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Rakehell

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Thursday

I was walking around, got stopped for directions. Beautiful morrocan girl.

Told her to follow me we walked and small talked, and I used the opportunity to hone in on my nonverbals.

Made it to our destination and she thanked me, there was a big pause where we were making eye contact and she broke it looking down.

She blurted out asking for my social media, so I told her she could have my number. She elated. Put it in her phone (forgot to have her text me there!).

But it didn’t matter because she texted me later on. Probed her logistics over text we met up an hour or two later. Walked and talked outside, bounced her around a bit, then bounced her back to my car.

Wasn’t feeling the vibe in my car mostly due to location (fair amount of people walking around).

So we went on a drive. It was night at this point, found a cool spot to park was fairly lit but isolated, and at this point she was very comfortable.

Started escalating the vibe (re:60 years of challenge), from maybe a 6 to an 8, pulled her in slow and teased the kiss, we makeout a bit and I pull away, and go back back to talking.

Start escalating touch and make my way down to her legs, trying to draw out the process so that she’s fully turned on before I try to move her.

We end up in the backseat and she’s on top of me. My knees on her kitty and im touching her legs and ass, I make my way toward her inner things with my hands and start massaging her clit through her pants.

All the while we’re talking like normal, and it starts getting harder for her to talk. I ask her what’s wrong like I don’t already know. Get her clothes off and you know the rest.

Takeaways:

-Getting approached is always kind of jarring especially when you aren’t expecting it. Just have to lead the way.

-Wasn’t feeling especially smooth this day but it doesn’t matter. Just press forward.

-If you don’t feel the vibe sometimes it can help to find a way so that you do, change something up until it feels right

-Think good fundamentals were the key to this, just going out and living your life can bring you passive returns when you aren’t looking for them. You never know what can happen.

-One of my personal favorite lays very cool girl and super cute

-Huge change from my previous fr, and where my heads been at in general. All it takes is a day so just keep pushing.
 

gameboy

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Wow, good thinking telling her to follow you there! Automatic compliance...

Getting approached yourself can be confusing indeed. Some weeks ago a girl approached me in a club, telling me "You look so Zen". She chatted me up but I completely fumbled it since I was out of my depth and didn't take the lead.
 

Rakehell

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Wow, good thinking telling her to follow you there! Automatic compliance...

Getting approached yourself can be confusing indeed. Some weeks ago a girl approached me in a club, telling me "You look so Zen". She chatted me up but I completely fumbled it since I was out of my depth and didn't take the lead.

Thanks man. Yeah I kind of assumed that she was interested/highly compliant, so I felt pretty certain that she was waiting for me to take the lead. And wanted to reward her for going out of her way to initiate things, by walking with her/investing in her too.
 

Chase

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@Rakehell,

Nice lay!

It seems like a layup because she approached you and it was smooth all the way through.

But those "girl approaches you" moments are all too easy to drop the ball on.

Thursday

I was walking around, got stopped for directions. Beautiful morrocan girl.

Told her to follow me we walked and small talked, and I used the opportunity to hone in on my nonverbals.

Like @gameboy said, having her follow you was an excellent call.

Made it to our destination and she thanked me, there was a big pause where we were making eye contact and she broke it looking down.

She blurted out asking for my social media, so I told her she could have my number. She elated. Put it in her phone (forgot to have her text me there!).

Great here. Just held eye contact until she cracked.

No need to be "on" for that either.

Just hold the EC...

But it didn’t matter because she texted me later on. Probed her logistics over text we met up an hour or two later. Walked and talked outside, bounced her around a bit, then bounced her back to my car.

Wasn’t feeling the vibe in my car mostly due to location (fair amount of people walking around).

So we went on a drive. It was night at this point, found a cool spot to park was fairly lit but isolated, and at this point she was very comfortable.

Good call here.

Too many people, girl is clearly into you; stay in the car in your own isolated little bubble on a drive and keep the convo going.

Started escalating the vibe (re:60 years of challenge), from maybe a 6 to an 8, pulled her in slow and teased the kiss, we makeout a bit and I pull away, and go back back to talking.

Start escalating touch and make my way down to her legs, trying to draw out the process so that she’s fully turned on before I try to move her.

We end up in the backseat and she’s on top of me. My knees on her kitty and im touching her legs and ass, I make my way toward her inner things with my hands and start massaging her clit through her pants.

All the while we’re talking like normal, and it starts getting harder for her to talk. I ask her what’s wrong like I don’t already know. Get her clothes off and you know the rest.

Smooth stuff, man!

Fun tease on her at the end :D

Takeaways:

-Getting approached is always kind of jarring especially when you aren’t expecting it. Just have to lead the way.

-Wasn’t feeling especially smooth this day but it doesn’t matter. Just press forward.

-If you don’t feel the vibe sometimes it can help to find a way so that you do, change something up until it feels right

-Think good fundamentals were the key to this, just going out and living your life can bring you passive returns when you aren’t looking for them. You never know what can happen.

-One of my personal favorite lays very cool girl and super cute

-Huge change from my previous fr, and where my heads been at in general. All it takes is a day so just keep pushing.

The three standout moments to me:

  1. Responding to her approach with "Follow me."

  2. Holding eye contact at the destination until she broke. Old sales tactic: "Let the other guy speak first."

  3. Calling an audible on the car spot and taking her on a drive until you found the vibe + location.

Those all nailed this lay in.

Fun stuff!

Chase
 
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