Hello to everybody, this is the first FR that I post and one of my first posts overall so I will give a brief introduction to who I am:
Introduction
I am a 25yr old argentinian mathematician, 5'4, 163 lbs athletic white with a good face (objectively speaking) and brown hair. I started this seduction journey around 1-2 yrs ago but didn't really focus in on it until now. I had some girlfriends and some good lays before and during this time but due to life circumstances I became a very shy and restrained guy since very young which limited my lays to mediocre or very lucky (in my eyes at the time). I work as a programmer so that didn't help me with my social skills either.
Lay Report
Before approaching
So it was a saturday and I was feeling a bit bummed for doing jack shit all day so around 6pm I decided to go downtown (close to where I usually cold approach) to take a breath of fresh air. It was pretty inconsequential and the only good thing I did was to journal about how I felt at the time (like a fucking loser). I had a tight tshirt which shows my massive biceps and trained chest (I got titties lmao), a jean with stylish holes in it and a fanny pack (I keep mint gum, condoms, deodorant and backup boxers in it).
Screening
Going back to my home I found this pretty natural redhead with very pale skin, curly hair and a white jean dress that revealed her very nice and pale af legs. I got the feeling that she was very open to being approached bc of her body language and the way she was dressed (I couldnt honestly say for certain exactly what it was, it was more of a hunch). I didn't really thought of approaching her because I was pretty tired from sleeping like shit the night before. So I just decided I would enjoy her presence and maybe even do some "accidental" kino.
First interaction
The bus arrives and we both get close to the door, we kinda stand there for a second until I signal her with a smile to get on first. She smiles back in a very genuine way. We stand for a bit, she sits first in the back of the bus in one of the corner seats and eventually the seat right next to her comes free. Without hesitating I immediatedly go sit right next to her to avoid any AFC from taking what's mine
The very first second I sit I felt the most intense perfume emanating from her body which I can count on my hand the times I felt that. (This made me reconsider approaching). After a couple of minutes of smelling that glorious smell I start "accidentally" feeling her arms with mine, kinda like touching bicep to bicep. I felt the warmth of her arm and became even more excited because everytime I had a crazy attraction to a girl she had very shitty blood circulation which made her body warm up for some reason.
I legit got a boner right away which made me start thinking about how I can approach her regardless of how tired I was.
Also I could tell she was at least kinda into it since she didnt move her arm or went like "Eww get off me creep" immediatedly lmao
Switch to conversation
There was a problem tho, I had waited too long (like 15 mins) so I felt I would end up looking like a weirdo if out of the blue I just said hi to her, so I decided to use a circumstantial opener. I used a rude comment from some old lady about some passangers' smells and I began talking to her. I usually have a lot of hard time breaking the ice and I tend to parallize, but once I get talking I can't stop and I find it very easy to build rapport.
So after talking for a while I realize this girl lives like 2 blocks from my place, she is the same age as me, the same zodiac sign and is studying medicine so she likes to study in general (like me!). It was very surprising to have so many coincidences and at that moment I knew that I if gamed her correctly I could get very far. I tell her about some cool places to eat some good food close to where we live and she tells me she hasn't visited this particular coffee shop.
Compliance test ? / invitation to date (I put the ? bc I still dont know exactly what is and how to give compliance tests)
After talking about a bunch of shit that I legit don't remember (I am very good at building rapport but I kinda go into autopilot and cant remember wtf I did good) we get to our stop and we get out the bus. I tell her:
Me: If you want we can go to this coffee shop I told you about, someday
Girl: Alright, let's go!
Me: Wait, you mean now?
Girl: Yeah, I thought you meant now...
Me: Let's go!
Date
We kinda wander a lot around this square sorrounded by a restaurants until we go into this bar. As a side note I wasn't being as decisive about the venue for the date and I feel that this was a bad thing. I also told her about another date I had with a chick I meet in my theater classes where at one point she told me she was feeling a bit crazy since I was telling her exactly what she wanted to hear and she even jokingly said that I might not even be real , after this I told her (the readhead) to not worry bc I am actually real.
Her shoelaces kept getting untied and I asked her if she needed help with them, she said yes, put her beautiful leg on top of some low fence in the square and felt up her calves up to the back of her knees. She had the softest skin and I really enjoyed it . I would also ocasionally touch her waist or feel her hair, her hand, arms; anything I could do with kino I did it.
In the bar I just built rapport like a mf and really got into what her likes and dislikes are. Before going into medicine she told me she wanted to study either medicine or graphical design but due to certain circumstances she ended up in medical school. We also talked about discovery channel documentaries, forensics science and a bunch of other stuff. She was basically a bookworm shy but also kinda strong mentally girl. I also told her about my work with AI and ballistics and was very interested.
At one point we both stopped talking and just kinda looked at eachother for what felt like 5 seconds. I give her the "imma fuck you" eyes and tell her seductively "Wanna go somewhere else?". She reciprocates and says yes. While walking she opened up even more and told me about some books on happiness she was reading.
We get to some train tracks and before she can cross them I told her I wanted to hug her, grabbed her by the hand, pulled her close to me and even before I got close to kiss her she already had the body language and kinda closed her eyes lol. I give her some kisses, licking her lips with my tongue a bit, while grabbing her by the waist and pulling her firmly closer to me and my boner.
We got to her place, kissed a lot more passionately, even touching her ass, and then asked her if I could use the bathroom.
She said yes, warned me that the place was going to be a mess (this girl had the cleanest appartment I've seen in a while) and we went up. We sat on the couch and watched some horror korean series about some zombies. I had a bit of trouble sexually escalating as quickly as I thought it'd take here because at times I would passionately kiss her and she would stop kissing me and turn back to the tv.
It was like 1 and a half hours, maybe even 2 of constant kissing, touching and feeling until she stood up, sat on my lap and pulled down her dress to reveal one of the biggest pair of tiddies I've seen in my life. Something that came as a shock to me since they weren't that noticeable in the dress.
Then she pulled me to her bedroom and we had sex like 2-3 times, afterwards she asked me to sleep with her (like as in dream n shit).
The good
The bad
I'll welcome any comments both on my writing style, whether the good and the bad are actually good and bad and any other suggestions / congratulations lol that you feel like writing.
Conclusion
I really like this approach, not only because I got to have sex, or she had huuuuge tits, or was a natural redhead, not even for the game I was able to pull which surprised me but more so because I was able to do all of those things while still being as respectful and as genuine as I could with her. At many points I was very receptive to her emotions and could even feel them myself, I didn't gave her any negs or made her feel bad about herself because I could see she wouldn't like it.
I was able to act in accordance to my ideal of what a gentleman is and respect her while also getting what I wanted.
Also sorry for long post.
TLDR: Met a chick 9pm at the bus stop, 3am I was at her place shagging her.
Btw: counting this as day despite the time since I think of nightgame more as nightclubs, bars late at night and parties.
Introduction
I am a 25yr old argentinian mathematician, 5'4, 163 lbs athletic white with a good face (objectively speaking) and brown hair. I started this seduction journey around 1-2 yrs ago but didn't really focus in on it until now. I had some girlfriends and some good lays before and during this time but due to life circumstances I became a very shy and restrained guy since very young which limited my lays to mediocre or very lucky (in my eyes at the time). I work as a programmer so that didn't help me with my social skills either.
Lay Report
Before approaching
So it was a saturday and I was feeling a bit bummed for doing jack shit all day so around 6pm I decided to go downtown (close to where I usually cold approach) to take a breath of fresh air. It was pretty inconsequential and the only good thing I did was to journal about how I felt at the time (like a fucking loser). I had a tight tshirt which shows my massive biceps and trained chest (I got titties lmao), a jean with stylish holes in it and a fanny pack (I keep mint gum, condoms, deodorant and backup boxers in it).
Screening
Going back to my home I found this pretty natural redhead with very pale skin, curly hair and a white jean dress that revealed her very nice and pale af legs. I got the feeling that she was very open to being approached bc of her body language and the way she was dressed (I couldnt honestly say for certain exactly what it was, it was more of a hunch). I didn't really thought of approaching her because I was pretty tired from sleeping like shit the night before. So I just decided I would enjoy her presence and maybe even do some "accidental" kino.
First interaction
The bus arrives and we both get close to the door, we kinda stand there for a second until I signal her with a smile to get on first. She smiles back in a very genuine way. We stand for a bit, she sits first in the back of the bus in one of the corner seats and eventually the seat right next to her comes free. Without hesitating I immediatedly go sit right next to her to avoid any AFC from taking what's mine
The very first second I sit I felt the most intense perfume emanating from her body which I can count on my hand the times I felt that. (This made me reconsider approaching). After a couple of minutes of smelling that glorious smell I start "accidentally" feeling her arms with mine, kinda like touching bicep to bicep. I felt the warmth of her arm and became even more excited because everytime I had a crazy attraction to a girl she had very shitty blood circulation which made her body warm up for some reason.
I legit got a boner right away which made me start thinking about how I can approach her regardless of how tired I was.
Also I could tell she was at least kinda into it since she didnt move her arm or went like "Eww get off me creep" immediatedly lmao
Switch to conversation
There was a problem tho, I had waited too long (like 15 mins) so I felt I would end up looking like a weirdo if out of the blue I just said hi to her, so I decided to use a circumstantial opener. I used a rude comment from some old lady about some passangers' smells and I began talking to her. I usually have a lot of hard time breaking the ice and I tend to parallize, but once I get talking I can't stop and I find it very easy to build rapport.
So after talking for a while I realize this girl lives like 2 blocks from my place, she is the same age as me, the same zodiac sign and is studying medicine so she likes to study in general (like me!). It was very surprising to have so many coincidences and at that moment I knew that I if gamed her correctly I could get very far. I tell her about some cool places to eat some good food close to where we live and she tells me she hasn't visited this particular coffee shop.
Compliance test ? / invitation to date (I put the ? bc I still dont know exactly what is and how to give compliance tests)
After talking about a bunch of shit that I legit don't remember (I am very good at building rapport but I kinda go into autopilot and cant remember wtf I did good) we get to our stop and we get out the bus. I tell her:
Me: If you want we can go to this coffee shop I told you about, someday
Girl: Alright, let's go!
Me: Wait, you mean now?
Girl: Yeah, I thought you meant now...
Me: Let's go!
Date
We kinda wander a lot around this square sorrounded by a restaurants until we go into this bar. As a side note I wasn't being as decisive about the venue for the date and I feel that this was a bad thing. I also told her about another date I had with a chick I meet in my theater classes where at one point she told me she was feeling a bit crazy since I was telling her exactly what she wanted to hear and she even jokingly said that I might not even be real , after this I told her (the readhead) to not worry bc I am actually real.
Her shoelaces kept getting untied and I asked her if she needed help with them, she said yes, put her beautiful leg on top of some low fence in the square and felt up her calves up to the back of her knees. She had the softest skin and I really enjoyed it . I would also ocasionally touch her waist or feel her hair, her hand, arms; anything I could do with kino I did it.
In the bar I just built rapport like a mf and really got into what her likes and dislikes are. Before going into medicine she told me she wanted to study either medicine or graphical design but due to certain circumstances she ended up in medical school. We also talked about discovery channel documentaries, forensics science and a bunch of other stuff. She was basically a bookworm shy but also kinda strong mentally girl. I also told her about my work with AI and ballistics and was very interested.
At one point we both stopped talking and just kinda looked at eachother for what felt like 5 seconds. I give her the "imma fuck you" eyes and tell her seductively "Wanna go somewhere else?". She reciprocates and says yes. While walking she opened up even more and told me about some books on happiness she was reading.
We get to some train tracks and before she can cross them I told her I wanted to hug her, grabbed her by the hand, pulled her close to me and even before I got close to kiss her she already had the body language and kinda closed her eyes lol. I give her some kisses, licking her lips with my tongue a bit, while grabbing her by the waist and pulling her firmly closer to me and my boner.
We got to her place, kissed a lot more passionately, even touching her ass, and then asked her if I could use the bathroom.
She said yes, warned me that the place was going to be a mess (this girl had the cleanest appartment I've seen in a while) and we went up. We sat on the couch and watched some horror korean series about some zombies. I had a bit of trouble sexually escalating as quickly as I thought it'd take here because at times I would passionately kiss her and she would stop kissing me and turn back to the tv.
It was like 1 and a half hours, maybe even 2 of constant kissing, touching and feeling until she stood up, sat on my lap and pulled down her dress to reveal one of the biggest pair of tiddies I've seen in my life. Something that came as a shock to me since they weren't that noticeable in the dress.
Then she pulled me to her bedroom and we had sex like 2-3 times, afterwards she asked me to sleep with her (like as in dream n shit).
The good
- Logistics: she literally lived like 2 blocks from my place
- A lot of disposition on her part: she invited herself to the insta date, was very receptive and smiled a lot
- Built rapport like a crazy mf: Im a natural at this but dont know wtf I did exactly to make it work
- A loooot of kino: was already touching her arm before initiating contact and also felt her leg up to her knees before kissing, same with her waist, hair, neck.
The bad
- Lisp: after years of studying autistic type shit like maths and physics and working as a programmer I sometimes have random pronunciation, forget what words to say and also speak like a bit of a retard (fucking up very basic words)
- Not as confident as I wished: I would hesitate a lot about telling her to do something or touching her. Maybe in the outside world it worked pretty well in addition to her predisposition but I felt I needed to improve this part and demand more if I see a lot of good signals like I did with this chick.
- Telling her about old date: Telling her about that old date where the chick thought I was a figment of her imagination bc of how hard I was gaming her. I feel like this was kinda trashy, showoff in a desperate way and not my style
- Backup boxer: At one point I opened up my fanny pack and changed boxers in front of her, she asked me if I do this with all the bus girls but I told her that no and it's because I sweat like a pig, which I actually do.
- Decisiveness: Not being as decisive when deciding a venue.
I'll welcome any comments both on my writing style, whether the good and the bad are actually good and bad and any other suggestions / congratulations lol that you feel like writing.
Conclusion
I really like this approach, not only because I got to have sex, or she had huuuuge tits, or was a natural redhead, not even for the game I was able to pull which surprised me but more so because I was able to do all of those things while still being as respectful and as genuine as I could with her. At many points I was very receptive to her emotions and could even feel them myself, I didn't gave her any negs or made her feel bad about herself because I could see she wouldn't like it.
I was able to act in accordance to my ideal of what a gentleman is and respect her while also getting what I wanted.
Also sorry for long post.
TLDR: Met a chick 9pm at the bus stop, 3am I was at her place shagging her.
Btw: counting this as day despite the time since I think of nightgame more as nightclubs, bars late at night and parties.
