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I was troubleshooting my beach approach vibe, and realized I was being too serious about it, and not effortless enough. I started thinking, what would an absolutely carefree person do if they went out into the ocean, asked a stranger to watch their stuff, and then came back? The answer ended up being simple. If you had no other agenda, you’d be completely relaxed, and immediately assume rapport with the person. I resolved to try that out to see what effect it had.
I was out wearing a pink linen shirt, white shorts, and my aviators, white flip flops, and a bracelet.
I see this girl in a two piece blue velvety bikini. She’s got a beautiful looking face-almost Indian or Persian (I later find out she’s of middle-eastern origin, but Christian). I reality pace about sitting on the beach and how centering it is to feel the warm sand against cold feet from the water. Very quickly she hooks and starts asking me questions. I think I’m less mysterious than I was with HBWillow, but it was enough to get a good conversation going, with going over travels and some of the joys of meeting new people.
While discussing new people, SHE brings up how you sometimes meet people who you feel like you’ve known for a long amount of time. I found that funny, and at the same time, it felt like an escalation window, but I’m not sure what I should have done. I think switching venues was the right move, and I did end up suggesting grabbing a drink nearby, which she agreed to.
We walked, and along the way she asked if we could buy something she needed for her travels. I didn’t really have a good reason against, so I helped her to do so. The main reason this hurt was the conversation during this portion was just worse, it wasn’t exactly down to zero, but some of the excitement vanished.
After we bought the stuff, I took her to a new spot, and we ordered some non-alcoholic drinks. We talked some more, but the vibe had gotten more platonic. I tried to initiate some touching, as well as issuing some commands for a more dominant vibe, but eventually the girl said she was getting tired.
I hadn’t seeded a pull at all, so I had to last minute attempt to suggest grabbing a drink at mine. I really need to start seeding that I am a licensed bartender again, so that it’s an easy seed to pull girls home.
Anyway, she had a photo-shoot, and was leaving the next morning.
I was out wearing a pink linen shirt, white shorts, and my aviators, white flip flops, and a bracelet.
I see this girl in a two piece blue velvety bikini. She’s got a beautiful looking face-almost Indian or Persian (I later find out she’s of middle-eastern origin, but Christian). I reality pace about sitting on the beach and how centering it is to feel the warm sand against cold feet from the water. Very quickly she hooks and starts asking me questions. I think I’m less mysterious than I was with HBWillow, but it was enough to get a good conversation going, with going over travels and some of the joys of meeting new people.
While discussing new people, SHE brings up how you sometimes meet people who you feel like you’ve known for a long amount of time. I found that funny, and at the same time, it felt like an escalation window, but I’m not sure what I should have done. I think switching venues was the right move, and I did end up suggesting grabbing a drink nearby, which she agreed to.
We walked, and along the way she asked if we could buy something she needed for her travels. I didn’t really have a good reason against, so I helped her to do so. The main reason this hurt was the conversation during this portion was just worse, it wasn’t exactly down to zero, but some of the excitement vanished.
After we bought the stuff, I took her to a new spot, and we ordered some non-alcoholic drinks. We talked some more, but the vibe had gotten more platonic. I tried to initiate some touching, as well as issuing some commands for a more dominant vibe, but eventually the girl said she was getting tired.
I hadn’t seeded a pull at all, so I had to last minute attempt to suggest grabbing a drink at mine. I really need to start seeding that I am a licensed bartender again, so that it’s an easy seed to pull girls home.
Anyway, she had a photo-shoot, and was leaving the next morning.
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