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Hey guys.
I made a recent post regarding my speed dating experience with a girl I've met recently. This experience came up after I decided to ground myself in natural mindset and balance that out with technical game. But it seems I still have some work to do. Based on how I would usually handle my interactions with women in the past, I thought I was taking too much time building rapport and then making a move. However, with this recent interaction, I moved a bit faster here with the process. The timeline for that is I met her on one day, and then I worked towards setting up a date a few days after exchanging a few texts with her. I thought I was moving fast here, but it has come to my attention that I was moving slow according to some of the members here at GirlsChase.
This means I still have trouble reading signals or reading the room so to speak. So I've decided to revisit the first interactions I had with women when I first started taking advice from GC, which was 2018. What I'll do here is I'll post some screenshots and give in a context of what my thought process was at the time, and let me know if my thought process at the time was correct or if I got it wrong. I will mostly be looking at the early interactions I had with them and not interactions later down the line.
1. Context: I met her on the bus we ended up talking for a long time on it. I ended up talking to her about a bunch of things throughout the entire transit ride before getting off to go to work. A few days after getting her number passed and this was my early interactions with her. This was before I got deep into GC material. I did read a few though, so talking to her my thought process was that girls will sometimes shit test men. If he fails she won't like him, if he passes she'll like him (this was before I knew they shit test men they DO like). And following the persistence 3 times and shit. I also did some teasing work here too.
2. I met her at a workplace, worked along side her, had lunch with her, all in the span of meeting her on that one day. The things I've done here are teasing using canned material and trying to word my responses to make myself sound interesting.
3. This is one of the girls I met in virtual speed dating at 2020. We matched up and I worked towards setting a date with her on the same week. With this one I was being cautious because with the two previous girls above, I was trying to work on game and impressing my way into sex with that in case I fucked up in the dynamics department. Before meeting this particular chick though, I internalized the mindset of different interest levels, learning that despite game there are some women that are never gonna like me (key point here is a GC article wrote and example here saying if you call her after meeting from a club, just say "this is <your name>". If she doesn't even remember who you are, then most likely she's not that interested in dating you.), moments in cold approach that said she's never interested in meeting you (I had a hard time distinguishing if she just doesn't like me or if I did something wrong with my game) I basically had to bring myself back to recognizing which girls like me (good leads) and which ones didn't (bad leads). I ended up looking up on following material similar to this when dealing with her. I also ended up watching some redpill content prior to meeting her. Let's just say the date with this one went terribly.
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Okay here it is.
I made a recent post regarding my speed dating experience with a girl I've met recently. This experience came up after I decided to ground myself in natural mindset and balance that out with technical game. But it seems I still have some work to do. Based on how I would usually handle my interactions with women in the past, I thought I was taking too much time building rapport and then making a move. However, with this recent interaction, I moved a bit faster here with the process. The timeline for that is I met her on one day, and then I worked towards setting up a date a few days after exchanging a few texts with her. I thought I was moving fast here, but it has come to my attention that I was moving slow according to some of the members here at GirlsChase.
This means I still have trouble reading signals or reading the room so to speak. So I've decided to revisit the first interactions I had with women when I first started taking advice from GC, which was 2018. What I'll do here is I'll post some screenshots and give in a context of what my thought process was at the time, and let me know if my thought process at the time was correct or if I got it wrong. I will mostly be looking at the early interactions I had with them and not interactions later down the line.
1. Context: I met her on the bus we ended up talking for a long time on it. I ended up talking to her about a bunch of things throughout the entire transit ride before getting off to go to work. A few days after getting her number passed and this was my early interactions with her. This was before I got deep into GC material. I did read a few though, so talking to her my thought process was that girls will sometimes shit test men. If he fails she won't like him, if he passes she'll like him (this was before I knew they shit test men they DO like). And following the persistence 3 times and shit. I also did some teasing work here too.
2. I met her at a workplace, worked along side her, had lunch with her, all in the span of meeting her on that one day. The things I've done here are teasing using canned material and trying to word my responses to make myself sound interesting.
3. This is one of the girls I met in virtual speed dating at 2020. We matched up and I worked towards setting a date with her on the same week. With this one I was being cautious because with the two previous girls above, I was trying to work on game and impressing my way into sex with that in case I fucked up in the dynamics department. Before meeting this particular chick though, I internalized the mindset of different interest levels, learning that despite game there are some women that are never gonna like me (key point here is a GC article wrote and example here saying if you call her after meeting from a club, just say "this is <your name>". If she doesn't even remember who you are, then most likely she's not that interested in dating you.), moments in cold approach that said she's never interested in meeting you (I had a hard time distinguishing if she just doesn't like me or if I did something wrong with my game) I basically had to bring myself back to recognizing which girls like me (good leads) and which ones didn't (bad leads). I ended up looking up on following material similar to this when dealing with her. I also ended up watching some redpill content prior to meeting her. Let's just say the date with this one went terribly.
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Okay here it is.
