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Pretty simple really.
You shoot her a text asking her something:
What's you favorite style to dance?
I live in X (they always ask me where I live). How about you?
What's the best beach spot you've been so far?
Doesn't matter what, but you've been going back and forth nicely and suddenly she does this (I'll put it in bold):
Her: (smile emoji)
Me: The one who says hi first gets a ben and jerry's
Me: Hi
Me: I want my belgium chocolate ; )
Her: Lol
Her: I didn't say hi but sent you a emoji, so technically I said it first
Her: Lucky for you my favorite chocolate brand is cheap, Trento (laughing emoji)
Her: Where are you from?
Me: Lol, what a trickster u are
Me: Trying to bend the rules
Me: Can't help you here, rule says it must be hi
Her: But it was you who made the rules, it's not faiiir hahaha
Me (purposefully not answering): It was indeed, I'll take the blame.
Me: But don't worry, I'll get the biggest one so we can share.
Her (already changing the subject): You said before you don't like women who were born with a pipi
Her: Laughed a lot about this
Me: Oh boy, gotta warn them without triggering ppl
Me: Unfurtunatelly you can never be too carefull these days
Me: Nothing against guys who like it, but it is def not my cup of tea
Me: Answering your question, I live in X
Me: How about you?
Her (ignoring my question): Really? lol
Her: Maybe I am one of those unusual women? (curious emoji x 2 + laughing emoji)
Her: Lol Just kidding, wanted to know if I look like one
Me: Nah, you don't look like you have a pipi
Me: You have small hands and feet, plus a baby face
Me: Only if your surgeon was a magician...if that's the case, even I would like to meet him!
Me: But tell me, what's you favorite style to dance?
Her: Kkkkkk
Explanation:
She is young and all over the place, like most of them.
As I said it before, when they are texting, younger women have the attention spam of a peanut these days.
So you must not take those simple answers as a sign she is not interested.
What you should do is politely call them out on their annoying behavior, and get their attention back to the subject at hand.
Continuing:
Me: But tell me, what's you favorite style to dance?
Her: Kkkkkk
(after a couple of hours)
Me: She won't tell me where she lives, doesn't answer my questions...
Me: Keep going like this and you'll owe me 2 Ben & Jerrys
Me: Plus ten laps around the block and 100 push ups
Her: Oh my god, really. Forgive meee
Her: I live in X
Her: My god, I owe you so much already lol
You guys see what I did here?
I used:
- dominance
- humour
- politeness
- and attention grabbing
All in 3 simple sentences.
Now that we are back in the groove, I can resume a normal conversation and start the soft close attempt to probe for a date.
(update: later she asked for my number and I'm currently seeding the date...she is 25 btw)
This is a simple technique that can be used in any kind of convo after you get a weak reply after a series of questions, with girls from any gaming source (night, day and online)!
Keys for it's sucess:
- she must be engaged from the beggining, so always open or ping with something good! No boring Hi, how are you or single emojis
- you must lead all the time....and must know beforehand where the convos are going (always follow the golden sequence: soft close>hard close>date)
- she must show a bit of compliance to what you are saying...in the example above, she was clearly enjoying the convo.
My guess is that something happened that put her away from her phone in the middle of our back and forth, so she just forgot to reply.
- Bonus points: have your absolute best pic in your profile on whatsapp and similar IM apps...remember: that's the only image she has of you when you guys are texting!
As always, thx for reading!
Questions and comments are more than welcome.
~POB
You shoot her a text asking her something:
What's you favorite style to dance?
I live in X (they always ask me where I live). How about you?
What's the best beach spot you've been so far?
Doesn't matter what, but you've been going back and forth nicely and suddenly she does this (I'll put it in bold):
Her: (smile emoji)
Me: The one who says hi first gets a ben and jerry's
Me: Hi
Me: I want my belgium chocolate ; )
Her: Lol
Her: I didn't say hi but sent you a emoji, so technically I said it first
Her: Lucky for you my favorite chocolate brand is cheap, Trento (laughing emoji)
Her: Where are you from?
Me: Lol, what a trickster u are
Me: Trying to bend the rules
Me: Can't help you here, rule says it must be hi
Her: But it was you who made the rules, it's not faiiir hahaha
Me (purposefully not answering): It was indeed, I'll take the blame.
Me: But don't worry, I'll get the biggest one so we can share.
Her (already changing the subject): You said before you don't like women who were born with a pipi
Her: Laughed a lot about this
Me: Oh boy, gotta warn them without triggering ppl
Me: Unfurtunatelly you can never be too carefull these days
Me: Nothing against guys who like it, but it is def not my cup of tea
Me: Answering your question, I live in X
Me: How about you?
Her (ignoring my question): Really? lol
Her: Maybe I am one of those unusual women? (curious emoji x 2 + laughing emoji)
Her: Lol Just kidding, wanted to know if I look like one
Me: Nah, you don't look like you have a pipi
Me: You have small hands and feet, plus a baby face
Me: Only if your surgeon was a magician...if that's the case, even I would like to meet him!
Me: But tell me, what's you favorite style to dance?
Her: Kkkkkk
Explanation:
She is young and all over the place, like most of them.
As I said it before, when they are texting, younger women have the attention spam of a peanut these days.
So you must not take those simple answers as a sign she is not interested.
What you should do is politely call them out on their annoying behavior, and get their attention back to the subject at hand.
Continuing:
Me: But tell me, what's you favorite style to dance?
Her: Kkkkkk
(after a couple of hours)
Me: She won't tell me where she lives, doesn't answer my questions...
Me: Keep going like this and you'll owe me 2 Ben & Jerrys
Me: Plus ten laps around the block and 100 push ups
Her: Oh my god, really. Forgive meee
Her: I live in X
Her: My god, I owe you so much already lol
You guys see what I did here?
I used:
- dominance
- humour
- politeness
- and attention grabbing
All in 3 simple sentences.
Now that we are back in the groove, I can resume a normal conversation and start the soft close attempt to probe for a date.
(update: later she asked for my number and I'm currently seeding the date...she is 25 btw)
This is a simple technique that can be used in any kind of convo after you get a weak reply after a series of questions, with girls from any gaming source (night, day and online)!
Keys for it's sucess:
- she must be engaged from the beggining, so always open or ping with something good! No boring Hi, how are you or single emojis
- you must lead all the time....and must know beforehand where the convos are going (always follow the golden sequence: soft close>hard close>date)
- she must show a bit of compliance to what you are saying...in the example above, she was clearly enjoying the convo.
My guess is that something happened that put her away from her phone in the middle of our back and forth, so she just forgot to reply.
- Bonus points: have your absolute best pic in your profile on whatsapp and similar IM apps...remember: that's the only image she has of you when you guys are texting!
As always, thx for reading!
Questions and comments are more than welcome.
~POB
