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i am sure pretty sure that most of us have meet most people from different walks of life, and there will be more adventures to get to know people from all walks of life, their cultures, their style, their standard of living, what they believe in and anything from food to this and that. Often i notice that most guys, don't know themselves all too often, and mix themselves with the people they do not want, and date girls whom they do not want and having to married a sub-par woman, and become negative for what they attracting and doing all the way until they die.
I feel that being a nice guy is not the real problem, that also means the things below is not the real problem
Dating sub-par women,
Having friends you don't like,
Having the life you do not like,
Having the job you do not like,
Religion and people feeding you and you don't draw the line,
and anything you do not want is not a problem, maybe it is BUT
having a perception that of disliking to a level of disgust and not inclusive of people doing those above mentioned things can make you not be ultimately successful and happy in life. I used to have friends i do not like, and i stick with them mainly because i do not have any, and when i did had friends, i disgust those previous. This is bad and i thought highly of myself and degrade those who were at least there for me even if they don't serve me, and i see it all too often with people in business. Saying riding a motorbike is not cool and cars are worthy although they haven't reach the level of success they have yet. This makes you sound all too confident and no material at all. And the worse part of all this, you lose friendships because you have this behaviour and responsiveness.
If you do not like something, spend less time investing in it!
Make peace with all the failures and the people you do not want in your life, and start focusing on what you can achieve and be genuinely content when you get what you want in life. Maybe you've dated girls that is not of quality but you get the sex and it's good and you ready to move on to learn more. You need to understand, that to achieve something, you need this pattern and to achieve that thing, there's another pattern. IT's good to blame but it's not all too good for being too often, and you make enemies and burn bridges. Worse if the person turns out to be a great person. It's better to leave that bridge intact. Smile if that person (you do not like or can't offer you what you want) smile at you, and go make your life great and get what you want, because you have the opportunity to make yourself awesome.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/faux- ... x-nouveaux
https://www.girlschase.com/content/your- ... del-flawed
Zac
I feel that being a nice guy is not the real problem, that also means the things below is not the real problem
Dating sub-par women,
Having friends you don't like,
Having the life you do not like,
Having the job you do not like,
Religion and people feeding you and you don't draw the line,
and anything you do not want is not a problem, maybe it is BUT
having a perception that of disliking to a level of disgust and not inclusive of people doing those above mentioned things can make you not be ultimately successful and happy in life. I used to have friends i do not like, and i stick with them mainly because i do not have any, and when i did had friends, i disgust those previous. This is bad and i thought highly of myself and degrade those who were at least there for me even if they don't serve me, and i see it all too often with people in business. Saying riding a motorbike is not cool and cars are worthy although they haven't reach the level of success they have yet. This makes you sound all too confident and no material at all. And the worse part of all this, you lose friendships because you have this behaviour and responsiveness.
If you do not like something, spend less time investing in it!
Make peace with all the failures and the people you do not want in your life, and start focusing on what you can achieve and be genuinely content when you get what you want in life. Maybe you've dated girls that is not of quality but you get the sex and it's good and you ready to move on to learn more. You need to understand, that to achieve something, you need this pattern and to achieve that thing, there's another pattern. IT's good to blame but it's not all too good for being too often, and you make enemies and burn bridges. Worse if the person turns out to be a great person. It's better to leave that bridge intact. Smile if that person (you do not like or can't offer you what you want) smile at you, and go make your life great and get what you want, because you have the opportunity to make yourself awesome.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/faux- ... x-nouveaux
https://www.girlschase.com/content/your- ... del-flawed
Zac
