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Yo!
It's been a while since I've posted a field report. When I first discovered Girlschase.com it was around this time last year.
Throughout the year I've made approaches in as many settings as I could so now I'm not as nervous as I used to be.
You could still call me a beginner though because throughout the entire year I've only managed to get 3 dates (1 of them ending in me fingering the girl, although I'm still a virgin),1 instant date, 4 kisses, and many many friendzones.
That might sound good and all to a guy who gets absolutely NO action but I'm not really satisfied. I want to increase my results in this next year. By this time next year, I want to call myself intermediate and at least be smooth enough in every interaction that if I don't take them home, I at least get a kiss.
Straight to the point, here are my daygame reports from the past two days. I'd REALLY appreciate feedback from anyone, even beginners. I don't mind if you tell me what you would've done in a situation. I just want to start seeing outside of the box that I put myself in at times. Anyway:
Monday August 12
Location: shopping mall.
Girls approached: 5
I was here with my friends who all happen to be shy "nice guys". We were actually here to just hangout and eat.
My friend, Victor and I were actually here to practice our game.
Victor is a complete beginner..he's still nervous when it comes to even approaching a girl. If I point out a girl for him to approach, he can't do it. The only time he was able to do anything is when we split up and went our separate ways on opposite sides of the mall. Anyway, this whole outing was to help him get up to my level...I hadn't planned on talking to much girls. These guys bring a nervous vibe that is overwhelming.
First two girls were walking past us and going into a women's clothing store. I read one of their shirts which said: STAFF on the breast of the shirt.
Me: Staff for what exactly? (as I held out my hand toward her to get her attention)
Her: Oh I'm a lifeguard at Blah Blah water park. (she says this nonchalantly while stopping a little but then keeps walking into the store)
I don't really like when they don't come to a full stop to let me get my words out. It's kind of nerve racking.
Interaction ended there.
The next girl was wearing yoga pants (oh how I love them), blonde, carrying shopping bags, nice ass.
She is walking straight in my direction staring Into space. I stop her.
Me: I'm here to steal your purse (slow smile spreads across my face)
She looks at me confused for a second then let's out a laugh, then she keeps walking.
She was supossed to stay there and have a conversation with me but obviously she didn't get the memo.
The last girl I tried that one on laughed and said: you're telling me first!? And we began bantering and small talk. A good natural energy flowing.
By this point I was warmed up and ready. Officially in state. A little awkward still but in state.
The next girl looked to be Filipino or Latina from far away...dark wavy hair, tan skin, thick legs like that of a volleyball player, Nice ass in denim shorts
I took off after her. She was way ahead with her back faced towards me. My friends were trying to get my attention from behind asking me where I was going. See, I just leave them without warning a lot.
Jogged up beside her and hovered my hand on her shoulder. She had earphones in. She looked startled when she saw me.
As she was pulling them out I'm saying: sorry if I scared you.
Me: I just saw you from way back there (points behind her) and I thought the back of your head looked attractive so I wanted come see if the front half was attractive as well.
She laughed and said...okaaaay?
Immediately I'm thinking I need to keep her here. Assumptions, assumptions, cold reads.
Me: you must be Filipino.
Her: haha no actually I'm part Japanese part Israeli (damn..what a mix! Many thanks to her parents because she was gorgeous)
Me: oh wow cool...see I would've never guessed that. (I think I teased her about being a "mutt" but I can't quite remember)
Her: yeah, I get that a lot though.
Me: well, my name is ____ (I hold out my hand for her to shake it. This is a habit I can't break ever since I saw a pua doing it in a daygame video)
Her: I'm ____.
Me: nice to meet you...so what brings you here today?
Her: well actually I was about to catch a flight.
Me: where?
Her: to blah blah city south from here. I actually live there but I was coming up here to visit my mom.
The first thing I can think of is "can I get an instant date with her before she leaves?" my goal all summer was to get laid and I haven't been focusing much on the quality of my interactions. I have moved wayyy too fast before, jumping straight into the two of us hanging out or giving her number.
Me: oh! How do you like being here?
Her: eh..it's alright.
Me: boring right?
Her: haha yea...see down there, there's so much people and there's a lot of Latin culture going on so it also feels different. People up here are very closed off and don't speak to each other much.
Me: so am I the first guy to talk to you here?
Her: yea the first guy to talk to me randomly.
Me: is that why you have earphones in, because you don't expect people to talk to you?
Her: yea
Me: ah so can you speak Spanish?
Her: Mhm.
Me: can you say my name in a Spanish accent.
Her: why?
Me: because Spanish accents are sexy and I want to hear you say my name.
Her: what's your name again? Haha
Me: aw..you forgot?! No..you have to guess.
Her: I have no clue.
Me: it's starts with...
Her: idk..
I tell her.
Her: ohh okay..well like I said..I have to go catch a flight so...(her slowly about to exit)
Me: yea it's a shame that you live so far...I won't see you again..when will you be back up here?
Her: I come here every summer.
Me: alright well I think we should at least hug.
Her: haha okay ( she opens her arms and walks towards me)
We hug and then I pull away saying: do you have a Facebook?
Her: yea..(hands me her phone that's on Facebook and goes to the 'search people' bar.)
I find myself and click add..and then we say alright bye nice to meet you..
Returning to my friends who are all sitting on sofas and ready to ask me what happened.
As I'm telling them the gist of it a women is speed walking by us with a big smile on her face and positive energy dripping from her.
Me: (pointing like I'm holding two guns) you! I love your positive energy. Can you pass some of that to me?
Her: (stopping and grabbing my hand to shake it or something, her smile gets even bigger) thanks!
We have this moment of looking into each others eyes and examining each other's faces. She looks like a mom to me.
And she must've been thinking that I looked WAY too young for her.
Her: (walking away) here take some! ( shooing her hands in a gesture of throwing her energy onto me)
Thats all of the approaches at the mall.
I did have a moment when I stopped to take a picture of a women's hairstyle but she had a child with her...so it's safe to assume she has a husband too.
I'll end it here and post the college campus approaches underneath.
Like I said, I'd really appreciate feedback...even from the lurkers who like to read field reports and move on.
Even if you think you don't have anything to offer, I'd just like to take a glance into your world and how you make things easier for yourself. Please point out everything wrong. constructive critism to the max. This next year I want to level up like a World of Warcraft player that never leaves the house.
It's been a while since I've posted a field report. When I first discovered Girlschase.com it was around this time last year.
Throughout the year I've made approaches in as many settings as I could so now I'm not as nervous as I used to be.
You could still call me a beginner though because throughout the entire year I've only managed to get 3 dates (1 of them ending in me fingering the girl, although I'm still a virgin),1 instant date, 4 kisses, and many many friendzones.
That might sound good and all to a guy who gets absolutely NO action but I'm not really satisfied. I want to increase my results in this next year. By this time next year, I want to call myself intermediate and at least be smooth enough in every interaction that if I don't take them home, I at least get a kiss.
Straight to the point, here are my daygame reports from the past two days. I'd REALLY appreciate feedback from anyone, even beginners. I don't mind if you tell me what you would've done in a situation. I just want to start seeing outside of the box that I put myself in at times. Anyway:
Monday August 12
Location: shopping mall.
Girls approached: 5
I was here with my friends who all happen to be shy "nice guys". We were actually here to just hangout and eat.
My friend, Victor and I were actually here to practice our game.
Victor is a complete beginner..he's still nervous when it comes to even approaching a girl. If I point out a girl for him to approach, he can't do it. The only time he was able to do anything is when we split up and went our separate ways on opposite sides of the mall. Anyway, this whole outing was to help him get up to my level...I hadn't planned on talking to much girls. These guys bring a nervous vibe that is overwhelming.
First two girls were walking past us and going into a women's clothing store. I read one of their shirts which said: STAFF on the breast of the shirt.
Me: Staff for what exactly? (as I held out my hand toward her to get her attention)
Her: Oh I'm a lifeguard at Blah Blah water park. (she says this nonchalantly while stopping a little but then keeps walking into the store)
I don't really like when they don't come to a full stop to let me get my words out. It's kind of nerve racking.
Interaction ended there.
The next girl was wearing yoga pants (oh how I love them), blonde, carrying shopping bags, nice ass.
She is walking straight in my direction staring Into space. I stop her.
Me: I'm here to steal your purse (slow smile spreads across my face)
She looks at me confused for a second then let's out a laugh, then she keeps walking.
She was supossed to stay there and have a conversation with me but obviously she didn't get the memo.
The last girl I tried that one on laughed and said: you're telling me first!? And we began bantering and small talk. A good natural energy flowing.
By this point I was warmed up and ready. Officially in state. A little awkward still but in state.
The next girl looked to be Filipino or Latina from far away...dark wavy hair, tan skin, thick legs like that of a volleyball player, Nice ass in denim shorts
I took off after her. She was way ahead with her back faced towards me. My friends were trying to get my attention from behind asking me where I was going. See, I just leave them without warning a lot.
Jogged up beside her and hovered my hand on her shoulder. She had earphones in. She looked startled when she saw me.
As she was pulling them out I'm saying: sorry if I scared you.
Me: I just saw you from way back there (points behind her) and I thought the back of your head looked attractive so I wanted come see if the front half was attractive as well.
She laughed and said...okaaaay?
Immediately I'm thinking I need to keep her here. Assumptions, assumptions, cold reads.
Me: you must be Filipino.
Her: haha no actually I'm part Japanese part Israeli (damn..what a mix! Many thanks to her parents because she was gorgeous)
Me: oh wow cool...see I would've never guessed that. (I think I teased her about being a "mutt" but I can't quite remember)
Her: yeah, I get that a lot though.
Me: well, my name is ____ (I hold out my hand for her to shake it. This is a habit I can't break ever since I saw a pua doing it in a daygame video)
Her: I'm ____.
Me: nice to meet you...so what brings you here today?
Her: well actually I was about to catch a flight.
Me: where?
Her: to blah blah city south from here. I actually live there but I was coming up here to visit my mom.
The first thing I can think of is "can I get an instant date with her before she leaves?" my goal all summer was to get laid and I haven't been focusing much on the quality of my interactions. I have moved wayyy too fast before, jumping straight into the two of us hanging out or giving her number.
Me: oh! How do you like being here?
Her: eh..it's alright.
Me: boring right?
Her: haha yea...see down there, there's so much people and there's a lot of Latin culture going on so it also feels different. People up here are very closed off and don't speak to each other much.
Me: so am I the first guy to talk to you here?
Her: yea the first guy to talk to me randomly.
Me: is that why you have earphones in, because you don't expect people to talk to you?
Her: yea
Me: ah so can you speak Spanish?
Her: Mhm.
Me: can you say my name in a Spanish accent.
Her: why?
Me: because Spanish accents are sexy and I want to hear you say my name.
Her: what's your name again? Haha
Me: aw..you forgot?! No..you have to guess.
Her: I have no clue.
Me: it's starts with...
Her: idk..
I tell her.
Her: ohh okay..well like I said..I have to go catch a flight so...(her slowly about to exit)
Me: yea it's a shame that you live so far...I won't see you again..when will you be back up here?
Her: I come here every summer.
Me: alright well I think we should at least hug.
Her: haha okay ( she opens her arms and walks towards me)
We hug and then I pull away saying: do you have a Facebook?
Her: yea..(hands me her phone that's on Facebook and goes to the 'search people' bar.)
I find myself and click add..and then we say alright bye nice to meet you..
Returning to my friends who are all sitting on sofas and ready to ask me what happened.
As I'm telling them the gist of it a women is speed walking by us with a big smile on her face and positive energy dripping from her.
Me: (pointing like I'm holding two guns) you! I love your positive energy. Can you pass some of that to me?
Her: (stopping and grabbing my hand to shake it or something, her smile gets even bigger) thanks!
We have this moment of looking into each others eyes and examining each other's faces. She looks like a mom to me.
And she must've been thinking that I looked WAY too young for her.
Her: (walking away) here take some! ( shooing her hands in a gesture of throwing her energy onto me)
Thats all of the approaches at the mall.
I did have a moment when I stopped to take a picture of a women's hairstyle but she had a child with her...so it's safe to assume she has a husband too.
I'll end it here and post the college campus approaches underneath.
Like I said, I'd really appreciate feedback...even from the lurkers who like to read field reports and move on.
Even if you think you don't have anything to offer, I'd just like to take a glance into your world and how you make things easier for yourself. Please point out everything wrong. constructive critism to the max. This next year I want to level up like a World of Warcraft player that never leaves the house.
looking at me confused) 
