Hey everyone...
I feel like I have been "out of the game" for a little while. Not entirely though, because I have still met and hooked up with girl, just haven't been out there actively looking. Which in a way has been refreshing and good. But, with that said, yesterday I went out in the city (NYC) and boy was it an experience. I had no idea how many HOT girls there were in the city...anyway, on to story mode and hopefully I will keep it short.
First of all, I really didn't want to go out, I was too tired but I figured...let's just enjoy the moment, so I did. When we got to the bar I was feeling it, I had a good feeling about the whole thing and mostly because I wasn't expecting much out of it since I didn't want to go out in the first place. When we got there we met up with a friend for his bday and he had some girls with him, nothing to great but some decent looking ones. What was most impressive about it is that 3 of them actually came up to me and introduced themselves. Whether they had good manners or not, I don't know, but that made me feel good. Helped out with the mood a little bit more. By us there was a group of like 4 girls and in the group was THE blonde. And holy shit was she hot. She was easily an 8.5 or a 9 but beyond this, was the fact that she could MOVE. She knew she had hips and she knew how to use them. Being puerto rican, this is definitely a turn on for me, but I am sure it is a turn on for every guy...cause we all know this usually translates very well to the bed. Anyway, I spotted her but I didn't think much of it expect to just enjoy the view.
A little time went by and most of our friends were gone, it was just a few of us dancing in a semi-circle in a way, each one by ourselves. Some spanish style music came on so I started to show off my moves a little bit. One of the girls that was with us asked me to teach her a little bit, because she on the other hand, didn't realize she had hips at all. SO I tried teaching her but she wouldn't really listen much or couldn't really do it. Besides us was the Blonde dancing by herself while her friends sat on a table, with her back towards us (which I know is a no-no but we had exchanged views a few times so I decided to go for it) I went around her a little bit, sort of to be besides her instead of behind her, and said "can you help me teach my friend how to dance, you do it better than me" so she just turned around, smiled and came over and started dancing with us. she tried to teach her and said the exact same stuff I did. So we kept dancing then some merengue came on and I grabbed her hand, pulled her in and we started dancing. She showed me a few good moves and it was an awesome time. The song was over she danced by herself a little bit more then went back to her friends, then I approached her again (we had to go and my friends were pushing me to get her number) and said something about the new song that was on...she explained how to dance it and I tried imitating her, then got closer to her and said that I had to run but if I could have her number to do this again sometime. She said "maybe" as she grabbed my phone and put it in and called herself. I asked for her name (yeah, to this point I didnt know her name) introduced myself and said "it better not be a fake number" jokingly but I feel like that could've been bad, even though I had my hand around her waist/butt and whispered that to her ear. I turned around to leave and heard her say something, I couldn't tell what it was so I asked her "you said something?" and she said "get home safe" as she put her hand on my shoulder.
I was debating whether to text her that same night or the next day, but decided to text her right there after an hour that I had left, so I did and I texted "Fun dancing with you tonight *insert her name here* (I hope I spelled that right) - *insert my name here*, the merengue newbie" Her name was kinda weird so I wasnt sure how to spell it, it was something we actually discussed a little bit before I left, hence why I included the parenthesis in the text.
Anyway, that text was around 2 AM last night (so technically this morning) and I haven't heard back from yet and part of me thinks she won't reply to that. After that WHOLE story...my question is...how do I proceed now? When should I text her again and what should I text?
My thought was to text her tomorrow maybe and say something like "Sorry we couldn't talk more after our awesome dance session, I was in a bit of a rush. Let's make up for it" or something like that.
Thoughts, ideas?!
Thanks for reading...sorry for the long post. Thought the details were important.
Cheers!
Jeet
I feel like I have been "out of the game" for a little while. Not entirely though, because I have still met and hooked up with girl, just haven't been out there actively looking. Which in a way has been refreshing and good. But, with that said, yesterday I went out in the city (NYC) and boy was it an experience. I had no idea how many HOT girls there were in the city...anyway, on to story mode and hopefully I will keep it short.
First of all, I really didn't want to go out, I was too tired but I figured...let's just enjoy the moment, so I did. When we got to the bar I was feeling it, I had a good feeling about the whole thing and mostly because I wasn't expecting much out of it since I didn't want to go out in the first place. When we got there we met up with a friend for his bday and he had some girls with him, nothing to great but some decent looking ones. What was most impressive about it is that 3 of them actually came up to me and introduced themselves. Whether they had good manners or not, I don't know, but that made me feel good. Helped out with the mood a little bit more. By us there was a group of like 4 girls and in the group was THE blonde. And holy shit was she hot. She was easily an 8.5 or a 9 but beyond this, was the fact that she could MOVE. She knew she had hips and she knew how to use them. Being puerto rican, this is definitely a turn on for me, but I am sure it is a turn on for every guy...cause we all know this usually translates very well to the bed. Anyway, I spotted her but I didn't think much of it expect to just enjoy the view.
A little time went by and most of our friends were gone, it was just a few of us dancing in a semi-circle in a way, each one by ourselves. Some spanish style music came on so I started to show off my moves a little bit. One of the girls that was with us asked me to teach her a little bit, because she on the other hand, didn't realize she had hips at all. SO I tried teaching her but she wouldn't really listen much or couldn't really do it. Besides us was the Blonde dancing by herself while her friends sat on a table, with her back towards us (which I know is a no-no but we had exchanged views a few times so I decided to go for it) I went around her a little bit, sort of to be besides her instead of behind her, and said "can you help me teach my friend how to dance, you do it better than me" so she just turned around, smiled and came over and started dancing with us. she tried to teach her and said the exact same stuff I did. So we kept dancing then some merengue came on and I grabbed her hand, pulled her in and we started dancing. She showed me a few good moves and it was an awesome time. The song was over she danced by herself a little bit more then went back to her friends, then I approached her again (we had to go and my friends were pushing me to get her number) and said something about the new song that was on...she explained how to dance it and I tried imitating her, then got closer to her and said that I had to run but if I could have her number to do this again sometime. She said "maybe" as she grabbed my phone and put it in and called herself. I asked for her name (yeah, to this point I didnt know her name) introduced myself and said "it better not be a fake number" jokingly but I feel like that could've been bad, even though I had my hand around her waist/butt and whispered that to her ear. I turned around to leave and heard her say something, I couldn't tell what it was so I asked her "you said something?" and she said "get home safe" as she put her hand on my shoulder.
I was debating whether to text her that same night or the next day, but decided to text her right there after an hour that I had left, so I did and I texted "Fun dancing with you tonight *insert her name here* (I hope I spelled that right) - *insert my name here*, the merengue newbie" Her name was kinda weird so I wasnt sure how to spell it, it was something we actually discussed a little bit before I left, hence why I included the parenthesis in the text.
Anyway, that text was around 2 AM last night (so technically this morning) and I haven't heard back from yet and part of me thinks she won't reply to that. After that WHOLE story...my question is...how do I proceed now? When should I text her again and what should I text?
My thought was to text her tomorrow maybe and say something like "Sorry we couldn't talk more after our awesome dance session, I was in a bit of a rush. Let's make up for it" or something like that.
Thoughts, ideas?!
Thanks for reading...sorry for the long post. Thought the details were important.
Cheers!
Jeet
