Looking for journals/field reports from indian men

[DonKiwi]

I'm struggling with my inner game, I feel like indian men (and asian men) can't be successful with women. I do not have an accent, I'm tall but still feel very anxious around women. I believe that journals and field reports from indian men will give a boost to my inner game journey by offering me a more realistic idea of the journey I'm going to undertake. Does anyone know any journal of FR from indian guys?

 

[Searcher]

You can look up a poster by name "Grand Pooba". He is a tribal elder. Also has articles on girlschase under the name Varoon rajah.

Good luck. Hope it's helpful.

 

[James D]

Hey man,

Just wanna say that I understand your insecurity.

I'm not indian but of indian decent. So I look 100% indian.

And you don't see many indian men pulling girls, it's true.

The thing to keep in mind about indian men is that what's unnattractive about most of them is their behaviour, not their raw looks.

I feel like this is what most indian guys who are insecure fail to grasp. They think that because their skin is brown or their features scream "Indian", women are gonna turn them down right away. This is not true.

You looking indian is not an immediate deal breaker. From my experience, unless a girl has had negative experiences with a bunch of indian men, she will be at least neutral, if not positively curious about you, especially if you look good (fashion, haircut, physique)

The good news? Behaviour is 100% malleable. You don't have the accent, that's already very good. Work on nailing down attractive traits.

The best news? You won't believe the boost in attraction you'll receive when you break the behavioural stereotype.

One last note: There's a guy in my building who slept with easily 20% of the hottest chicks in the building. I grabbed drinks with him, mainly to scrutinize him. He's obviously a natural. He has the sexiest vibe I've seen in person. He's also bi-sexual, which made sense because I had a feeling he was flirting with me xD He's indian, without the accent, tall, has dreads like Jack Sparrow and has a lay count >100

 

[Beam]

My background is Indian (fully born in the west and westernized though). Can't say I'm at the same level as someone like Grand Pooba (definitely check his journal/posts out) or some of the other posters here in terms of sheer skill/bodycount, but I've come a long way and have had some decent success over the last couple of years. The way I see myself and the world has completely changed. I can honestly say I'm not insecure about my race at all anymore like I used to be.

Check out my first journal here and my latest here if you're interested.

 

[Spyce D]

I'm struggling with my inner game, I feel like indian men (and asian men) can't be successful with women. I do not have an accent, I'm tall but still feel very anxious around women. I believe that journals and field reports from indian men will give a boost to my inner game journey by offering me a more realistic idea of the journey I'm going to undertake. Does anyone know any journal of FR from indian guys?

Don't worry , i am going to start one in few days .

Wait ! What you said ??? Indian men can't be successful .
Fuck off dude( just kidding)

But on a serious note , read actual indian history and learn about your culture rather than just being a victim without cause .

 

[trashKENNUT]

Which type of indian men?

- Bangladeshi men?
- East Indian men? As in India?
- Westernised Indian men in America/Singapore/South Korea?

And whether Hindu or Muslim?

If I passby great links, I try to gather as much notes and link it here.

z@c+

 

[Spyce D]

Just for your inner game . Do you think these men ever cried about being of Indian race .

And this is for any Indian guy who wants to whine about his race/color/whatever.

 

[DonKiwi]

Which type of indian men?

- Bangladeshi men?
- East Indian men? As in India?
- Westernised Indian men in America/Singapore/South Korea?

And whether Hindu or Muslim?

If I passby great links, I try to gather as much notes and link it here.

z@c+

South Indian men and fully westernized as I was born and have always lived in Italy. Religion? I don't know, I'm atheist and my parents are Catholic so it doesn't matter. It would really help to have more links from Indian men trying to pick up women.

Just for your inner game . Do you think these men ever cried about being of Indian race .

And this is for any Indian guy who wants to whine about his race/color/whatever.

I can't wait for your journal, man! I'm definitely gonna follow it. As for me, my inner game problems don't have anything to do with my value. I don't think of myself as inferior. My career goes well and people often tell me I'm smart. My inner game problems have to do with the belief that indian men can't be physically attractive to most women, yes you can be successful in your non-dating life but being smart and rich doesn't necessarily translate to genuine sexual desire from women. This is why I'm looking for more field reports and journals from indian men who have tried picking up women, I want to learn more about indian men who have tried implementing game to see their results. I'm the only indian guy under 30 in my town, there's not much I can learn from indians arounds me.

 

[trashKENNUT]

South Indian men and fully westernized as I was born and have always lived in Italy

Should not have as much mental block.

Until your family and relatives and friends starts 'moving their fingers in the cookie jar' and into your life.

Religion? I don't know, I'm atheist and my parents are Catholic so it doesn't matter. It would really help to have more links from Indian men trying to pick up women.

My Bangladeshi friend whom I work as a general worker with him. We work anything from selling to logistics and move things out of ship containers from time to time.

i love my friends there. Some foreigners, not so nice. But as a local working with a foreigner, doing the menial dirty messy blue collar work. It was a privilege. And I appreciate him for making my life less miserable.

He (Bangladeshi friend) confided to me that girls here are too liberal. And I understand him perfectly.

THe reason I asked is because India/Bangladeshi/South Asia/South East Asia and that even includes Japan, Singapore, Malaysia.

There is a lot of things that you are fighting, internally.
The pickup stuff is just work.
You need to actually put in the work.

z@c+

 

[Lover]

This is one of the most uplifting threads I've seen in a while. Kudos to you guys!

I'm the only indian guy under 30 in my town, there's not much I can learn from indians arounds me.

I understand the need for role models. Everybody needs role models in some capacity to look up to and get inspired from. I assume the reason that GirlsChase had authors of different races and different styles was that they could inspire those readers that were held back by their limiting beliefs.

I can't imagine what it feels like to be held back by beliefs like this - the traits you have no control over - except it sounds awful. I know lots of girls in sports look up to more accomplished girls, only because they share the same gender. The accomplishments dont even have to be that spectacular.

Similarity helps, I don't doubt that. But usually picking a role model based on similarity from traits out of your hand (gender, race, sexuality etc) isn't a good strategy long term. It may help you get a short boost because you want to overcome that limiting belief. But eventually you want to look up to someone getting the greatest results because you realize that whatever limiting belief you had before isn't holding you back anymore.

I've tried to teach sport students of my own this very thing - that they should disregard the traits that are out of their hands when they pick role models. Most of them stick to their limiting beliefs - it is their comfort zone - and keep looking up to similar people regardless of exceptionalism and results. But few of them let it go after some deep thinking shortly after. The latter quickly realize that they don't want be held back by these traits that are out of their hands, and they go look for other role models. And their development usually goes faster than those still held back by limiting beliefs.

I'm not saying don't get inspired by Indian seducers. Just don't let that be the reason you choose role models from.

 

[trashKENNUT]

I can't imagine what it feels like to be held back by beliefs like this - the traits you have no control over - except it sounds

It is awful.

Westerners just don't know. It goes back to the post on cult, and why Westerners are dumbfounded as to why half of their country, are literally zombies.

I'm not saying that the USA will decline although it is. It is however will not be as the USA that you guys know.

To make it simple for Westerners:
- Search Imam Tawhidi and The Rubin Report. He talks about being raised in Canada as a Muslim.
And this is not just Canada.
- Indonesia
- Malaysia
- Singapore
- Japan (not so much)
- India

Go and watch this whole fucking interview. This is pretty much the based of all Bangladeshi/Pakistan/South India/South East Asia India/Singapore/Malaysia/Indonesia

Often they are Muslims or Hindu.

Fuck it. I link it up here for USA friends. This is for Westerners who wants to understand the basis of every BETA guy of Asia/India/South East Asia.

LIsten to his early life. Only from awareness of the problem, we can start address it "properly".

 

[DonKiwi]

Lover​

I see your point and I do think it's detrimental to limit yourself to role models who look like you in most cases. The point is that some fields are more meritocratic than others. Sport is probably one the most meritocratic fields that exists, your actions - as opposed to your color - determine your success. The same applies to jobs, bias and discrimination exist but they have a very marginal effect on your opportunieis in most western countries statistically speaking. The only thing that has a lot of impact which you can't control is your family's financial opportunieies and this factor is often correlated to someone's ethnicity, yet this is not an excuse if you are Asian, Indian and especieally a woman living in the West.
But dating is different, there's a component of physical attraction that can't be changed through actions and most PUAs recognize this. How important is the physical factor? What kind of results can I expect with good game? I don't have a lot of studies to support this but I suspct the influnce race has on attraction is way more signficant than the effect gender discrimination has on the wage gap between men and women (if any).

 

[Lover]

I see your point and I do think it's detrimental to limit yourself to role models who look like you in most cases. The point is that some fields are more meritocratic than others. Sport is probably one the most meritocratic fields that exists, your actions - as opposed to your color - determine your success. The same applies to jobs, bias and discrimination exist but they have a very marginal effect on your opportunieis in most western countries statistically speaking. The only thing that has a lot of impact which you can't control is your family's financial opportunieies and this factor is often correlated to someone's ethnicity, yet this is not an excuse if you are Asian, Indian and especieally a woman living in the West.

We pretty much agree here.

But dating is different, there's a component of physical attraction that can't be changed through actions and most PUAs recognize this. How important is the physical factor? What kind of results can I expect with good game? I don't have a lot of studies to support this but I suspct the influnce race has on attraction is way more signficant than the effect gender discrimination has on the wage gap between men and women (if any).

I just read your post about being a recovering incel. You say there that you read a lot about mating, attraction and such.

If this is what your mindset is shaped by, then there is nothing I can say that will change that. You need to go meet (more) girls and break down your limiting beliefs yourself. I don't see how it will help you to read role model journals when taking into account that you like to read a lot. You really need to stop reading about all of this. Take this from someone who loves reading about these things too but couldn't apply anything significant for years.

I am of Middle Eastern heritage myself and lived all my life in Scandinavia. Some Arab guys in elementary told me I wouldn't get girls because I was too nerdy. I started meeting girls after that and even got a girlfriend way before them. They shut up about it after that. Never was race a problem to me and I have mostly hooked up, dated and slept with white girls. For me it's not about race but similarity, desire and sparks. I just happen to feel it more with white girls.

 

[Spyce D]

@DonKiwi

Watch this

 

[Spyce D]

Indian men are getting in relationship with women of all ethnicities . You just need to search on youtube .

So , don't be a downer on your race.

 

[Spyce D]

Read this article by @Chase https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sou...kQFnoECAMQAQ&usg=AOvVaw09IOdJtzZhajMp-u2NH1Cw.

You are the only one standing in your path .

Actually , i would like to thank @Chase for that article . It helped me a great deal.

 

[Spyce D]

 

[Spyce D]

Another one

 

[Spyce D]

Just search ' indian man , x ( race) wife' , you will find many photos and examples to learn from .