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So yesterday I went out solo, since my "wing" was doing something else (two weeks ago we went out and I approached 2 girls and made out with both, but nothing else came from it, still it felt good to "be back", last week we went to the same bar and the police shut it down like as we arrived lmao). It's this popular bar in walking distance from my apartment, it's always crowded on Fridays/Saturdays nights and the police eventually comes to deband everyone, it's almost becoming a passtime of mine taking note of when the police arrives each night (they have been coming sooner and sooner, this place is even more crowded than usual this night).
I'm in line to take my drink (some gay-ass strawberry/ginger drink that is the most popular in this bar), and the line has almost 20 people, I'm thinking the police is gonna come before I even get to taste it. In front of me there's a gay couple being friendly (not really hitting on me, though), two friendly guys with big beards behind me and 3 girls behind these guys. Those girls are pretty young and cute, I wanna talk to them, but the guys behind are between us, and there's not much room to move around, but them they go ahead of me because they just want beer. I take this chance to ask the girls:
"You girls are gonna take beer as well?"
"No, we ordered drinks!
"
They look friendly and attracted, I caught every single one looking down at me and playing a bit with their hairs and clothes. I asked this in a bit of an authoritive manner as well, today I was feeling like I had to turn on my Chuck Bass mode, be cocky and bossy and walk around like I own the place, it seems to be working. That said, I should have been more aggressive right away and turned my attention to one of them, but with all of them being equally cute and giving me IOIs, I couldn't choose (appreciating women so much sometimes backfires lol). I take my drink and walk around, I wanna see whatelse I can find before the coppers come...
I'm trying not to get drunk, last time I went out I drank too much, I approached a "hot" girl, scantily clad and with a great body and fundamentals, but her face not so much, could only tell when closer, because I'm not using glasses. She said I wasn't her type, after having some decent convo and giving me a cigarette, probably because I didn't quite go aggressive/escalated fast enough (it could be I wasn't her type, but I was bummed out that I broke up with this girl I've been seeing for 7 months). Either way, I didn't want my break up affect my mood and drag me down, so drinking less was vital, I figured, plus I wanted to practice game as sober as possible this night (I'm also by myself, so if I get too vulnerable I could get screwed big time).
I see a hot blonde that is my type in a group with two other girls, she doesn't look super down but she looks distracted, but she's on her phone all the time and I chicken out a bit. I was thinking this afternoon about how sometimes I just do physical moves and hope girls will open me verbaly, but I figured it's only fair they are only gonna talk to me if I start the convo, so I thought that getting some "physical" response from them that makes it easier to open would be good enough (this whole Chuck Bass persona thing is making me try to mind sprezzatura as much as possible). But it doesn't quite work: I hover a bit near them, she looks a bit a me, but them a bunch of guys appear around, apparently they were part of their group (almost everyone here is in big groups, big bummer), I think it's too much work to sweep on all those guys and bounce.
I look the other way around though and there's a blond-ish girl with green eyes lookin down at me, she's a bit isolated in her group, so I go in right away:
"Hi, what's your name? ;D"
"I'm L"
"Pleasure to meet you, I'm B"
I make some shitty small talk, I can tell I'm rusty, I try getting closer to her and escalating physically but I can tell there's something between us. Some guys from her group come to me and start chatting me up, they are surprisingly friendly (I thought they were gonna cockblock me or tell me she had a boyfriend). I start talking to them and I realize they are quite a bit younger (I'm almost 26, these kids are averaging 21). Not really surprising, most people hanging out there are quite young, but I feel like a bit of a grampa. In fact, that's a bit of a barrier for me right now, most of those younger girls seem too dumb to entretain me in conversation, I try being more physical and just escalating hard, but it seems the dissimilarity fucks me up more often than not (I'm really dying to get some younger hot pussy though).
Anyway, these guys tell me she just broke up with her boyfriend, the brother of one of them, a week ago, that she's hurt, and that she's kinda nuts in relationships. They commend me on coming out solo and I become a bit of a celeb in the group, at least with the guys (generally it's the other way around lmao). They also tell me to go for her and seem to be cheering. I try talking more with her, but she seems in a really shit mood and she isn't giving me much to work with. I drink a bit with them (okay, I wasn't gonna drink, but they offered me a bit of free whiskey, there's no way I'm gonna turn that down, and I'm still pretty much sober anyways) and they start smoking, so I smoke as well. It's been a while since I managed to make new friends going out solo, though that used to be routine on Friday/Saturday night before corona.
We go to a gas station to pee, there's some hot girls with some dumb guys, they seem pretty attracted to me (sorry if this is redundant at this point lol), but it's just too random, they are drunk, those guys are with them, I can't tell who's with who, what the fuck is going on, really. They buy some more cigarettes, we smoke more, I talk to this other really blonde and young girl in the group, she's 19, and really bubbly, but I can tell she's probably the smartest person in the group, along with her "boyfriend" (she tells me she's waiting for him to ask her to be his gf for 5 months as I joked that me, she and her boyfriend should all go to this restaurant she says she's interested in). I can't tell if her boy is gay or a player, he's a nice looking stylish dude, maybe he's neither. I'm thinking of sweeping, but I like this group, and I kinda like this girl and her man, so I chill a bit. She tells me one of the guys I met innitially kissed her before (without her wanting or expecting it, apparently they were just talking on the beach as friends and he pulled her and kissed), she asks me what type of friend is that (refering to the guy being friends with her "bf"). Dunno if I can trust her, but the whole situation seems nuts to me, I would have punched the motherfucker out of my life right away. Maybe her bf doesn't know, but she feels confortable telling a random guy she just met? WTF. Or maybe he's a bit of a cuck... WTF squared!
Anyway this couple joins us there, they are friends of them all, apparently. The guy is a buff jock type of guy, but he's friendly and not that dumb, and the girl is the chubbier in the group, but not totally unfuckable. Actually there was another chubby girl, but she barely speaks or participates in group...
We join the rest of the group that was still in the bar, after buying cigarettes, so, by this point, the group consists of:
- Me, lonely old boss that just joined the kids clan
- The guy that cucked this own friend (I mean, it was just a kiss
- The other friendly guy that talked a lot with me when I joined the group (those two seem to be the "mother hens" or the leaders, though they seem to be more into getting chicks than being with the group, really, they are also the oldest, with 23)
- Asian guy with the whiskey
- The girl looking for a rebound (or not, with me at least)
- Young cute smart blonde
- Her little (cuck) boytoy that won't ask her to be his gf
- Buff jock friendly dude
- His chubby-ish girlfriend
- Soldier boy (he's from the army, barely speaks)
- Guy that reminds me of an stoner friend from school (joined later with Soldier boy)
- Oh, also the other chubby ugly girl that is barely there, she talks a bit to me, but she seems a bit boring
Asian guy suddenly have to go use the bathroom as well, so we the guys® all go back to gas station. He complains that we left him there on a crucial moment: there was a 5 set of girls on the side of our group in the bar (honestly, I didn't even think they were cute enough to approach, but my man can't be too picky), and he says they were giving him IOIs, but he didn't have "numbers" to approach (apparently he wanted 5 of us to charge into the 5 girls lmao). In the gas station there's 2 cute-ish girls in a 4-set, but my brain decides the only hot enough for me was the craziest chick that is screaming at her phone about her friends' ex was a piece of shit and she knew but never told her, so I'm like, naaah.
We come back, and then we see something... random, something... none of us was expecting, really:
Rebound girl is in the arms of buff jock guy, and they start making out, as we arrive...
I look at the other dudes faces and they were like "WTF", I was like, ok, I expected maybe some other dude would do it, she clearly wasn't giving me room for it, or at least I wasn't thinking it was worth the effort sticking with her, but the other dudes are like "isn't this dude with his girlfriend?".
His girlfriend looks frustrated, she looks at them making out, them looks away, she away from the group, the two making out between us and her, I can feel the bad vibe from meters away. Apparently they have an "open" relationship, and buff jock guy just went for it. Now it looks like he and rebound girl are the couple, and his "girlfriend" another chubby girl outcast in the group.
I start looking for other sets to approach, and the other dudes too, I have this kinda pissed off attitude towards rebound girl and buff guy, they kinda look down as I stare them. Honestly, it wasn't because he got the girl and I didn't (though, of course, my lack of sucess so far isn't making my humor any better), it's how ridiculous this all looks, his girl looks fucking miserable, but she still says it's fine, and that she also "gets lots of guys", but honestly, it looks fucking trashy. This makes me think of my break up with my girl, how I told her that I wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and she told me she has been on an open relationship before, and she will never do that again. I've been two years on an open relationship with my previous girl, and I never made anything sexual with other girl in front of her, out of respect. I knew she would feel bad and I didn't want that, so even if I wanted to go out and pick up, and even fuck other girls, I wouldn't be rubbing it in her face. That's just shitty, really. If this is what an open relationship looks like, then I totally understand what my girl was saying, that's fucking selfserving horseshit.
Anyway, the police eventually comes, everyone is leaving the place, stampeeeede, except not, people walk slow because this is the "upper" part of town and the police wouldn't do anything too crazy, bunch of pawns. That said, people we asking for it, there was a police car right on the side of the bar, and people were only getting louder and wilder near it. We go a bit to the side, but the whole group still near the bar, I'm thinking of leaving them and going to some other bar I know some older people hangout until 3AM and the police doesn't ever show there (because it's not that crowded). But I stick around for now, I have a good feeling.
Finally, as the police is leaving, we start walking towards a nearby square, which is generally were people go (and the police too, eventually), and I see a car with hot girls in, like a bunch, so I had to approach. I start walking towards it, the other two guys come along, the girls aren't leaving quite yet.
I think I say something like "good night ladies", cucker boy says "wow some many cute girls in this car ;D", they start chatting us, they inside the car, we lening into into from the sidewalk. A beautiful brunette looks into me, but I'm trying to see all the girls, we get the IGs of all of them; as I'm talking to the other girls, cucker boy is already making out with the brunette, I'm like, dang, I'm really slow today, but congratz to him, he persisted a bit with her and got a french kiss in like less than a minute. We wish them a good night and leave, so far one of them followed me back and we started chatting, as we were leaving, the brunette was like "text me " to me, so i was like, hell yeah, but she didn't answer it (I mean, it's fucking sunday and she was probably hammered or at least tired, but I'm not gonna create expectations).
Either way, I had a lot of fun, I was like, hell yeah, now I'm feeling you guys are for real, they were like, same, it was a boys bonding moment. Afterwards not much happened, but the guys invited me to some private crazy party that will happen on Halloween, they got my contact, let's see if it goes through.
I'm still trying to process everything from last night, I think it's gonna be a while, but I think it was fundamental for me getting back in the game, now that bars and night life in general is coming back here in my city. MORE TO COME SOON!
I'm in line to take my drink (some gay-ass strawberry/ginger drink that is the most popular in this bar), and the line has almost 20 people, I'm thinking the police is gonna come before I even get to taste it. In front of me there's a gay couple being friendly (not really hitting on me, though), two friendly guys with big beards behind me and 3 girls behind these guys. Those girls are pretty young and cute, I wanna talk to them, but the guys behind are between us, and there's not much room to move around, but them they go ahead of me because they just want beer. I take this chance to ask the girls:
"You girls are gonna take beer as well?"
"No, we ordered drinks!
"They look friendly and attracted, I caught every single one looking down at me and playing a bit with their hairs and clothes. I asked this in a bit of an authoritive manner as well, today I was feeling like I had to turn on my Chuck Bass mode, be cocky and bossy and walk around like I own the place, it seems to be working. That said, I should have been more aggressive right away and turned my attention to one of them, but with all of them being equally cute and giving me IOIs, I couldn't choose (appreciating women so much sometimes backfires lol). I take my drink and walk around, I wanna see whatelse I can find before the coppers come...
I'm trying not to get drunk, last time I went out I drank too much, I approached a "hot" girl, scantily clad and with a great body and fundamentals, but her face not so much, could only tell when closer, because I'm not using glasses. She said I wasn't her type, after having some decent convo and giving me a cigarette, probably because I didn't quite go aggressive/escalated fast enough (it could be I wasn't her type, but I was bummed out that I broke up with this girl I've been seeing for 7 months). Either way, I didn't want my break up affect my mood and drag me down, so drinking less was vital, I figured, plus I wanted to practice game as sober as possible this night (I'm also by myself, so if I get too vulnerable I could get screwed big time).
I see a hot blonde that is my type in a group with two other girls, she doesn't look super down but she looks distracted, but she's on her phone all the time and I chicken out a bit. I was thinking this afternoon about how sometimes I just do physical moves and hope girls will open me verbaly, but I figured it's only fair they are only gonna talk to me if I start the convo, so I thought that getting some "physical" response from them that makes it easier to open would be good enough (this whole Chuck Bass persona thing is making me try to mind sprezzatura as much as possible). But it doesn't quite work: I hover a bit near them, she looks a bit a me, but them a bunch of guys appear around, apparently they were part of their group (almost everyone here is in big groups, big bummer), I think it's too much work to sweep on all those guys and bounce.
I look the other way around though and there's a blond-ish girl with green eyes lookin down at me, she's a bit isolated in her group, so I go in right away:
"Hi, what's your name? ;D"
"I'm L"
"Pleasure to meet you, I'm B"
I make some shitty small talk, I can tell I'm rusty, I try getting closer to her and escalating physically but I can tell there's something between us. Some guys from her group come to me and start chatting me up, they are surprisingly friendly (I thought they were gonna cockblock me or tell me she had a boyfriend). I start talking to them and I realize they are quite a bit younger (I'm almost 26, these kids are averaging 21). Not really surprising, most people hanging out there are quite young, but I feel like a bit of a grampa. In fact, that's a bit of a barrier for me right now, most of those younger girls seem too dumb to entretain me in conversation, I try being more physical and just escalating hard, but it seems the dissimilarity fucks me up more often than not (I'm really dying to get some younger hot pussy though).
Anyway, these guys tell me she just broke up with her boyfriend, the brother of one of them, a week ago, that she's hurt, and that she's kinda nuts in relationships. They commend me on coming out solo and I become a bit of a celeb in the group, at least with the guys (generally it's the other way around lmao). They also tell me to go for her and seem to be cheering. I try talking more with her, but she seems in a really shit mood and she isn't giving me much to work with. I drink a bit with them (okay, I wasn't gonna drink, but they offered me a bit of free whiskey, there's no way I'm gonna turn that down, and I'm still pretty much sober anyways) and they start smoking, so I smoke as well. It's been a while since I managed to make new friends going out solo, though that used to be routine on Friday/Saturday night before corona.
We go to a gas station to pee, there's some hot girls with some dumb guys, they seem pretty attracted to me (sorry if this is redundant at this point lol), but it's just too random, they are drunk, those guys are with them, I can't tell who's with who, what the fuck is going on, really. They buy some more cigarettes, we smoke more, I talk to this other really blonde and young girl in the group, she's 19, and really bubbly, but I can tell she's probably the smartest person in the group, along with her "boyfriend" (she tells me she's waiting for him to ask her to be his gf for 5 months as I joked that me, she and her boyfriend should all go to this restaurant she says she's interested in). I can't tell if her boy is gay or a player, he's a nice looking stylish dude, maybe he's neither. I'm thinking of sweeping, but I like this group, and I kinda like this girl and her man, so I chill a bit. She tells me one of the guys I met innitially kissed her before (without her wanting or expecting it, apparently they were just talking on the beach as friends and he pulled her and kissed), she asks me what type of friend is that (refering to the guy being friends with her "bf"). Dunno if I can trust her, but the whole situation seems nuts to me, I would have punched the motherfucker out of my life right away. Maybe her bf doesn't know, but she feels confortable telling a random guy she just met? WTF. Or maybe he's a bit of a cuck... WTF squared!
Anyway this couple joins us there, they are friends of them all, apparently. The guy is a buff jock type of guy, but he's friendly and not that dumb, and the girl is the chubbier in the group, but not totally unfuckable. Actually there was another chubby girl, but she barely speaks or participates in group...
We join the rest of the group that was still in the bar, after buying cigarettes, so, by this point, the group consists of:
- Me, lonely old boss that just joined the kids clan
- The guy that cucked this own friend (I mean, it was just a kiss
- The other friendly guy that talked a lot with me when I joined the group (those two seem to be the "mother hens" or the leaders, though they seem to be more into getting chicks than being with the group, really, they are also the oldest, with 23)
- Asian guy with the whiskey
- The girl looking for a rebound (or not, with me at least)
- Young cute smart blonde
- Her little (cuck) boytoy that won't ask her to be his gf
- Buff jock friendly dude
- His chubby-ish girlfriend
- Soldier boy (he's from the army, barely speaks)
- Guy that reminds me of an stoner friend from school (joined later with Soldier boy)
- Oh, also the other chubby ugly girl that is barely there, she talks a bit to me, but she seems a bit boring
Asian guy suddenly have to go use the bathroom as well, so we the guys® all go back to gas station. He complains that we left him there on a crucial moment: there was a 5 set of girls on the side of our group in the bar (honestly, I didn't even think they were cute enough to approach, but my man can't be too picky), and he says they were giving him IOIs, but he didn't have "numbers" to approach (apparently he wanted 5 of us to charge into the 5 girls lmao). In the gas station there's 2 cute-ish girls in a 4-set, but my brain decides the only hot enough for me was the craziest chick that is screaming at her phone about her friends' ex was a piece of shit and she knew but never told her, so I'm like, naaah.
We come back, and then we see something... random, something... none of us was expecting, really:
Rebound girl is in the arms of buff jock guy, and they start making out, as we arrive...
I look at the other dudes faces and they were like "WTF", I was like, ok, I expected maybe some other dude would do it, she clearly wasn't giving me room for it, or at least I wasn't thinking it was worth the effort sticking with her, but the other dudes are like "isn't this dude with his girlfriend?".
His girlfriend looks frustrated, she looks at them making out, them looks away, she away from the group, the two making out between us and her, I can feel the bad vibe from meters away. Apparently they have an "open" relationship, and buff jock guy just went for it. Now it looks like he and rebound girl are the couple, and his "girlfriend" another chubby girl outcast in the group.
I start looking for other sets to approach, and the other dudes too, I have this kinda pissed off attitude towards rebound girl and buff guy, they kinda look down as I stare them. Honestly, it wasn't because he got the girl and I didn't (though, of course, my lack of sucess so far isn't making my humor any better), it's how ridiculous this all looks, his girl looks fucking miserable, but she still says it's fine, and that she also "gets lots of guys", but honestly, it looks fucking trashy. This makes me think of my break up with my girl, how I told her that I wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and she told me she has been on an open relationship before, and she will never do that again. I've been two years on an open relationship with my previous girl, and I never made anything sexual with other girl in front of her, out of respect. I knew she would feel bad and I didn't want that, so even if I wanted to go out and pick up, and even fuck other girls, I wouldn't be rubbing it in her face. That's just shitty, really. If this is what an open relationship looks like, then I totally understand what my girl was saying, that's fucking selfserving horseshit.
Anyway, the police eventually comes, everyone is leaving the place, stampeeeede, except not, people walk slow because this is the "upper" part of town and the police wouldn't do anything too crazy, bunch of pawns. That said, people we asking for it, there was a police car right on the side of the bar, and people were only getting louder and wilder near it. We go a bit to the side, but the whole group still near the bar, I'm thinking of leaving them and going to some other bar I know some older people hangout until 3AM and the police doesn't ever show there (because it's not that crowded). But I stick around for now, I have a good feeling.
Finally, as the police is leaving, we start walking towards a nearby square, which is generally were people go (and the police too, eventually), and I see a car with hot girls in, like a bunch, so I had to approach. I start walking towards it, the other two guys come along, the girls aren't leaving quite yet.
I think I say something like "good night ladies
", cucker boy says "wow some many cute girls in this car ;D", they start chatting us, they inside the car, we lening into into from the sidewalk. A beautiful brunette looks into me, but I'm trying to see all the girls, we get the IGs of all of them; as I'm talking to the other girls, cucker boy is already making out with the brunette, I'm like, dang, I'm really slow today, but congratz to him, he persisted a bit with her and got a french kiss in like less than a minute. We wish them a good night and leave, so far one of them followed me back and we started chatting, as we were leaving, the brunette was like "text me " to me, so i was like, hell yeah, but she didn't answer it (I mean, it's fucking sunday and she was probably hammered or at least tired, but I'm not gonna create expectations).Either way, I had a lot of fun, I was like, hell yeah, now I'm feeling you guys are for real, they were like, same, it was a boys bonding moment. Afterwards not much happened, but the guys invited me to some private crazy party that will happen on Halloween, they got my contact, let's see if it goes through.
I'm still trying to process everything from last night, I think it's gonna be a while, but I think it was fundamental for me getting back in the game, now that bars and night life in general is coming back here in my city. MORE TO COME SOON!
