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Shah

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Hey,

this is my first report ever, so yeah whatever. This is what I experienced this weekend!

This weekend I went out on both Friday and Saturday. Friday was kinda cool, however I didn't sleep with any women. Me and my friends went to a night club and just hanged out, played our game and being downbeat and low energy. The fun thing is that, when you're getting into seduction and picking up girls, you realize how fun it is being approached by other girls! Because it usually means you're doing everything right. We did meet some girls but we weren't aggressive enough and kinda lost them. No big deal.

Last night, we went to a local music venue. As usual, we just hanged around and watched all the other fools dance with women. We stood casually by the bar, sipping some drinks and not caring. This does work great as we are being approached by other women a good deal. After a while, we start roaming around the venue for a little while, just to see if there are any women we can talk to. After a while, I get separated from my friends, which was actually kinda okay. It seems like solo-gaming is better than going with your friends! What's your take on this, any experience on solo-gaming? Anyways, after I get separated from my friends, I catch this cute brunette girl eyeing me out. I quickly tell her; "Hey", and then I ask her if she want's to get out of here to an after party. She seems dazzled by the abrupt question, but answers yes. So we end up taking a taxi to her place and making sweet love. The sex was fantastic!

What did I learn from this? Be low energy, be dominant and strike fast. I guess that was the key to success.
 

Tyme2k

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Well done, nice LR! When everything is going right this makes it easy. I'm curious to know more details since in night game I've never had such a simple lay.

Take a look at my journal and you will see that I regularly solo. On the weekends I try not to because it makes you seem odd or creepy. Although last night I had to solo and didnt once get asked and avoided all topics on the matter. Solo gaming is definitely where you are able to push your comfort zone and get better at game. I think a great approach is how you did it, go out with friends and warm up being social with a laid back vibe then separate and work your magic.

One of my blog posts will definitely be on Solo sarging since there isn't much material out there on the internet. It is challenging at first, but getting good at it is how you master the art.
 

Shah

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Hey man.

As far as details go, I can describe what I did myself and how I think the girl (and other girls) percieved me (both nights)

Friday: Me and my buddies hit the night club around 23:00, at which point it was starting to become more crowded. The place was filling up. We bought some beers and moved around the floor a little bit to find a nice spot to hang and drink beer. Our general attitude was very low key, low attitude, however, sending out strong and sexual vibes. Many girls did pick up on this, as we were approached by some girls (they weren't our style so we brushed them off) and other girls were looking at us. After a while, my eyes met with a blonde girl, dancing with some male friends of her. We exchanged some looks, and then I went over to talk to her. We exchange some niceties and I ask her if she wants to take off somewhere. She says no, but the fun part is that we kissed. How strange! My personal guess is that if I hadn't asked her for permission to leave, and told her that we are leaving or should leave I would have gotten further. However, when she left the club she asked me if I wanted to join her. I told her no, and stayed.

The second woman I met at this night club was very keen on the idea of joining me somewhere else. However, due to logistics neither of us could. I actually engaged her first, but she kept chasing me throughout the night, which was good. I deep dived a good amount and we had a pretty interesting conversation going. She actually said she had never connected with someone at this level before in a night club! But as I wrote, due to logistics it didn't quite work out for either of us. What I think was the success factor for Friday is that I was able to deep dive a good deal, and my inner and personal game was good. Little to no chasing, sending out chill and sexual vibes. I dressed like a champion, posture and eye contact was super. But there was much more room for being more sexual and more direct towards women.


Saturday: We went to a local music venue, with a DJ. We entered the club around 23:00 this time too. Did the usual stuff, bought some beer and found a spot by the dance floor to hang. We did get some views by other women, however none of them engaged us. After an hour of just hanging around and socializing with other people, women start approaching us. A girl of groups wanted to dance with us, so they dragged us onto the floor. I think the reason they dragged us out was that we were sending out the right vibes. We weren't dancing, but we were tapping our feets to the music and just sending out the message to everyone that we were having a really good time there. Some girls were rubbing up on us and trying to grope us. My friends were okay with that, but I felt this wasn't going anywhere and stopped dancing. This eventually led to me being approached by some women trying to dance with me. I did dance with them, and I told them I wasn't here for the dancing. I did tell all of those girls what my intentions were, but they never picked up on it. No big deal anyways, since it kinda looked liked I was rejecting them. That's when I caught the cute brunette eyeing me. And that's when I approach her.

Our conversation was very brief too. I asked her for her name and I told her I was gonna grab my coat. She said she had to grab her coat too. We went outside and I told her we should go to her place as it was more central than mine.

My takes on that pick up is that I was very brief and projected myself as a scarce resource. By rejecting women, other girls did pick up on it. My looks were good too that night. She did comment my looks later on, saying I had good looks and things like that. Other than that, I was much more dominating on saturday. Also, due to the fact that I got separated from my friends may have gotten the girls to think I was a much safer lay. I think soloing is less risky, and people tend to feel safer around one person than a big group of guy friends obviously trawling the dance floor for pussy.

TL;DR: Dominance, look safe, good personal/inner game, be scarceful
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Tyme2k

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Nice breakdown. Lately I have been employing the chill vibe and enjoying the moment. It's rare the girls approach me and I think it's due to most venues being an 80/20 guy to girl ratio. These guys are all chodes, but very aggressive. I will get opened when I'm in state though, but usually it's by girls I don't like. I could settle for low caliber girls and get laid regularily, but that's not why I game.

I love how simple it was and it's good to hear this is possible. I will definitely field test the possibility.
 
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