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Mimicking youtubers as a way of learning

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Space Monkey
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Hello everyone. Hope you are well. I have a new idea. I'd like to share it with you, and then please if you can, share your thoughts on it. My idea is to observe the pretty boys from the popular crowd, the guys who are good at getting chicks. And, using my skill at imitation and acting, I can mimic these guys' behavior. Their mannerisms, their expressions, their dress, etc. Like an actor, but obivously not mimicking verbatim; I'd just take their essence and put my own twist on it.

Who I am specifically speaking about mimicking are those funny young confident Youtubers out there (Gen Z) who film themselves doing pickup in various fun places like on spring break, on college campuses, etc. These guys were never in the PUA scene they are simply youngsters from the popular crowd. The videos are both semi-humorous and semi-serious, they really do get numbers and the whole shebang, but what I really sense when I watch these guys is this is how I should look when I do pickup.

So I plan to watch these guys at work and then copy them.

But let me tell you why I came up with such an idea in the first place...Sometimes I don't know what kind of guy I should be, so I need some role models. Just reading nice articles and then going out and doing pickup doesn't seem to fully do it for me. I have to observe examples of great guys who are excelling.

Let me know what you think of my idea fellas, is it solid or what?
 

Curwen

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...the pretty boys from the popular crowd, the guys who are good at getting chicks...

I think you should be careful here. I don't know what kind of individuals you are referring to, but I'm guessing you don't REALLY know how much they get laid. Remember that it's also beneficial for them to look like they are doing very well.

Anyway, I think it could be a good idea. At some point you will (hopefully) realize that it's time to move on and try something different. Personally, I'm at a point where I don't model anyone so much anymore. But I had to model a lot of gurus to learn what works for me.
 

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I think you should be careful here. I don't know what kind of individuals you are referring to, but I'm guessing you don't REALLY know how much they get laid. Remember that it's also beneficial for them to look like they are doing very well.

Anyway, I think it could be a good idea. At some point you will (hopefully) realize that it's time to move on and try something different. Personally, I'm at a point where I don't model anyone so much anymore. But I had to model a lot of gurus to learn what works for me.
You are correct. I would never be so stupid as to just put all my trust in some guy from the internet. Indeed, he might very well be a chump off camera and the whole thing could be a setup. I do know of clowns like that. But I'm speaking merely about the way a guy carries himself during the initial conversation/ initial interaction with chicks. I'm making observations on the guy's delivery, tonality, body language, confidence, humor, wit. For example I watched 2 videos of that guy Jack Denmo today and he seems alright to me. SO FAR. But as always I will be careful.
 

ulrich

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If you’re going to mimic someone from YouTube I can only recommend Hector Castillo and Austen Summers.

Don’t forget that YouTube (and most video platforms and social networks) are mostly entertainment.
Many guys there are doing fun stuff that looks cool and is funny but behind the cameras it brings no results.
 

Gunwitch

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An article of mine explains this in detail:


If Pressed for time this explains the problem of mimicking anyone at all or using any persona:

"

So Who Should I Be?​

First off, don’t BE anything or put on an act, because you can’t match her personality style precisely every time, not enough to hook consistently much less lead her to sex.

You can’t just “be good-looking” either, because with variances in personality style, you get knee-jerk social frames of what she prefers in a man’s style. Some don’t like a high fashion outfit; they only date men who wear “thug gear” and vice versa. Some women’s genetics call for a specific facial structure; other times, ovulation affects preferences. When using certain types of birth control, those same women prefer a lover with different facial structures at different times. See this article:

Depending on which study you read, the average male has 5, 7, or 11 sex partners in their lifetime. A paltry number, despite this confusion. It keeps society running, though. If it was that simple, all we would do is have sex.

So, you can’t be “the strong silent type” who is good-looking and dressed to impress. You can’t be James Bond come to life and have much of a chance with any chick. Some will be knee-jerk instant, “Nope, not my type.”

So if James Bond is going to get in where he fits in AND alter his personality to try to match women like a chicken with its head cut off running in circles, some women STILL won’t be turned on by his looks.

WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO DO!? WHAT DO WOMEN WANT!?

Is cold approach pickup even possible!? Well, my lay count is in the 400s, so yes.

However, believe half of what you see and none of what you hear.

I’m going to explain how you can TEST this in your game and see the power to understand this problem.
"

Goes to the issue of "modeling" someones act, persona, style etc. Rest of article goes into how to test a better approach from my system.


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