Missing opportunities with women... You don't know how she'll affect your life.

[Cacc]

If you really think about it, not taking opportunities with girls can be way scarier than taking them.

I walked past a car in a stop sign and there was a girl in the car who made eye contact me, smiled and motioned me to go ahead. After some more steps I was thinking about how beautiful she was, and that I should have walked up to the car, complimented her and taken her number.

I was thinking all sorts of scenarios. Maybe she would have taught me a valuable lesson, maybe she would have became my girlfriend, or maybe she would have just rejected me. But I will never get to know now. Isn't that scary?

Every girl is an opportunity to positively enrich your life and to help you become a better man. It's like you've been walking down the same old road for years and life decides to open up a new road for you, and you decide to stay on the same old road. It's like buying the lottery once and losing and you decide you'll never play again, when if you would have just played a second time you would have hit the jackpot.

Whatever excuse for yourself you make up is nowhere near as bad as missed opportunities of wonderful relationships.

just my 2 cents.

 

[Drck]

Re: Missing opportunities with women... You don't know how she'll affect your li

Yeah, that sucks, you just got to be ready all the time for anything...

Some 2 years ago I was walking home from fitness. There was this cute girl running diagonally in my direction, good looking, great body, early 20s... I was literally less than 100 yards from my place... She passed me, slowed down and stopped about 10 feet ahead of me. Walked couple seconds so I can get a good look at her ass, and then she looked around and gave me that deep look...

Man, I knew she wanted to fuck, right away. She looked like she just broke up with her BF and was looking for revenge... That was like the most ideal situation ever, things like that just don't happen. If you think effortless, this was truly effortless situation...

I was just stun, I wasn't ready for situation like that. No seduction, no effort, no frame, no logistics, simply Nothing... The girl would have jumped in my bed, only if I asked (which I didn't)...


Seriously, how does one screw up situation like that?