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Hey guys
Yes i know. Should have closed it in person. BUT, hear me out...
So quick story is this: She's sort of a childhood acquaintance, because our mothers are friends, and we would get together and have dinner together both our families. Doesn't know her super well, but still quite familiar. Seen her maybe once a year the past couple of years. Went to her graduation party last night. Not a "party" but more of a daytime casual thing. Her family was there and a few friends. Wanted to get her alone to ask her out, but it was hard because there was always her family and other people around. Towards the end she was alone in the house, so while i was bouncing i wanted to go in there and say goodbye and close the deal, but as i walked her brother came up and said "Dude, let's go check out your new car!" Hahaha. Fuck me. So i just went in, hugged goodbye and headed off. Rip.
Since i rarely see her and may never meet her at an event again, my only option is to message her on instagram. So i followed her, she followed me back and now i'm not 100% sure what to do.
I wanna DM her or respond to her story something like "Hey (name), i had a great time last Sunday, hope you enjoyed the party!" Or something. Then wait for her to respond and then message her what her schedule is like next week and set a date. I understand the chances of success are low on this one, but i would rather try anyways. Best that can happen is that i get a sexy fuckbuddy, worst that can happen is that i make things awkward for someone i never spend time with.
Since the chances are low on this one, what i'm asking is if you have any improvements on my strategy or any cool tricks up ya sleeves. I followed her last night and she followed me back earlier today. How long should i wait to text? Haven't accepted her follow request yet, before i'm ready to message.
Yes i know. Should have closed it in person. BUT, hear me out...
So quick story is this: She's sort of a childhood acquaintance, because our mothers are friends, and we would get together and have dinner together both our families. Doesn't know her super well, but still quite familiar. Seen her maybe once a year the past couple of years. Went to her graduation party last night. Not a "party" but more of a daytime casual thing. Her family was there and a few friends. Wanted to get her alone to ask her out, but it was hard because there was always her family and other people around. Towards the end she was alone in the house, so while i was bouncing i wanted to go in there and say goodbye and close the deal, but as i walked her brother came up and said "Dude, let's go check out your new car!" Hahaha. Fuck me. So i just went in, hugged goodbye and headed off. Rip.
Since i rarely see her and may never meet her at an event again, my only option is to message her on instagram. So i followed her, she followed me back and now i'm not 100% sure what to do.
I wanna DM her or respond to her story something like "Hey (name), i had a great time last Sunday, hope you enjoyed the party!" Or something. Then wait for her to respond and then message her what her schedule is like next week and set a date. I understand the chances of success are low on this one, but i would rather try anyways. Best that can happen is that i get a sexy fuckbuddy, worst that can happen is that i make things awkward for someone i never spend time with.
Since the chances are low on this one, what i'm asking is if you have any improvements on my strategy or any cool tricks up ya sleeves. I followed her last night and she followed me back earlier today. How long should i wait to text? Haven't accepted her follow request yet, before i'm ready to message.
