Make yourself do things do don't want to do!

[Skid]

Hey guys, just a little trick that I wanted to share with you guys that I've found quite useful :

Whenever you find yourself in a situation where you know you should do something (say hi to the pretty girl , kiss the pretty girl) but you have a shit ton of anxiety and you don't want to do it...

Take a little step forward : do ANYTHING that moves you toward that action you are afraid of.

Once you are in the motion of doing an action suddenly it becomes WAY more awkward and terrible to bail from that action then go through with it : trap yourself.
When you see the girl walking towards you - walk directly in her path. If a girl is looking at you with really big pupils and smiling lean in. If there is a girl standing in line in front of you tap her shoulder. If there is a girl walking in front of you quicken your pace to catch up.

Skid

 

[Mystique]

Sounds like an effective tactic man! It's similar to a tactic I've found which is very useful to beginners in seduction like myself. I'm yet to write something on it. Also, I think this should be in the Tactics and Techniques boards (no?).

 

[Skid]

Thanks man! Yeah , you're probs right I'll try too get it moved.

 

[Skippy]

Hey Skid, just wanted to let you know that I used this on a date today and it worked great! I was thinking about greeting the girl with a hug all day and as I told you before I tend to chicken out, but this time, I put my arms out and my brain instinctively knew what to do. I just said "come here!" and gave her a hug. It ended up being really smooth!

 

[Skid]

Glad to help