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Mental Aspect of Game-Work balance

Spyce D

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I did both daygame and nightgame this past weekend but i am still feeling the hangover of it . A K.A , i am not able to focus on my studies .

Even though , i only do game on weekends. Got a hectic schedule.

Is it natural in the early stage of learning pickup ?

And is there any way to help me mentally balance (i.e. i don't want to think about my gaming session during class lol.)?

I am doing meditation for a few weeks now but these after game feeling are really intense for me , NGL .

I have read https://www.girlschase.com/content/game-life-balance by @Chase and even though i have reduced the stuff that isn't productive , but i am not able to understand this mental aspect of game-work balance .
 

DarkKnight

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I have to say at days that I spam approached... I could really have nightmares back in the day and wake up terribly. Probably it took too much stress shrugging off all those rejections that "didn't matter". Not really spam approaching anymore but perhaps this is a mental muscle that needed to be trained? So perhaps you should reward yourself with something nice take a very short break and then re-engage it again.
 
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Fuck This

Cro-Magnon Man
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I have no clue what you are talking about because I just cultivated an approach where I am gregarious with nearly everyone I meet. When I sensed a woman was interested in me or noticed an attractive woman and then ascertained her interest, I would then switch into seductive mode. You aren't going hunting (creeping stealthily through the woods) every night, but you are out for a walk in the woods, and carrying a gun. You will find the former tires you out while the latter doesn't.

I'd go to the bar or taproom to kill time while kids were at practice, or I was travelling for work and strike up a convo with folks around me..I wouldn't hit the clubs 3 nights a week. Half the time it was just conversational practice or warm up for when an attractive woman crossed my path.
 
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