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escalation once back at your place
... Lao Che mentions one of the ways he escalates is by telling a girl "Come here, help me check my grocery bill."
Lux raises a concern this makes you look cheap; Lao Che points out he's missing the point. I wanted to briefly expand on what that point is in this post.
So, like with Lao Che's example, it's pretty easy to use boring stuff to get flirting going on with a girl if you make it obvious through voice tone, facial expressions, and body language that this is something of no importance but you're simply using it to get close to her.
For instance, if you're using Lao Che's example, you'd look at her and say in a sexy voice something like, "Come help me check my grocery bill," and wave her over with a flirty expression on your face. She'll either jump right in with it and then you're touching and getting real close and flirting, or she'll resist:
"You don't need me to help you check that."
In which case, you persist: (still sexy) "Just come here." Have her come over, wrap her in close, touch. Maybe throw some innuendo in as you examine whatever it is you're examining ("Those carrots were pretty big, weren't they? Carrots aren't nearly that girthy where I come from").
Other examples of stuff you can use this with:
Etc. Any kind of demonstration or request for help is useful here. This works best when you're requesting she come close for something there's no real need for her to come close for. That's part of the fun. She knows you're flirting. You know she knows you're flirting (in fact, you're trying to make sure it's obvious). And she knows you know she knows. It's all part of the fun.
You don't have to do this just while back at your place, either. I'll do it out in public with a girl as we're getting close to the pull. Just be mindful if you're doing it there not to get her too excited before the pull, so she doesn't get self-conscious. Raise the temperature a little bit, then break things off, let it cool a little, then pull.
You'll typically be doing this later in the interaction once you've got a good vibe going, she's comfortable with your touch, and it's time to start escalating it to a close. Just another way of spicing things up a bit.
Chase
escalation once back at your place
... Lao Che mentions one of the ways he escalates is by telling a girl "Come here, help me check my grocery bill."
Lux raises a concern this makes you look cheap; Lao Che points out he's missing the point. I wanted to briefly expand on what that point is in this post.
So, like with Lao Che's example, it's pretty easy to use boring stuff to get flirting going on with a girl if you make it obvious through voice tone, facial expressions, and body language that this is something of no importance but you're simply using it to get close to her.
For instance, if you're using Lao Che's example, you'd look at her and say in a sexy voice something like, "Come help me check my grocery bill," and wave her over with a flirty expression on your face. She'll either jump right in with it and then you're touching and getting real close and flirting, or she'll resist:
"You don't need me to help you check that."
In which case, you persist: (still sexy) "Just come here." Have her come over, wrap her in close, touch. Maybe throw some innuendo in as you examine whatever it is you're examining ("Those carrots were pretty big, weren't they? Carrots aren't nearly that girthy where I come from").
Other examples of stuff you can use this with:
- Hey, come tell me if I'm reading this map right
- Come on, let's look at these pictures of that mountain
- Let me show you these souvenirs I picked up in Austria
- Sit over here, I want to show you this retarded guy I'm looking at over there
- Come sit with me, I want to show you what that crab crawling on me felt like
Etc. Any kind of demonstration or request for help is useful here. This works best when you're requesting she come close for something there's no real need for her to come close for. That's part of the fun. She knows you're flirting. You know she knows you're flirting (in fact, you're trying to make sure it's obvious). And she knows you know she knows. It's all part of the fun.
You don't have to do this just while back at your place, either. I'll do it out in public with a girl as we're getting close to the pull. Just be mindful if you're doing it there not to get her too excited before the pull, so she doesn't get self-conscious. Raise the temperature a little bit, then break things off, let it cool a little, then pull.
You'll typically be doing this later in the interaction once you've got a good vibe going, she's comfortable with your touch, and it's time to start escalating it to a close. Just another way of spicing things up a bit.
Chase
