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Higher

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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So im taking a walk after work. Its blue hour and i see this lone girl taking pics at the lake and mountains. I position myself 10 meters or so away from her and do the same. As im doing this, i notice that she walks towards me and then stops at 1-2 meters distance. I "casually" see her and open.

Shes high energy and a bit loud. Is she on coke or something? Should i just run right now? Then i notice shes having beer, so i think, ok, maybe shes just drunk. Still not ideal, but at least we can try to have a conversation.

And it turns out shes fun and a bit quirky. She offers me a beer and a cigarette, we sit at the lake and we chat the evening away.

After 1h or so we go grab more beer, then i find the right moment to kiss her. She tells me where she lives and we start walking in that direction. I like this girl, but my doubts kick in and i pull back a bit. We sit somewhere on the way and i tell her that, you know, i like you but its a weird period for me because i havent been able to perform with a couple girls lately. Shes cool about that and we keep chatting and kissing.

We go get water and another drink while talking about sex, societal narratives and living in the moment. She thanks me for thinking the way i think about things -- and i thank this community for teaching me 😜

Its getting late and i soon have a train to catch. We talk again about her place and she says that she doesnt have place for me to sleep. Shes probably thinking, i dont wanna go home with this guy for an hour and then be all awkward if things go bad, and maybe have him go nuts if i wanna kick him out. And im cool with that. Plus, were a bit too drunk.

She walks with me towards the station, we sit somewhere close and we keep kissing and touching each other. I leave her after a bit.

She texts telling me that she could have taken the same train i was taking in order to get closer to her place, and in the meanwhile she could have made me more comfortable while on the train. I tell her not to worry, well see each other again.

Pretty cool evening, i had a lotta fun although we didnt close. Not sure now if i wanna see this girl again, well see.
 

gameboy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Nice! Kudos for being so brave to admit to this girl that you have trouble performing. Not sure if it helped you or rather sabotaged you, but it sure takes courage to be so honest.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Higher

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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@gameboy --

Not sure if it helped you or rather sabotaged you

I think that was the last nail in the coffin! Although she probably sensed my tentativeness before we even talked about it and just went along with it.

I wanted to try being upfront about it, never did it and probably wont do it again. Maybe better to be fully committed and tell her while at her place.

Anyway, I wasnt too wild about going to this girls place while drunk. Never know what kinda shit might go down.

Thanks for the feedback!
-en
 
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KJ Francis

Cro-Magnon Man
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I think you could have fucked this girl outside! Then if there's performance issues, no big deal or wasted time traveling.
 
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