Meeting Russian Girl & Friends

[Anonymous]

I just met a good looking Russian girl in the grocery store that is on vacation for 2 weeks in the U.S. city I live in & she is staying with her friends. We agreed to me meeting her and her friends(dont know if they are guys or girls but I think they are Russian & they permanently live in my city) on this Saturday night at a bar for drinks. We didnt exchange phone numbers just date, location, & approximate time. Her English speaking & understanding seems ok but not great... Also, I dont know her friends English language abilities.

Anyone have any advice for my situation????

She seems to be really interested in me & I would really really like my Russian dream to come true......

Thanks,
Will

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi will85,

I just met a good looking Russian girl in the grocery store that is on vacation for 2 weeks in the U.S. city I live in & she is staying with her friends. We agreed to me meeting her and her friends(dont know if they are guys or girls but I think they are Russian & they permanently live in my city) on this Saturday night at a bar for drinks. We didnt exchange phone numbers just date, location, & approximate time. Her English speaking & understanding seems ok but not great... Also, I dont know her friends English language abilities.

Anyone have any advice for my situation????

She seems to be really interested in me & I would really really like my Russian dream to come true......

Thanks,
Will

Go there and meet her, get to know her friends abit, then get back to getting to know her, take her away and ask her or you telling her friends you guys be away, and do your 'stuff''.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Will-

Moved this one to "Beginners."

We didnt exchange phone numbers just date, location, & approximate time.

From several (painful) experience of my own early on, always grab her contact information.

Plans change. The friends may decide they want to go somewhere else. She may not decide you probably aren't coming, or in the excitement of hanging out with her friends may even forget this entirely.

Also from painful experience, typically this is the last kind of date you want to go on (one where it's you, her, and all of her friends, and you haven't been sleeping with her for at least a couple of months yet). I have a post up on this here:

The Party Date: Don't Do It

Essentially, what's happening here (and why you're feeling the emotions you are), is because you don't have any kind of set process you're pursuing, and you're wading into this scenario hoping that if you just go, somehow things will work out. But... they almost never do, when you leave it all up to chance like this.

Anyway, hope it works out regardless - you never know! Even when the odds favor the house, sometimes you still pull out a win.

Chase