Milf is coming over with her female friend, what do?

[Chubadoo]

Dunno if I'm posting this in the right section but anyway, I find a 40+ year old on tinder, she super likes me and texts first (my pictures are kinda shitty but I got a good bio which gets me matches)

My texting game is smooth, I move it to messenger, she lives like 50 miles from me but she's been to my town several times so I tell her we ought to meet up this summer.
We somehow end up speaking about some songs that we both liked and conversastion dies there out until I text her yesterday after about one week, tell her how she is and where she's been.
"I was thinking about you and was gonna text you today" she says. Turns out she's planned to visit my town this weekend, she'll spend the night here. And she'll be with a female friend of hers.

NOW, do we have any tips/articles on how to deal with 2 mature women on a date? My shift ends at 10pm so we're going out at night. I'm uncertain whether she's bringing her friend along but if it so happens, I don't know how to handle both of them. I'm in my early 20s and I've got nearly no experience with women. Shall I get a friend alongside so we're on a double date? Or go all by myself and hope for a threeway fun.

Send help lads

 

[Fuck This]

More than likely the friend is for confirmation of good judgement. Probably wouldn't hurt to have a buddy to occupy the friend.

But i would converse with her on the phone in real time so you can get the jist of her tone, what she is expecting from your date....Women who are into 3 somes aren't going to be shy about suggesting them to a guy because they know EVERY guy is up for it...If you lay down a sexual tone you will get a clearer idea.

"is your friend ok if you don't come home for the night? "

 

[Skills]

biggest mistake was to allow a date of 2, I always decline this type of dates, now you are auditioning

 

[ulrich]

Need more information.

Is she overtly flirty?

 

[Chubadoo]

"is your friend ok if you don't come home for the night? "

Haha lovely. Imma throw that in after I figure out some more details later today or tomorrow, such as if her friend is from here/has got a house, where they're staying or if she's coming over with us to our date, just dunno how to ask the last part. Also I don't live by myself and bringing over a woman that is about the age of my mother would make things awkward ahah.

Is she overtly flirty?

Not too much, we haven't texted much. But she's been complimenting me, suggesting that she wants to see me sooner and heart/kiss emojis have been flying back and forth. First contact was initiated about 2 weeks ago and I specificed that I wouldn't be visiting her city any time soon as I'm busy with work, but we ought to meet up somewhere in the summer as we don't live that far away from each other.

3rd weekend after and she's coming over.

Edit: Something random that I just came up with.. she was asking me about some good beaches around my parts so she goes with her friend for a swim in the evening. Maybe later at night I can bring that up, suggesting that I'd really like to go for a swim with her but missed my chance due to being at work, perhaps we could go nightswimming to an isolated place and once the clothes come off smash her on the spot ;] ;]

Edit#2: but then again she isn't a teenage girl but a grown woman.

 

[Fuck This]

my feeling is on Tinder, lead with sex.

A woman your mother's age is not looking to "raise her next husband" She is coming from out of town so her social circle won't know about her indiscretions.

Get your logistics locked down now so you can handle one or both.

 

[Seppuku]

A woman asking to bring her female friend with her on a date is not uncommon. In the past I have handled this kind of situation in one of two ways:

• Refusing it altogether. "No, this is a date, you and me only". If she wants to see me, she has to come alone, or nothing. It actually helps your frame a lot to show that you have standards and are able to draw a line of what's acceptable and what's not.
• Turning it to my advantage by taking the two on a date straight to my place. Because they are two of them, it's more likely to work. You can try to turn in into a threesome if you want, but otherwise, because your target has already seen your place, it will be easy to bring her there on a second date, and this time, alone. When you take them both home, tease them with "but you have to promise you won't try to abuse me!". At home, have a bottle of wine, put on some music, set up a party mood, be social with both of them, ramp up sexual tension with both, but gently escalate on your target.

In any case, once you're on a date with the two women, you have to make sure you remain the center of attraction - you can't have the two of them start chatting among themselves and get excluded from their group.

 

[Skjöldr]

Personally i turn down group dates in the early stages of the seduction. Meeting up with her friends is something her nice guy orbiters and providers do. If you don't wanna girlfriend her, then overall i would stay clear of it 100%, unless it's to steer towards a threesome. Hurts your frame as a casual lover. Fuccboys don't have time to sip tea with her lame ass friends, they are out to fuck women.

You'll get cockblocked hardd with a tiny chance you can pull a threesome. It's important to isolate a chick when seducing.

 

[Chubadoo]

For the record she sent her friend to her hotel room and then met me 1 on 1. LR coming up