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Mixed signals from colleague?

rulesofloaded

Space Monkey
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Hi,

So,in my class,there is a girl that for quite some time has been cold and sometimes seemed like she was avoiding me on purpose.
As I do with all girls in my class, I try to maintain a sexy vibe with her as well(lots of touch and eye contact).At times she would look at me with a weird face but never objected whenever I touched her.(I touch her hair,hands and shoulders,sometimes the leg,playfully)
Other things I noticed in our small interactions were blushing and dilated pupils,especially during eye contact.(she wears glasses,might that have something to do?)

Lately,she seems to be thawing out,and became much more playful and receptive.I remember in one of our interactions I playfully told her to shut up and we got into one another's face almost like you see fighters do(I swear,if it wasn't in front of the class I would have kissed her then),although she pulled back with an ''oh'' when someone passed us by.Second time we did this I got as close as I could without our noses touching.

Today,after school,I went with her and her friend(she's also a good friend of mine) at a cafe,where I got to know her a little better(she didn't seem to want to tell me anything about her before).I don't think I made the right choice coming though,as I may have pushed myself towards the friendzone.

I am not sure on how to continue,I was thinking I could escalate at some house some of us from the school are going to soon when no one is looking.
Her and her friend's company do prove useful in raising my status in the social circle(looks from other hot girls,kudos from guys) so I wouldn't risk it by deliberately asking for a date(logistics aren't great either).

What's the best course of action?( potential GF?)
Should I keep being playful or dial up my sexiness?
Are my interactions too friendly,or too immature?
 

Marcellus

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey man,

just tell her that you two should hang out and do something when you next see her. Better to actually make a move then to keep prolonging this :)
 

rulesofloaded

Space Monkey
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Sounds like the best idea.Kinda hard to meet her now though,since we're in vacation,and I'd rather not do it over text.
 

Marcellus

Cro-Magnon Man
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Just do it when you guys are back together, probably next year I'm guessing! And in the meantime you can approach other girls or do whatever you feel brother :)
 
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