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- Sep 5, 2024
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Today I lost my approach virginity. There was a girl sitting alone on a bench and I knew that if I didn't approach her I would be stuck in theory land forever and it had to be NOW. I opened with "I thought you looked interesting and I just wanted to come over to say hi" I never got any IOI's and she seemed pretty shy so eventually I just left with a "have a good day". I felt like I went into a trance when I first walked up to her and I couldn't think clearly, it was weird.
After that I found a few girls handing lollypop's out to people and I joined them. By now I had so much state that I was just really ballsy about getting people to take lollypops form me and the girls commented that I didn't have social anxiety, which was cool. I ended up getting their Instagram's as well.
Overall, felt good to take action. this weekend I want to go to coffee shops during the morning and practice day game. I think I am going to just start with asking girls what coffee they like to order, and then try to see how long I can carry the interaction and if we can vibe.
After that I found a few girls handing lollypop's out to people and I joined them. By now I had so much state that I was just really ballsy about getting people to take lollypops form me and the girls commented that I didn't have social anxiety, which was cool. I ended up getting their Instagram's as well.
Overall, felt good to take action. this weekend I want to go to coffee shops during the morning and practice day game. I think I am going to just start with asking girls what coffee they like to order, and then try to see how long I can carry the interaction and if we can vibe.