walking over taking off my cap & saying
“Saw you and liked your vibe / had to say hello... I think it was your air forces, not seen those before”
Honestly don’t really think what I said mattered much. As I was in a good sociable mood & it came across. She was also super receptive so it was straight forward.
From there I followed the structure of my daygame guide before asking what she was doing after we exchanged numbers.
Same day date / pull
Turns out she’s free so I say what about a walk now? I know a park nearby And she agrees. I then say let me drop of my groceries and don’t worry I won’t be weird and invite you to my place and she says
“You can invite me if you’d like”
**ding ding ding green light.
Long story short she comes to mine, I deep dive / learn about her & we kiss and play around but no sex happens. Throughout I’m chill & maintain the frame of “only what you’re comfortable with”
She also mentions how she was sexually assaulted before and in my head I think so why the hell are you here at a strangers house lol but out loud I say well “it’s impressive to see you have such a bright energy that hasn’t been dimmed by that experience”
Full blown “womanese.” I feel like part of the problem with how I communicate in dating now
We end the day on good terms and squeeze in a walk in between us fooling around on my bed and she agrees to come over on Wednesday (tonight) for “cake”.
2nd Date Pull & LMR
The 2nd date is more of the same. Lot of conversation and physical intimacy.
Early on she says “we aren’t having sex tonight”
just lol. At this point girls saying that increases the % chance.
Some physical escalations later I verbalised her LMR and said I get it you’re conflicted because you want to but are holding back for whatever reason.
“I only want people who are fully into me.” (Copied from this forum)
Turns out she’s seeing a therapist and is working on building “better boundaries” whatever the that means but she wants to have sex.
I say do what you want but you shouldn’t let past things effect the present and future. She asks if that is me trying to “convince her” & I say god forbid again I only want girls who are into me (she perks up to say she is) & I Confidently say I don’t do “convincing”.
Sex
Ends up being an act of attrition. 2 hours in she shows me her pants which are soaked through with how wet she is. I start of offering her a massage. Playfully getting her to take her top off because “it gets in the way”. Before she gives me a massage. I then flip over kiss a bit more and she says “just a finger no sex” which then leads to “do you have a condom”?
Post Sex
She smokes, we have cake and have good conversation after with her lying on me. She’s clearly working through some stuff & I think what won her over sex wise is when I made it clear that us having sex changes nothing. We’ll just carry on doing what we have been doing.
I then get her an Uber home as it’s late.
Prediction
This girl isn’t wifey material and even if she was I’m not maintaining a rotation anymore as I focus on other things. Cool experience & I can read this in a year’s time when I need to brush off rust.
DWW out x
