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So i went on a date yesterday, lots of making out, couldn't pull to a bathroom or escalate further she was quite stubborn. Anyways, i went grocery store hopping afterwards to get some cold approaches in and on my way to one i spot the first set. I race in to park on the parking lot and run after her:
Me: *stumble on my opener, a bit fatigued* "Hi i saw and... you and... i think you looked a bit cute and wanted to say hi. What's your name?"
Her: *smiling big, extremely hot* "I'm (name)"
Me: "(name)..... i'm (name), nice to meet you"
Me: "You got summer holidays now?"
Her: "Yeah i do"
Me: "Cool, same, so what's gonna happen next?"
Her: *misunderstands me, she thinks i mean now, not after summer holidays* "I'm bringing this bottle of wine down to the water with my friends and we're just gonna chill"
Me: "Oh that's lovely, but i meant after the summer holidays"
Her: "Ohh i just graduated, i'm gonna study dentist clinic assisstant in (city)"
Me: "That's cool, i live there, where did you graduate?"
Her: "(this and this high school), and what do you do?"
Me: "I graduated last year and like you i went straight on to vocational school as (occupation)"
Her: "Ah okay that's nice"
Me: "And what are your hobbies like?"
Her: "Hmmm i work out alot and read a bit"
Me: "Ah right, so besides going to the gym do you do any sports?"
Her: "Hmm not really, but i did badminton for some years, what about you?"
Me: "I work out alot too and then i do MMA"
Her: "Wooow haha"
Me: "Yeah i know, and it was really fucked up, because the membership fee is quite pricy, so when they closed down everything in March, i quit in April after i was charged, but that meant i still had to pay 1+3 months for membership fee according to their terms of agreement"
Her: "Ahh that sucks"
Me: "Yeah i know.."
Her: "Well do you want my snapchat? I need to get going.."
Me: "I don't use snapchat, i wanted to take your number so i could take you out sometime"
Her: *a bit taken back by my confidence* "Haha okay... 12 34 56........"
Me: "Cool, are you doing anything on Fri/Sat?"
Her: "Ahh i think i have some graduation parties there..."
Me: "No problem, how about tomorrow?"
Her: "I'm not so sure yet, i'll have to check"
Me: "No problem, we'll figure it out"
And then i took her number, shook her hand and bounced off. I texted her in person while reading it out loud, letting her know that she would have my number too that way. "Hey! -(name)" was my text.
When i got home i remember she said her schedule was tight and messaged her after the "hey" text:
Me: "Hey (name), hope you're enjoying the wine! I have some holes in my calendar this week, but let me know how yours are looking, then we can figure it out
"
Her: "Thank you. What's your facebook?"
Me: "Don't use facebook so often, do you have instagram?"
Her: "(full name)"
Me: *follow her* "Done."
Me: "(link to facebook) and my facebook. Don't use it so often tho"
She didn't reply to that SMS. At that point i know i'm chasing fucking hard. It was too much to text her 2 hours later to schedule, but now i'm texting too much as well. She then follows me back on instagram and i figured her reason was to sit with her girlfriends and check my profile through so she could show them what i look like. I shoot her a DM on instagram: "Good luck to the girlfriends with roasting me" *seen*
I know it was only just last night and she maybe just put her phone away to hang with her girlfriends and haven't gotten back from sleep yet. I still fucked up my texting hard there. I think if i get no response from her i will just no contact her for a week (i'm going away on holiday for a week next week anyways, so i can't date then), and then hit her back up asking for her schedule the weekend i get home or the next week. She follows me on instagram, so i will put up stories so she can follow my life and see i'm not a psycho and have a busy life.
Any other suggestions?
Me: *stumble on my opener, a bit fatigued* "Hi i saw and... you and... i think you looked a bit cute and wanted to say hi. What's your name?"
Her: *smiling big, extremely hot* "I'm (name)"
Me: "(name)..... i'm (name), nice to meet you"
Me: "You got summer holidays now?"
Her: "Yeah i do"
Me: "Cool, same, so what's gonna happen next?"
Her: *misunderstands me, she thinks i mean now, not after summer holidays* "I'm bringing this bottle of wine down to the water with my friends and we're just gonna chill"
Me: "Oh that's lovely, but i meant after the summer holidays"
Her: "Ohh i just graduated, i'm gonna study dentist clinic assisstant in (city)"
Me: "That's cool, i live there, where did you graduate?"
Her: "(this and this high school), and what do you do?"
Me: "I graduated last year and like you i went straight on to vocational school as (occupation)"
Her: "Ah okay that's nice"
Me: "And what are your hobbies like?"
Her: "Hmmm i work out alot and read a bit"
Me: "Ah right, so besides going to the gym do you do any sports?"
Her: "Hmm not really, but i did badminton for some years, what about you?"
Me: "I work out alot too and then i do MMA"
Her: "Wooow haha"
Me: "Yeah i know, and it was really fucked up, because the membership fee is quite pricy, so when they closed down everything in March, i quit in April after i was charged, but that meant i still had to pay 1+3 months for membership fee according to their terms of agreement"
Her: "Ahh that sucks"
Me: "Yeah i know.."
Her: "Well do you want my snapchat? I need to get going.."
Me: "I don't use snapchat, i wanted to take your number so i could take you out sometime"
Her: *a bit taken back by my confidence* "Haha okay... 12 34 56........"
Me: "Cool, are you doing anything on Fri/Sat?"
Her: "Ahh i think i have some graduation parties there..."
Me: "No problem, how about tomorrow?"
Her: "I'm not so sure yet, i'll have to check"
Me: "No problem, we'll figure it out"
And then i took her number, shook her hand and bounced off. I texted her in person while reading it out loud, letting her know that she would have my number too that way. "Hey! -(name)" was my text.
When i got home i remember she said her schedule was tight and messaged her after the "hey" text:
Me: "Hey (name), hope you're enjoying the wine! I have some holes in my calendar this week, but let me know how yours are looking, then we can figure it out
"Her: "Thank you. What's your facebook?"
Me: "Don't use facebook so often, do you have instagram?"
Her: "(full name)"
Me: *follow her* "Done."
Me: "(link to facebook) and my facebook. Don't use it so often tho"
She didn't reply to that SMS. At that point i know i'm chasing fucking hard. It was too much to text her 2 hours later to schedule, but now i'm texting too much as well. She then follows me back on instagram and i figured her reason was to sit with her girlfriends and check my profile through so she could show them what i look like. I shoot her a DM on instagram: "Good luck to the girlfriends with roasting me
" *seen*I know it was only just last night and she maybe just put her phone away to hang with her girlfriends and haven't gotten back from sleep yet. I still fucked up my texting hard there. I think if i get no response from her i will just no contact her for a week (i'm going away on holiday for a week next week anyways, so i can't date then), and then hit her back up asking for her schedule the weekend i get home or the next week. She follows me on instagram, so i will put up stories so she can follow my life and see i'm not a psycho and have a busy life.
Any other suggestions?
