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Hello, I know I should be trying to get over her, which I am. But I would like to try to recover my ex.
I was too easy to get and she sort of got bored, and then when i started being more jealous she couldn't take it anymore.
We broke up 2 months ago, I chased a bit, but then just left her alone. I resumed contact a few days ago (facebook), she seems very cold and very short, and only answers with the minimun neccesary, sometimes she keeps conversation but it's more like "how are you? fine, and you? fine" *silence*
There's a meeting of fans of a band we both like. And I know she will be there. I was thinking a good way to wake her up would be to make her jealous, either she becomes jealous and interesed in which case I can then try to get her, or she doesn't care at all in which case there's no more chance to get back together.
How should I go about it? Should I talk to her at all apart from saying hi to everyone? should I be a social butterfly and ignore her quite a bit, or should I still center mi attention on her (even tough she will only answer coldly and shortly).
Should I talk to all the group including her, until she wonders why i'm not trying to talk to her alone? when should I transition to talking to her if at all?.
After the meeting I was thinking about callig or chatting her up and asking her out, then I could be harder to get, fun, and a cool guy, and see how it works.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
I was too easy to get and she sort of got bored, and then when i started being more jealous she couldn't take it anymore.
We broke up 2 months ago, I chased a bit, but then just left her alone. I resumed contact a few days ago (facebook), she seems very cold and very short, and only answers with the minimun neccesary, sometimes she keeps conversation but it's more like "how are you? fine, and you? fine" *silence*
There's a meeting of fans of a band we both like. And I know she will be there. I was thinking a good way to wake her up would be to make her jealous, either she becomes jealous and interesed in which case I can then try to get her, or she doesn't care at all in which case there's no more chance to get back together.
How should I go about it? Should I talk to her at all apart from saying hi to everyone? should I be a social butterfly and ignore her quite a bit, or should I still center mi attention on her (even tough she will only answer coldly and shortly).
Should I talk to all the group including her, until she wonders why i'm not trying to talk to her alone? when should I transition to talking to her if at all?.
After the meeting I was thinking about callig or chatting her up and asking her out, then I could be harder to get, fun, and a cool guy, and see how it works.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
