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Sitting at her laptop in the lobby below the lab. I was eating a chocolate and looked at her and
smiled. She smiled back. I asked her what's she doing here sitting alone in the lobby, and she said
she is working on some homework for a class. She was a student of behavioural psychology and wanted
to work for people facing mental difficulties with their family life. She was smiling broadly when
I approached her.
I was standing the whole time while she was sitting. She said she is from Alaska, and since I've
never met someone from there before I asked her to pull up the location of her home town. She obliged,
and then we had a brief chat about winter sports. She was here for the university and because her
sister lived here. She was quite close to her family in the city and liked going out to restaurants
with them. Said she liked milkshake the best. I said I liked that too and we spoke about that for sometime.
I asked her if she would like to grab a milkshake sometime, which she happily said yes to. I had forgotten
my phone in my room so I asked her to take her phone out and send me a text in front of me so that we could stay
in touch. I later texted her, but her reply was "I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that, but I
appreciate you talking to me."
My question : what went wrong here? She seemed to be all smiles and into the conversation for a good length
of time. Thought she would come along, but no!
The compliance pings seemed to working nicely initially. She also seemed to be quite into
the conversation pretty fast given the way she was responding. Given that she had travelled
from Alaska and was quite open to conversation, she seems like someone who is dominant
in arousal. I did not make any physical contact with her though. Might this be a reason
for rejection?
smiled. She smiled back. I asked her what's she doing here sitting alone in the lobby, and she said
she is working on some homework for a class. She was a student of behavioural psychology and wanted
to work for people facing mental difficulties with their family life. She was smiling broadly when
I approached her.
I was standing the whole time while she was sitting. She said she is from Alaska, and since I've
never met someone from there before I asked her to pull up the location of her home town. She obliged,
and then we had a brief chat about winter sports. She was here for the university and because her
sister lived here. She was quite close to her family in the city and liked going out to restaurants
with them. Said she liked milkshake the best. I said I liked that too and we spoke about that for sometime.
I asked her if she would like to grab a milkshake sometime, which she happily said yes to. I had forgotten
my phone in my room so I asked her to take her phone out and send me a text in front of me so that we could stay
in touch. I later texted her, but her reply was "I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that, but I
appreciate you talking to me."
My question : what went wrong here? She seemed to be all smiles and into the conversation for a good length
of time. Thought she would come along, but no!
The compliance pings seemed to working nicely initially. She also seemed to be quite into
the conversation pretty fast given the way she was responding. Given that she had travelled
from Alaska and was quite open to conversation, she seems like someone who is dominant
in arousal. I did not make any physical contact with her though. Might this be a reason
for rejection?