Muslim girls

[Foreveranonymous]

As a guy who loves women of all cultures I like to test my skills in all aspects.in the case of muslim women does anyone have any pointers?especially from a black guys viewpoint.thanks

 

[trashKENNUT]

studentofthegame,

As a guy who loves women of all cultures I like to test my skills in all aspects.in the case of muslim women does anyone have any pointers?especially from a black guys viewpoint.thanks

It depends here, on country, and on family. Muslim women too do have needs and aren't conservative, as ppl think they are. IT happens with all religions. Some countries emphasize laws on women and men for muslims, so unless you not in those conservative countries, you are fine.

For really conservative muslim women, who follows religion closely and family ties are strong on religion, i don't suggest going after her for sex, you just "destroy" her somewhat. IT just too much for a cost of sex because she wants to protect her virginity, for marriage of course.

For the not so conservative muslim women, i don't think race is an issue. Some girls prefer white guys, some girls prefer black guys. Don't discount yourself out yet.

Zac

 

[Altimeter]

Depends on where you're going really. USUALLY muslim women like in UAE and such care a lot about appearances.
(Bear in mind, I'm talking about women living in muslim countries)
THey want to be seen as nice clean gentle little things and sex is just not for them etc. Honestly even the sluttiest women are like that; like
getting gang banged, pissed on, etc. at night and in the morning acting like a princess just for the sake of appearances.

Sex is still taboo in muslim countries even with more liberal families.

That being said, if you're looking for muslim women, I'd recommend going to France or other countries with muslim or mid eastern women in it, largely because you'll have to deal with the society along with girls appearances so it's a pain in the nut really.

Oh and muslim women require a lot of patience, 'till you build comfort for, you know..


If you have any questions about women of specific countries or cultures I may be able to answer them better.

As long as you build comfort you'll do alright, but it takes a lot of patience really

 

[PinotNoir]

Where I live in the states, I ONLY see Muslim women together, never alone, and with 3 minimum. I've never seen 2 out alone. It's usually a group of 5 to be honest. I've also never seen any non-Muslim guys approach them. I bet that they'd be very taken aback by this, taken out of auto-pilot, and very accepting (as they'd view you as a dominate, non-judgmental individual). I've also never seen Muslim women at clubs or bars. (I'm talking about Muslim women that wear the hijab: devout Muslims.)

I also don't hear them talk English much. I assume these are more "Muslim immigrants" than "American-born Muslims" -- but I don't really know to be honest. Learning the language of the Muslims in your area could be helpful (Arabic most likely).

In college, I went to a Mosque for my a Religious class I was taking. They are very accepting of guests and provided us lunch. Get a friend and call ahead to ask when their "guest" days are. Women and men are separated (men in front; women in back; in fact, this is how Christianity church services were back in the ancient days -- after Jesus died, not during his life), but before or after the service, you may be able to talk with some. Before the service, it may be rude. I was there for a class, so I don't really know the custom for talking with women as that wasn't my intention. I know you have to take your shoes off, and you sit on the floor in a "guest" section separated from the men.

I'd suggest opening with a warm smile, even though it's usually suggested not to smile with teeth showing. I don't think you'd want to come in with an aggressive James Bond style as a non-Muslim approaching. It'd be good to study customs for your area. Maybe open with, "Hi *warm smile*, I don't know much about Islam, but is it okay for me to comment on how beautiful you are?" Just coming in genuine and sincere -- not judgmental or aggressive -- is probably the key, but still apply everything else you have learned here on GC for the rest of the conversation. Or maybe open with, "That hijab still doesn't hide how strikingly beautiful your features are!" Here, you're showing relatability by knowing some Muslim wording.

Experiment and let us know how it goes! I think it will make most people very nervous to approach (since you're both "different"), but because Muslim women are generally shy and nice (from my experience), then you're probably safe once you get passed the opening.

(I apologize to any Muslims reading this for how many stereotypes I'm making in this post. It's meant to just be a general view based on my personal, limited experiences.)

 

[northstar08]

From what I've seen, women who wear hijab out in public are a minority among Muslim females in my part of the US. And women who don't know English, even more so.

And I wouldn't do any kind of pickup in a religious setting like a mosque....... it is just disrespectful.

 

[PinotNoir]

Yes, I don't suggest "directly" flirting with a girl at a religious place, but it's probably the best place to meet and become friends with Muslims if that's what you want, i.e., to join a social circle, etc. However, as a side note, I do know devout Christian guys that flirt with women at church during religious ceremonies (probably not intentional). It would look weird for an "outsider" to do that (like that's the only reason they're there), but it does happen a lot.

I guess it really depends on what part of US. I've only ever met one Muslim girl where I live that didn't wear a hijab most of the time and that's because she really didn't care for the religion that much and just did it to please her family. Most Muslims that I've met in my area wear one most of the time in public -- not all the time, but definitely 90% of the time or more.

 

[Byron]

As one who has dated Muslim girls, they are the same as any others generally (unless they are very religious). The trouble comes when you meet their families, who generally frown upon dating and will try to separate you two. Again this depends on how conservative they are but the vast majority of Muslim girls have to sneak around, it is all about reputation. I am a teenager, and older Muslim women sometimes have more independence, but they are still concerned with image and their family more than most.
-youngbyron

 

[northstar08]

From what I've seen, women who wear hijab out in public are a minority among Muslim females in my part of the US. And women who don't know English, even more so.

And I wouldn't do any kind of pickup in a religious setting like a mosque....... it is just disrespectful.

I just want to add that unless you're gay, you can't do pickup at a mosque anyways because men and women are usually separated.