Hi Guys!
As done before (I just seem not to learn my lesson), I've shown my feeling about a gal, without having made any progress (no kissing even).
Before getting there, I'll just tell a quick story of how I met her:
-She's in my Master's class in college (yeah, I know at this point I should not do this mistake)
-She prolly saw me as some sort of entrepreneur hotshot, as I had my startup at the time
-She was really nice to me, toke notes for me in classes, picked my scrapbook when I left at the classes, and even cheated for my in the exams
-She invited my out many times, but for some reason I couldn't go. And tbh, I just tought she was just so into me, that I've kinda ignored her at the beggining
-She did also Invited to her place in betweem end of classes, and party start. Said no cause felt she was a keeper, and didn't wanted to start like that
-She did once asked if i had a girlfriend, and just an affair going on. I joked about it, gave no her no answer, and she was like "ok...."
-After going out with a group of friends a couple of times, finally took her out after classes. Grabbed a snack, then a friend came up, we went to a night club and danced. She's really sexy and made me feel really wild. I grabbed her hand while exiting the disco through the crowd (she said it was the reason why she stopped haging out with me, cause she took as a sign of a serious relationship).
But when driving her home in my friend's car, she asked if it would be best my friend dropping us at my car, and then leaving her home. What I understood was that she asked if I wanted to be dropped off first, leaving her alone wih my friend, so I said "no, u'll be droped off first."
So, according to my friend, that was the reason it drove her away from me. Because she wanted to make out, and took that as a NO, feeling rejected.
After this going out, at her friends birthday party I got drunk and kissed her neck in public while dancing. Coudn't see how her reacted, but she didn'tpushed me back or anything like that. We just kept on dancing, like nothing ever happened.
Next day she calling me when I was on some sort of double date, I was ready to leave that date to meet her. As she waiting to finish dinner with friends (dinners in Portugal can go like until 2am), but then her best friend and roomate was felling bad, and she said we'd go out some other day.
At the time, I really felt that was it, that I'd get in her pants. But I've waited she would invited me again, but guess that neven happened.
Even though she was like avoing me, and saying stuff like "I'll let you know when I'll have time to go out with you". I knew that was a straight and hard NO. But I told I need to talk to her, and she kept on postponing me. Saw her at the club a month ago, I was really drunk (when that happens I get either too violent, or to lovelly/romantic). So, I told I had feelings for her, "I really liked you a lot, but you just vanish", "I've never met anyone as sweet as you" (Yes, I was waisted drunk). She, obiously said very kindly she didn't had the same feelings for me, saying I wasn't the kind of man she was looking for, even thgouh I was nice and on...
The next days became a lot worse, avoiding me in classes and stuff. Then we talked, and asked if i was ok, I said I was awesome. I moved on pretty quickly, went out with the first girl who said yes on facebook. Just wish she didn't seen my texting in classes with that chick,
Anyway, even though I've felt like this only once, I've tried to convince myself "she's a slut, just forget about het and move on". And I did went out with lots of other girls, but none really made me feel like she did.
As time went by, I've managed to forgot her. But the fact we're in the same class makes it dificult. For example, when she like reading memories start coming to my mind. We were together at a 2 group assignments in classes. As one being led my be and screwing up bigtime, she decided to leave my group on the other class.
Than, she grabbed me aside, telling me I really screwed up on that assignment, and everyone's grade would be bad cause of me.
But she was really kind giving me that message, and gave me some advice in order to perform in college. Because of that, the feelings I had for her, just come on top again.
I know this will never workout. but I deep within I want to give it one last chanche. Do you guys think it's worth it? What to do?
ps: sorry for the long text...thx
As done before (I just seem not to learn my lesson), I've shown my feeling about a gal, without having made any progress (no kissing even).
Before getting there, I'll just tell a quick story of how I met her:
-She's in my Master's class in college (yeah, I know at this point I should not do this mistake)
-She prolly saw me as some sort of entrepreneur hotshot, as I had my startup at the time
-She was really nice to me, toke notes for me in classes, picked my scrapbook when I left at the classes, and even cheated for my in the exams
-She invited my out many times, but for some reason I couldn't go. And tbh, I just tought she was just so into me, that I've kinda ignored her at the beggining
-She did also Invited to her place in betweem end of classes, and party start. Said no cause felt she was a keeper, and didn't wanted to start like that
-She did once asked if i had a girlfriend, and just an affair going on. I joked about it, gave no her no answer, and she was like "ok...."
-After going out with a group of friends a couple of times, finally took her out after classes. Grabbed a snack, then a friend came up, we went to a night club and danced. She's really sexy and made me feel really wild. I grabbed her hand while exiting the disco through the crowd (she said it was the reason why she stopped haging out with me, cause she took as a sign of a serious relationship).
But when driving her home in my friend's car, she asked if it would be best my friend dropping us at my car, and then leaving her home. What I understood was that she asked if I wanted to be dropped off first, leaving her alone wih my friend, so I said "no, u'll be droped off first."
So, according to my friend, that was the reason it drove her away from me. Because she wanted to make out, and took that as a NO, feeling rejected.
After this going out, at her friends birthday party I got drunk and kissed her neck in public while dancing. Coudn't see how her reacted, but she didn'tpushed me back or anything like that. We just kept on dancing, like nothing ever happened.
Next day she calling me when I was on some sort of double date, I was ready to leave that date to meet her. As she waiting to finish dinner with friends (dinners in Portugal can go like until 2am), but then her best friend and roomate was felling bad, and she said we'd go out some other day.
At the time, I really felt that was it, that I'd get in her pants. But I've waited she would invited me again, but guess that neven happened.
Even though she was like avoing me, and saying stuff like "I'll let you know when I'll have time to go out with you". I knew that was a straight and hard NO. But I told I need to talk to her, and she kept on postponing me. Saw her at the club a month ago, I was really drunk (when that happens I get either too violent, or to lovelly/romantic). So, I told I had feelings for her, "I really liked you a lot, but you just vanish", "I've never met anyone as sweet as you" (Yes, I was waisted drunk). She, obiously said very kindly she didn't had the same feelings for me, saying I wasn't the kind of man she was looking for, even thgouh I was nice and on...
The next days became a lot worse, avoiding me in classes and stuff. Then we talked, and asked if i was ok, I said I was awesome. I moved on pretty quickly, went out with the first girl who said yes on facebook. Just wish she didn't seen my texting in classes with that chick,
Anyway, even though I've felt like this only once, I've tried to convince myself "she's a slut, just forget about het and move on". And I did went out with lots of other girls, but none really made me feel like she did.
As time went by, I've managed to forgot her. But the fact we're in the same class makes it dificult. For example, when she like reading memories start coming to my mind. We were together at a 2 group assignments in classes. As one being led my be and screwing up bigtime, she decided to leave my group on the other class.
Than, she grabbed me aside, telling me I really screwed up on that assignment, and everyone's grade would be bad cause of me.
But she was really kind giving me that message, and gave me some advice in order to perform in college. Because of that, the feelings I had for her, just come on top again.
I know this will never workout. but I deep within I want to give it one last chanche. Do you guys think it's worth it? What to do?
ps: sorry for the long text...thx
. If it's not too late now, you need to get her alone as soon as possible and physically escalate into sex.
