Mastering the Art of Leaning Back with Perfect Posture

[Espi]

Hey fellow seducers,

I've been on a journey to refine my body language, embracing Chase's wisdom about the power of posture. Standing tall, straight back, chest out, shoulders back, and chin parallel to the ground has become my new normal. Confidence radiates, and I've seen some positive reactions.

However, I've hit a snag. Leaning back, touted for its laid-back, confident vibes, is proving to be a challenge for me while maintaining the perfect posture I've worked so hard to achieve. Leaning back on a chair, armchair or wall, I find myself tensing up and losing the natural feel of that poised stance.

Are these two practices in contradiction, or am I missing something? Is there a sweet spot that marries the relaxed vibe of leaning back with the assertive stance of a straight back, chest out, and shoulders back?

I invite all of you skilled seducers to shed some light on this mystery. What is the ideal posture while leaning back? Your insights and experience could bridge this gap in my understanding, and I'm sure others can benefit as well.

Thank you for your support and expertise!

Best, Espi

 

[Conquistador]

Most likely this is because posture isn’t instinctive for you yet.
That takes time and there isn’t that much shortcutting you can do.
Focus on making shoulders and chest relaxed. Be patient and you’ll start to fix your posture instinctively and habitually. After that point good posture starts to become default, and you don’t even notice when you have to fix it.