FR Mix Groups Run

[Swati]

interesting fielding experience, merge group, too many clusters

When I was coaching with Alek said to push myself in mixed groups, hang out with them, and see if I could pull. Here is a recent incident. MAYBE there was a possibility to create openings or not, either way wasn't a bad experience.

DURING THE NIGHT I had 2 incidents where I had the guys trying to hook me up with their girls.
*** This early incident was a dude that just in good faith wanted to connect me with an extra girl from the group. He told the girl he was fucking, to hook me up with that friend of hers. It didn't work too well since the volume of the club was super loud n shit. It's alright, after a bit they left. We saw each other again at the venue change and we ate some light food he paid for it and 2 days after I bought us hookah. Cool dude, we'll see how it goes.***

Venue change to another district where it has SUPER LOUD clubs.

Earlier in the night game club one side was like 20% full NO GIRLS, and the other one FILLED UP, not great ratios.

We 1st met inside of the bathroom,

"you guys are from (this country)!?"

"Yes!"

Then when they came outside we smoke cigarettes inside of the bathroom LOL, the dude taking a piss was probably thinking WTF we were doing while listening to music. But this is frame control, creating your fun, not being affected by the environment, it smelled n shit, but with cigarettes, music, and cool people we had fun.

Social frame, I buy the guy's shots and drinks, because I could build momentum in the escalation of the movements.

I jumped on the table to dance, then went up in front of the DJ and started dancing and took them up too. Taking leadership, and risk-taking I think is also attractive to leading.

Group consisted of a fatass dude (we met outside), and gay-looking who wasn't gay, K, and another girl. Fem-looking dude, dressed in those punk early 2000 era styles. This dude, I don't know how much game he had, but he "could" pull, if he knows how. Lowkey natural.

"that city is gay(he thought i referred to him, but it's misunderstanding)"

He got a little bit annoyed, whatever, happens.

They were all cool with me.

For sure the 2 dudes perceived me as a competition. I'm a local guy and have a light social frame with them, they KNEW if they weren't there the girl would have given me an OPEN WINDOW TO ESCALATE. The only dude who was pretty cool with me was the closest to my social frame, his name is K=AleK, LOL.

K, was pretty fun to be around, he and I were just dicking around, socializing, lowkey terrorizing the locals but they knew we were just cracking jokes, it was mostly me doing it. In the local social code it is frowned upon, I'm connected I don't care and I can't live like I'm introverted and shit...

Technical move, I bought them 3 shots with the dude that has a hook with me, a friend's social hook, after our bathroom karaoke, we got tequila I paid for it because I genuinely had fun with them. It was pretty funny. Then we dick around the club like it was our house, jumping on the tables and in front of the DJ, etc, just didn't give a fuck.

Moving on...

My target is 7.5, the girl inside of the group, there 3 other ones that were pretty fine, I approached them inside of the club but that shit went not so great when I was near the dance floor because of the loud venue and she was pretty defensive, got a polite "fuck off", when their group merged with our, I was a bit of a dick but one I could see that their curiosity grew for me, eventually they disappeared.

Anyways as I was leaving the place, we re-engaged again this time there was this target, and there was a fatass girl, thank god a black dude was giving her validation, and chatting her up could have been bad news lol.

I chatted with my target for a while no one interrupted, we talked about traveling, where I have been, blah blah what she's doing here. The fat dude in the group talked about wanting to go to 711, we walked over, and I bought 3 soju, I was drunk I tried the spillover on some local girl, but got a blank because maybe I was too aggressive, i disliked the local girls here, it didn't work.

Fatass dude, shotgun the soju, in like 10 minutes he was feeling a bit hazy. At no point they were aggressive, and at the time I didn't use them.

I think the fatfuck was just a munching pig. Like he wanted an excuse for being a fucking pig. Never understood why people PAY other people to consume....?! Clown...

fatfuck: "If I shotgun the soju will you pay me 2 dollars"

(I half ignored him) Idiot, I paid for the shit you want to pay for drinking it. I bought booze to sedate the fatfuck since I bought into the social frame.

(in my mind "How about I smash the glass on your fucking head")

There was a playful time when my target took my soju, exchange it for my flavor and I drank both at the same, waterfalling it, she was super close physically but couldn't give off super obvious signals as it would give herself away too much, the circle probably would say she a whore or some shit. When we got the taxi for the venue changing.

**** At this point the girl was sitting next to me, I should have escalated a bit guided her back, or did some light escalation or something. I'm rusty that's why I'm not able to see or I didn't see clear windows, and we were in a group of 3 guys and 1 girl.

During the cab drive, we just listened to music, talked shit, and cussing, but it was for fun maybe it was offensive.

When I got out of the taxi I saw a dude with some food, I pointed at him, and I was like

"yo dude I didn't eat, can I get a spoon" lol

"Sure dude go ahead" (nice dude)

my target: "NO (SWATI) NO!!!!"

(I like the investment here giving me so much attention)

I went to go dick around, I lost them, oh well whatever, went to the new venue DJ Booth stood there like a jackass, this club was BLACK, couldn't see much, and VERY LOUD. Mostly to test the accessibility of the club area for me. I requested they play 50 cents, DJ was like "Oh I know that" She probably couldn't play it since it was like techno/EDM/after-hour place lol. I paid for overpriced water, I think I approached got a blank from the bitch then went outside and talked some shit.

After a while, I walked outside and saw K, I introduced him to my local friend then after

K: "dude dude you like (country) girls?! She likes you, dude! (referring to my target)"

(this was an opener)
target: "I'm leaving today at 8 am"

Me: "It's ok we got a few hours"

(then I think a few people were like "OHHHHHHH")

It's a spike, shouldn't have done it, looks good, bad time, was drunk. I sometimes spike unintentionally because I have a banter background or idiots wanting to get some reactions.

(then we add phone numbers)

She couldn't extend interest, there were 3 other dudes from the "friend group", extended circle.

Reengaged with my target outside, THEN...
WHALE INCOMING= GAME OVER
Holy FUCKIN SHIT, this WHALE CAME out of nowhere and TOOK UP like 80% of the space between my target and me, that was it. I guess this was the "thing" they were meeting up. Like a gentleman, I open the door to her taxi and she leaves with the WHALE, I think the car suspension went down by like 10 inches when the whale got on, on one side of the car.

Given the case, it probably was not pullable or it was, a unique fielding to learn from. The bigger the circle the harder it is to pull, a lot of wildcards

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[Chase]

@Swati,

These kinds of situations are twisted up logistically.

The girl obviously liked you and was into you.

Like you noticed she couldn't do much, surrounded by three male friends.

The fat friend who showed up at the end cockblocked you (and her) further too.

Then on top of all that she's leaving tomorrow at 8 AM.

You're basically reliant on the friends either being cool and leaving you alone with her (seemed like they weren't gonna) or else you and the girl outlasting them all and them all getting too tired and going home first (didn't seem like they were gonna).

Best call for scenarios like this is usually to get the girl's contact info so you can meet up with her some other time when the friends won't be around (or when you'll both be in the same city again).

You can also text with her after you leave her side to see if she manages to get away from the friend group (try and re-meet her later that night IF it is on enough).

Mostly though:

Solidify the connection, exchange contacts, then eject and look for a girl it's more realistic to pull.

Stay in touch with her over messages in case her logistics change and there's a chance to pull her later (& your other options don't work out).

Worth experimenting with either way though!

Good experiences here.

Chase

 

[Swati]

@Swati,

These kinds of situations are twisted up logistically.

The girl obviously liked you and was into you.

Like you noticed she couldn't do much, surrounded by three male friends.

The fat friend who showed up at the end cockblocked you (and her) further too.

Then on top of all that she's leaving tomorrow at 8 AM.

You're basically reliant on the friends either being cool and leaving you alone with her (seemed like they weren't gonna) or else you and the girl outlasting them all and them all getting too tired and going home first (didn't seem like they were gonna).

Best call for scenarios like this is usually to get the girl's contact info so you can meet up with her some other time when the friends won't be around (or when you'll both be in the same city again).

You can also text with her after you leave her side to see if she manages to get away from the friend group (try and re-meet her later that night IF it is on enough).

Mostly though:

Solidify the connection, exchange contacts, then eject and look for a girl it's more realistic to pull.

Stay in touch with her over messages in case her logistics change and there's a chance to pull her later (& your other options don't work out).

Worth experimenting with either way though!

Good experiences here.

Chase

yeah, contact exchange would have been a better call, then look for better targets. but it sucks around here, lacking in volume.

I hooked K up with a dyed blonde girl, 6, for a number exchange.

Anyways you could imagine the quality around hahaha.

soon to be fielding with wingmen in different areas where I would be more motivated and a lot more girls

more to come soon!

thanks for the feedback, Chase

 

[Swati]

Update: I just met up with her again. In the beginning, she was pretty cold and shy, slowly warmed up later on.

"I guess the whisper of her liking me from K was real!"

Thanks, dude!

The downside is that it was raining today, we planned to meetup a day prior. She changed location and wasn't super active in meeting up. I could understand that as her social value would drop if she invested too much, my attainability would go down with her, and her/I would probably auto-reject. So I decided to go meet her.

When I first met up, I would fake being social and went for a hug she liked, but she didn't want to display herself, as it could give her away too much. She showed up with makeup, quite pretty. 10 years difference with each other, social frame wise they can accept it more.

I didn't like her sun sign tbh, Gemini, some are ok, but their signs tend to be fickle, I almost auto-rejected based on the zodiac sign. But in her chart there was other stuff I liked so, it balanced.

We toured around a couple of places, where she wanted me to see her university. But as rebellious kids since youth, I graduated from university and know what they teach is bullshit, didn't really care.

I'm a "local" so she probably felt easier to connect with me on her turf.

I went inside the school for a tour of the campus, paid for overpriced coffee, and she took me for a tour, I was bored half of the time, she was a full-on boyfriend seeking/slow mode, and all of a sudden I got super hungry, went to eat I paid again, we both ate, talked about languages, movies, etc, then walked her back to her university.

She knows I'm only here for like 4days, so if she comes out again, I'll see what happens. Honestly I don't really care... got laid yesterday. if there's a window I'll take it, if not I have a pretty to hangout with show off and shit.

Whatever she's pretty. Locals don't date them, I saw bunch of people positioning themselves next to us trying to listen in on the conversation.