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So a couple weeks ago, I matched with a girl on an online dating app and scheduled a date in like ~10 texts. I got her number and try to figure out her schedule but she has plans for the week so we decide to tentatively plan for the week after. In the week that passed, i forgot about her and therefore did not reach out. When I eventually remembered, I hit her up to schedule the date and we locked in a time, date and location (about 5 minute walk from my place).
To be honest, I was totally not looking forward to the date but I needed something to get the ball rolling for the year. I've been fully focused on night game but the past 6 months but I'm beginning to think dates are much more value for my money. The day of the date, we met at the agreed location and I notice she looks a lot prettier than in the pictures so I put my game face on and got to work. She seemed smart and has a lot of fun life experience (used to travel a lot) so we had a great conversation. Now here's where things get a bit funny
I started learning game during the summer time so I'm mostly used to bouncing girls from the first location to a couple outdoor locations before closing back at my place. It's winter time now (it was sub zero degrees during the date which i did not know at the time) so it's not as convenient to bounce girls to outdoor locations but I decided to do a short walk to a nearby park with an amazing view.
We get to the view and talk for a little bit more before I qualify her by telling her how she was much cooler than i thought she'd be. Then I went for the kiss. I break it off first but then she adjusts herself to face me properly before bringing my face in for another kiss. I definitely thought she wanted sex to happen that night so I attempted to pull but she mentioned she had school work due that night which i believe was true so I didn't push it more than twice. (Typically, i would have pulled to another location before pulling her to my place)
At this point, my fingers were starting to sting due to the cold so I mention to her that we go back to my place to catch some heat before she leaves so we walk in the direction of my place. Right before we get to mine, she sees a taxi and says she's running late so she has to get in. We kiss goodbye and i tell her to text me. She texts me later saying thanks for the date and that she had a great time.
We banter and flirt a bit over the next couple of days and I schedule the second date.
I'm sure she's into me but I don't do a lot of second dates (i mostly close on first date) so I want to figure out my strategy. My plan is to have her meet me at mine, chat, feel out the vibes and possibly go for the lay if I can sense she's into it. If I can tell it she's not there yet, I plan to take her to the date location and build up the sexual tension there before going home to close.
Thoughts?
To be honest, I was totally not looking forward to the date but I needed something to get the ball rolling for the year. I've been fully focused on night game but the past 6 months but I'm beginning to think dates are much more value for my money. The day of the date, we met at the agreed location and I notice she looks a lot prettier than in the pictures so I put my game face on and got to work. She seemed smart and has a lot of fun life experience (used to travel a lot) so we had a great conversation. Now here's where things get a bit funny
I started learning game during the summer time so I'm mostly used to bouncing girls from the first location to a couple outdoor locations before closing back at my place. It's winter time now (it was sub zero degrees during the date which i did not know at the time) so it's not as convenient to bounce girls to outdoor locations but I decided to do a short walk to a nearby park with an amazing view.
We get to the view and talk for a little bit more before I qualify her by telling her how she was much cooler than i thought she'd be. Then I went for the kiss. I break it off first but then she adjusts herself to face me properly before bringing my face in for another kiss. I definitely thought she wanted sex to happen that night so I attempted to pull but she mentioned she had school work due that night which i believe was true so I didn't push it more than twice. (Typically, i would have pulled to another location before pulling her to my place)
At this point, my fingers were starting to sting due to the cold so I mention to her that we go back to my place to catch some heat before she leaves so we walk in the direction of my place. Right before we get to mine, she sees a taxi and says she's running late so she has to get in. We kiss goodbye and i tell her to text me. She texts me later saying thanks for the date and that she had a great time.
We banter and flirt a bit over the next couple of days and I schedule the second date.
I'm sure she's into me but I don't do a lot of second dates (i mostly close on first date) so I want to figure out my strategy. My plan is to have her meet me at mine, chat, feel out the vibes and possibly go for the lay if I can sense she's into it. If I can tell it she's not there yet, I plan to take her to the date location and build up the sexual tension there before going home to close.
Thoughts?
