Looking for a Girls Chase Partner

[omgroflcopter]

Hey guys just wanted to make a post to try and get more active in the community. I'm looking to see if there are any beginners who would want to exchange text messages or something just to discuss approaches, I'm 25 yo and realized about 8 months ago that I was a total failure with women. I had been on some dates with nines and what not because of social circle and I always managed to fuck it up. Despite having flings and what not I'd always end up getting dumped and I wanted to do something about it. In June I started taking this more seriously and I actually got very lucky right away. Here's the link to that post. viewtopic.php?f=5&t=20840

Since then though, it has been rough. A LOT rougher than I realized. I have been getting rekt like it's nothing else and have faced more rejection than I thought possible. I always thought I was fairly good looking and a decent guy so I thought when I started approaching I'd at least get some dates. I have only had dates with three girls so far (Although two of those went very well and two I was very attracted to) One is this cute girl who I've been dating pretty consistently now and fucking so at least I have something to show for all of this. But I want to improve and I don't see why I cannot. I've been doing a lot of approaches. I try and do three approaches five days a week. I have been getting pretty close to this but want to be more consistent.

Anyway would love to have someone like me to talk to and discuss all this with. I think that would help with the mentality of this a lot. It really sucks having to go out by yourself all the time, approach, get rejected, and repeat. So if anyone is interested, feel free to message me. Would love to have a friend in this journey.

 

[Pitcher]

Hey dude, I’m new to this forum too, though I’ve known about game/PUA since 2012 and have dabbled with it since then. I think some aspects of my game are at a pretty beginner level, while other aspects I have a solid level of competence with.

I’m 26 yo and definitely relate to you with how tough this journey can be with the rejection. Having a buddy to break things down with and to motivate each other could be a game changer. All the guys I know in my community/who I’m friends with aren’t into this stuff at all and aren’t trying to get better at it. While it’s certainly valuable to be part of an online community, there’s a certain depth that’s missing if it isn’t a more engaged, 1 on 1, type of peer relationship.

I’ve been intending to create a post in the general forum asking for an accountability partner, someone who wants to be real talking about each other’s goals (in respect to success with women and in life in general) and pushing each other to take the action to achieve them.

One thing I’ll say to where you’re at is that you’re definitely a lot better off than other folks who start out with this. You seem to already have a good ability to be social, have friends, and it’s only a matter of fine tuning some of the man on woman interactions to get more consistent success. You’ve gotten some dates and are sleeping with a girl you met through cold approach which is a lot more than many beginners can say. Probably the biggest thing though is that you’re taking action. People can spend years watching videos and reading about techniques without putting in the work to meet women in real life. So major props for being here and taking action bro!

Here’s some stats about where I’m at with game:

Earlier this year I did a little over 100 day approaches in a big South American city over the course of 3 months. That was probably more day game approaches than I had ever done before in my whole life combined.

Out of those ~100 approaches...
-> ~60 hooked, and I had at least a minute conversation with
-> ~30 gave me their contact info, either Instagram or WhatsApp #
-> date with 10 of those 30
-> sex with 5 of those 10 (3 on 1st date, 1 on 2nd date, 1 on 3rd date)
-> more than one night of sex with 3 of those 5

All in all, I would say be patient, be kind to yourself and celebrate the fact that you’re taking action. You’ll get to a level that you’ll feel good about and I’m confident it won’t take you 7 years like it did me.