Male competition

[DakenMarquis]

Hey guys I have a problem in social environments such as bars, restaurants, any place of work where there's cute girls. The co workers of these cuties I see really project their bullshit onto me and then these girls wonder why I dont hit on them, when they clearly want me.

I'm asking what do I do, when I'm an attractive guy, but feel awkward in situations where these cute girls are working and their co workers slander or try to amog, its awkward since I want to be able to conduct business but not get so overtly cock blocked. Should I be more Covert? How can I turn these situations to my advantage? Should I strengthen my social muscles more before I day game this openly.

(I am short and not white, but fit, well educated and handsome. I never talk about that since it seems too providerish or douchey depending on context)

 

[mist]

Some resources for you. Overall lean in. You'll be stronger for it.

1. https://www.girlschase.com/content/...theyre-good-instead-beat-them-what-theyre-not

Move differently OR Move better than the men surrounding you.

2. https://www.girlschase.com/content/navigating-highly-competitive-sexual-markets

Learn the market surrounding you.

3. https://www.girlschase.com/content/you-and-your-game-attract-certain-kind-girl

Learn how the market is reacting to you and where.

Understand that you are not a fixed person and can/should change, grow, and strengthen, maneuver as the situation/opportunities arise and present themselves.

 

[IntrovertDadSlayingit]

So are you talking about going after hired guns? Waitresses bartenders ect? I know I shoudn't take these off the table completely but the power dynamic already all weird and they get hit on all the time.

I think one of these service people that might be a better bet would be grocery store workers. Any experience picking these girls up?

 

[mist]

So are you talking about going after hired guns? Waitresses bartenders ect? I know I shoudn't take these off the table completely but the power dynamic already all weird and they get hit on all the time.

I think one of these service people that might be a better bet would be grocery store workers. Any experience picking these girls up?

This is for him BUT I'll answer as well

I have thus far taken out 1. She had a boyfriend. Didn't work out then, but she's much better now. Probably should and could have fucked her, but that might just be ego speaking *shrug*

That Dude Mist

What's a good opener? Hmmmmm.... guess I could use the best one of all. Hi. I'm Mist. I'll be using this to start becoming a top performer in this matrix or whatever. Here's some ground level stuff about me.

www.skilledseducer.com

Have hit on, slid number too, Been rejected by numerous others. Some more memorable than others but most of my pulls and near pulls aren't working girls and nowadays I mostly don't mess with them. (Nightgame comes ontop for closest pulls and or actual pulls.)

Low ROI for me higher likelihood of burning the venue.

Plenty of info on it as well and they aren't impossible by any means. They are just women who are working. Which can make things logistically suckier and might make your frame be that much more important, but maybe not *shrug*

Overall scale back and learn how to seduce regular non-hired guns. Better ROI and eventually you can have more solid ground to get hired guns with. (easier said than done. I hit up hired guns all the damn time probably about to challenge myself to cease the activity and lean into cold approach 100%. Better ROI and less number swapping/venue burning.)