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I just saw that last week, my forum age turned 6. It's been a long and crazy ride since first posting and I wanted to share with you guys my first post and LR ever (I purposefully made my first post a LR so I could introduce myself like a bawss).
So here you go
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Hey guys (and gals?)!
Since this is my first post on the site, I will introduce myself. If you want to skip this part, just scroll down a bit for the reportI've been reading GC religiously for a few months now. I first stumbled upon the site when my ex-girlfriend broke up with me this summer. I wanted to get over her and sleeping with new women seemed like a natural solution (I'd inferred abundance mentality on my own, but struggled to truly embrace it). Before her, I'd slept with 8 women in 1 year, and before that only slept with my first long-term girlfriend as a Freshmen in college (I was a virgin until then, as well as a social retard!). My first genuine executions of GC tactics were in Europe (Sweden, Denmark, and Holland), so during those three weeks abroad just after my breakup, I endeavored to completely revamp my game (I would say I was intermediate before reading GC). The experience was life-changing, even if I only scored a few dates, some makeouts, and one lay. The perspective shattering result of my training, however, was when my ex contacted me while in Europe and began flirting with me, just three weeks after our breakup. I returned to the U.S., started the new semester, and after hanging out with her once, we slept together and got back together. And then an interesting thing happened - I got tired of the jealousy that had always plagued our relationship before the first breakup, because having evolved as a human being the summer before getting back together, I overcame most remnants of my jealousies and insecurities that probably led to her breaking up with me. So, I broke up with her. With abundance mentality in mind, I had ended a second-try at a relationship with one of the hottest girls on my campus (population of about 7 thousand students, 60% of which are women).
So here we are now, 2 months after our second-breakup. I'd only slept with two girls so far after her (one is now a consistent fuck-buddy). But I planned a second trip to Europe, and with vastly more experience and a few results under my belt, I set out to evolve once more (I feel that I'm a liminal stage between intermediate and advanced, but not yet expertise or mastery). I have many, many FRs for you guys, but I wanted my first to be a LR. And here it is.
The Approach
The hostel I'm staying at here in Prague hosts a bar-crawl every night, collaborating with the three other sister-hostels. I expected many young, adventurous women - and I was right. I entered the bar, walked in, saw three girls sitting on a couch jabbering away, and strolled past them with the best sexy-walk I could muster. I threw a close-mouthed, sexy smile at them, glanced in their direction, and then slowly returned my focus to the bar in front of me. My fundamentals were very tight that night.
I grabbed my beer and then returned to the room with the girls. Very slowly, as I sat down, I stated "I assume you're with the bar crawl" (implicitly there is a "you guys" statement here, which I know Chase advises we avoid, but I was confident it wouldn't matter, especially since I only look at the girl I wanted when I said it).
The Interaction
They immediately turned their bodies to me, and the girl I wanted (let's call her Sarah), smiled very sexily and basically eye-fucked me. I felt interest, but didn't get the hook yet. She's originally from California, but had been living in Rome on her own now for 6 months after she decided to stop dreaming of adventure and actually just do it (this instantly hooked me and exposed her adventurous nature, which fits well with moving quickly). After some small talk Sarah touched my leg as she said something, so I quickly followed this and told Sarah to move over on the couch so I could join all of them (escalation-window). Us four now filled up the couch and were incidentally touching (my plan), since we were packed so closely together. I deep-dove all three of the girls slightly, but knew I couldn't be too direct with two others there.
Somewhere in the interaction I got back up to get another beer and the girls shifted to where my original spot was and opened a spot opposite of that (possibly the other girls wanted my attention? By now they all were regularly yelling my name out loud and saying how much they liked me - explicit preselection).
I didn't let this phase me, so I sat far from Sarah (if I expressed my desire to sit where I was before, I feel that I'd be chasing). Sarah made it easy for me; amidst us talking, she extended her hand, asking me what I was doing for Christmas and suggested we have dinner together, as she "had no one to spend Christmas with." I grabbed her hand and held it as we locked eyes. Neither of us budged and maintained eye contact. As we held each other's gazes, I pulled her hand towards me and kissed it gently. I'm pretty sure she came there and then. The flirting continued (she winked at me a few times) but I didn't genuinely deep dive until we moved to the next bar. And as luck would have it, the other two girls fell behind during the transition and left Sarah and I to ourselves (though I did enjoy their company, I of course wanted Sarah). On the walk to the second bar I extended my elbow and she immediately wrapped her arm around mine.
As we walked in, I grabbed a Guinness (they're so much better in Europe), and was then going to move her to a table but she engaged two guys at a table close to the bar. It bothered me for a second but I just repeated to myself internally "you got this" and "even if you don't, abundance mentality." I recomposed my posture and mental attitude, tapped her elbow, motioned to a table, sat my beer down, and went to the bathroom. When I returned, she was sitting quietly at the table waiting for me.
Auto-pilot engaged.
(I don't remember the conversation verbatim, but I'll cover the important parts. As with most of the night, I got results with my non-verbals, except for one part of the discussion where my verbals kicked some ass; that's towards the end).
Me - "So, Sarah, do you want to stay in Rome forever?"
Sarah - "I don't know...Rome is where my heart is but I really miss my family."
Me - "So your family is really important to you?"
Sarah - "Yeah...I mean, I love my mother and everything, but my father...he's my inspiration. Everything I've accomplished, it's because of him."
Me - "Wow, he sounds like a great man" (qualifying her relationship)
Sarah - "Yeah, he really is. Except, I really learned from his mistakes. He spent his whole life providing for his family...and he still is. He's always worked for just money. He never pursued his dreams; that's where I want to do things differently."
Me - "But you still respect him for sacrificing himself like that? "(Maybe should have focused more on her, but I wanted to qualify her father more, since he was so obviously important to her).
Sarah - "I really do, yeah. I don't come from a wealthy family, but if he hadn't worked so hard I wouldn't have my work ethic and grit."
Me - "I really would love to meet him."
Sarah - *smiles*
I put my elbow on the table (relaxed, confident posture) and my other hand on her leg.
Me - "So, you said that you traveled to Rome because you were tired of just working and wanted adventure. What was the final push to just do it?"
Sarah - "I was working as a stylist and had graduated with a degree in business. I worked for some high-end fashion shows and made really great money, but was working 60 hours a week and knew that I wanted to live life, not just work through it."
Me - "Ah, the lessons from your dad. Did you enjoy the job though?" (Reconnecting to an important topic and unraveling the job a bit - I could have transitioned more into her life now, but was genuinely interested her past).
Sarah - "Oh yeah, I loved it. I met a lot of great people, made some good business connections, but knew that I needed to see the world. So I just bought a one-way ticket to Rome. It took me a while to muster the courage. I first told my dad a few months before I bought the ticket that I would do so and he sorta disregarded it as a dream I'd never fulfill. He kind of said to me "Okay, Sarah, sure.""
Me - "Do you feel like he was discouraging you, or was it just that he wasn't used to anyone doing anything that extreme and spontaneous? Like he might have just been unable to relate to it since he was a work-horse." (I added to exception to remove any possibilities of a negative father frame, and I put it last, because as Chase pointed out, you always want to put the option you desire at the end, since it's the most recent option the listener hears).
Sarah - "It was definitely that. He was shocked when I told him I bought it a month before I left. But he was supportive once he recovered from the shock. He and my mother said that I'd have to support myself though."
Me - "I feel like you gain more from that independence though. Even if you have to work a lot while in Rome, you grow much more as a person from supporting yourself."
Sarah - "Exactly"
Again, we just locked eyes for what felt like 20 seconds. I just kept giving her a sexy smile and dominated the eye contact, as she eventually blushed, looked down, and and then laughed "what?!" I kept maintaining eye contact until she reengaged me. I kept the frame sexual as fuck. I was gonna take this girl to bed and she knew it.
Sarah - "So are you enjoying your travels?"
Me - "It's amazing. When I traveled alone this summer, though, that was life-altering. It was a bit scary at first, but once I realized that no one was there to save me, that I was completely and utterly alone - that's when I had the epiphany. I could literally walk out of my apartment in Sweden and do whatever I wanted. The freedom was both liberating and limiting. With so many possible choices, what to do?" (express high-value with my adventurousness, but I tempered it with "I was at first scared" and then presented a life-changing experience that I knew she'd relate to. I may have front-loaded my response with too much information and should have baited some more, but I felt that I was already in and could speed up the deep diving, so that I could move her quickly after this killing blow).
Sarah - "So what did you do, then?"
Me - "I walked around Malmo and Copenhagen all day. I just walked up to random people and said "Hi." Haha" (demonstrating courage and social prowess).
Sarah - "Oh wow!"
Me - "Yeah, but half the people I approached thought I was weird. It may be because Scandinavians are some of the shyest people on the planet...or because I was just too outgoing haha. I'm sure I was actually kind of weird" (Humility to temper my previously expressed courage).
Sarah - "Did you meet any cool people?!"
Me - "Tons. I ended up just spending my days with random people and then never seeing them again. I only saw a few of the people I met more than once" (I wanted to communicate my abundance mentality here - I was willing to meet new people all the time).
Sarah - "That's really great."
Me - "Thanks. It was definitely a great experience."
Again, more strong eye contact, and touching. Somewhere in this exchange I had grabbed her hand and caressed it. She returned the kino equally most of the time.
Me - "Hey, I'm gonna head to the bathroom; you finish that beer and then let's get out of here."
Sarah - "Okay."
I didn't need any plausible deniability here. We both knew what was going down.
We gathered our things and left the bar. I asked her where she was staying and we headed in that direction. She had previously mentioned that she was "traveling alone," but I had interpreted that also as "staying alone."
We got to her hostel, went up to her room, walked in, and then I was reminded of just how important logistics were.
One Japanese fucker in the bunk beneath hers. Three Brazilians bitches who gave me and her really dirty looks, and then some other dude camped out in a bed in the corner. Seriously, a 6-person hostel. Fuck me.
She put up her coat and was going to change into something more comfortable. I had to think quick. So I told her to do what she had to and then meet me outside. I waited outside her room for what seemed like forever. I actually thought she might never come out. I almost left, but remembered that I wasn't yet chasing and was still in the realm of persistence. Eventually she came out and we went downstairs.
I then did something ballsy and kind of expensive. I walked up to the desk, asked if they had any private rooms available. As I did this, Sarah sat at the hostel bar. I was kind of worried that all my work would be for nothing, but I just kept reminding myself of abundance mentality and that even if I went home alone, I performed very well and learned a lot. Sarah kept looking at me as she sat at the bar and I knew she wanted me as bad as I wanted her.
And then a miracle happened. The receptionist alerted me that there was a room available, it was pretty cheap, and they took credit cards.
Let's. Do. This.
I quickly pay, grab my keycard, and we go to the room.
We slowly undressed whilst giving each other sex eyes and then once in her underwear I finally kissed her (I really internalized Chase's advice of not kissing a girl before being alone and risk extinguishing the sexual tension), and threw her on the bed. Her underwear slid off instantly, and I was already naked. As she laid back, I push her thighs up with my knees and just slid right in.
Last Minute Resistance took a vacation that night. Literally didn't even catch a glimpse of it.
We then proceeded to fuck for four hours straight. The sex was second only to my ex-girlfriend (the one mentioned in my introduction) but honestly, I might even say she tied. This girl was Mexican and had an ass straight from Planet Nice-Ass. She was my thirteenth lay.
Some fun comments throughout the night:
"You're like the hulk of cumming. Normal people shouldn't last that long."
"I love your dick. It makes me numb."
And many others that I can't remember.
But one quick conversation we had in between our fuck-sessions really struck a chord with me.
Me - "So, just curious...when did you know you were going to fuck me?"
Sarah - "When I first saw you."
Me - "Really?"
Sarah - "Yeah...you just had this vibe about you. A really sexy vibe."
I think I came harder in response to this comment than I did all night. I'd been polishing my fundamentals every moment for a week straight and here was vocal proof (and results) that my hard work had paid off. I had attained a "sexy vibe."
Thank you Chase. Thank you everyone. This lay taught me that I had learned from my failures and that the sky was the limit. The interaction lasted about 3 hours before sex. I learned so much from it.
I'm very happy to be a part of this community. I would love to hear from you guys! Comments, criticisms, praise - anything! I hope you enjoyed the read. I have another LR from the night after (which is pretty awesome, too, not gonna lie) and many LR-s (oral sex but lots of LMR) and FRs.
- Anatman
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I remember this pretty vividly, too. This girl is actually living in a resort destination now, has her own clothing line, and seems to be living the dream (she also has some super serious boyfriend now, and is always posting about how amazing he is...so yeah, pretty much the opposite haha. She's quite sexually liberated so I wonder if they have an open relationship). Kinda funny to think about her, but the nostalgia only lasts a few minutes...
I don't feel envy for the past. I did cringe a bit at some of my writing here, and my mindset then, but that isn't too bad either.
While I'm excited for the future, I don't seem to glorify that, either.
I think I'm actually quite content.
But I do hope that this memory provides some inspiration for you to get better with women. A year and a half after posting this I got a job writing for girlschase....so a lot can happen in a few years.
And now 6 years later, I'm having a ball and magnified my laycount ten-fold.
Fun stuff
Hector
So here you go
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Hey guys (and gals?)!
Since this is my first post on the site, I will introduce myself. If you want to skip this part, just scroll down a bit for the report
I've been reading GC religiously for a few months now. I first stumbled upon the site when my ex-girlfriend broke up with me this summer. I wanted to get over her and sleeping with new women seemed like a natural solution (I'd inferred abundance mentality on my own, but struggled to truly embrace it). Before her, I'd slept with 8 women in 1 year, and before that only slept with my first long-term girlfriend as a Freshmen in college (I was a virgin until then, as well as a social retard!). My first genuine executions of GC tactics were in Europe (Sweden, Denmark, and Holland), so during those three weeks abroad just after my breakup, I endeavored to completely revamp my game (I would say I was intermediate before reading GC). The experience was life-changing, even if I only scored a few dates, some makeouts, and one lay. The perspective shattering result of my training, however, was when my ex contacted me while in Europe and began flirting with me, just three weeks after our breakup. I returned to the U.S., started the new semester, and after hanging out with her once, we slept together and got back together. And then an interesting thing happened - I got tired of the jealousy that had always plagued our relationship before the first breakup, because having evolved as a human being the summer before getting back together, I overcame most remnants of my jealousies and insecurities that probably led to her breaking up with me. So, I broke up with her. With abundance mentality in mind, I had ended a second-try at a relationship with one of the hottest girls on my campus (population of about 7 thousand students, 60% of which are women). So here we are now, 2 months after our second-breakup. I'd only slept with two girls so far after her (one is now a consistent fuck-buddy). But I planned a second trip to Europe, and with vastly more experience and a few results under my belt, I set out to evolve once more (I feel that I'm a liminal stage between intermediate and advanced, but not yet expertise or mastery). I have many, many FRs for you guys, but I wanted my first to be a LR. And here it is.
The Approach
The hostel I'm staying at here in Prague hosts a bar-crawl every night, collaborating with the three other sister-hostels. I expected many young, adventurous women - and I was right. I entered the bar, walked in, saw three girls sitting on a couch jabbering away, and strolled past them with the best sexy-walk I could muster. I threw a close-mouthed, sexy smile at them, glanced in their direction, and then slowly returned my focus to the bar in front of me. My fundamentals were very tight that night.
I grabbed my beer and then returned to the room with the girls. Very slowly, as I sat down, I stated "I assume you're with the bar crawl" (implicitly there is a "you guys" statement here, which I know Chase advises we avoid, but I was confident it wouldn't matter, especially since I only look at the girl I wanted when I said it).
The Interaction
They immediately turned their bodies to me, and the girl I wanted (let's call her Sarah), smiled very sexily and basically eye-fucked me. I felt interest, but didn't get the hook yet. She's originally from California, but had been living in Rome on her own now for 6 months after she decided to stop dreaming of adventure and actually just do it (this instantly hooked me and exposed her adventurous nature, which fits well with moving quickly). After some small talk Sarah touched my leg as she said something, so I quickly followed this and told Sarah to move over on the couch so I could join all of them (escalation-window). Us four now filled up the couch and were incidentally touching (my plan), since we were packed so closely together. I deep-dove all three of the girls slightly, but knew I couldn't be too direct with two others there.
Somewhere in the interaction I got back up to get another beer and the girls shifted to where my original spot was and opened a spot opposite of that (possibly the other girls wanted my attention? By now they all were regularly yelling my name out loud and saying how much they liked me - explicit preselection).
I didn't let this phase me, so I sat far from Sarah (if I expressed my desire to sit where I was before, I feel that I'd be chasing). Sarah made it easy for me; amidst us talking, she extended her hand, asking me what I was doing for Christmas and suggested we have dinner together, as she "had no one to spend Christmas with." I grabbed her hand and held it as we locked eyes. Neither of us budged and maintained eye contact. As we held each other's gazes, I pulled her hand towards me and kissed it gently. I'm pretty sure she came there and then. The flirting continued (she winked at me a few times) but I didn't genuinely deep dive until we moved to the next bar. And as luck would have it, the other two girls fell behind during the transition and left Sarah and I to ourselves (though I did enjoy their company, I of course wanted Sarah). On the walk to the second bar I extended my elbow and she immediately wrapped her arm around mine.
As we walked in, I grabbed a Guinness (they're so much better in Europe), and was then going to move her to a table but she engaged two guys at a table close to the bar. It bothered me for a second but I just repeated to myself internally "you got this" and "even if you don't, abundance mentality." I recomposed my posture and mental attitude, tapped her elbow, motioned to a table, sat my beer down, and went to the bathroom. When I returned, she was sitting quietly at the table waiting for me.
Auto-pilot engaged.
(I don't remember the conversation verbatim, but I'll cover the important parts. As with most of the night, I got results with my non-verbals, except for one part of the discussion where my verbals kicked some ass; that's towards the end).
Me - "So, Sarah, do you want to stay in Rome forever?"
Sarah - "I don't know...Rome is where my heart is but I really miss my family."
Me - "So your family is really important to you?"
Sarah - "Yeah...I mean, I love my mother and everything, but my father...he's my inspiration. Everything I've accomplished, it's because of him."
Me - "Wow, he sounds like a great man" (qualifying her relationship)
Sarah - "Yeah, he really is. Except, I really learned from his mistakes. He spent his whole life providing for his family...and he still is. He's always worked for just money. He never pursued his dreams; that's where I want to do things differently."
Me - "But you still respect him for sacrificing himself like that? "(Maybe should have focused more on her, but I wanted to qualify her father more, since he was so obviously important to her).
Sarah - "I really do, yeah. I don't come from a wealthy family, but if he hadn't worked so hard I wouldn't have my work ethic and grit."
Me - "I really would love to meet him."
Sarah - *smiles*
I put my elbow on the table (relaxed, confident posture) and my other hand on her leg.
Me - "So, you said that you traveled to Rome because you were tired of just working and wanted adventure. What was the final push to just do it?"
Sarah - "I was working as a stylist and had graduated with a degree in business. I worked for some high-end fashion shows and made really great money, but was working 60 hours a week and knew that I wanted to live life, not just work through it."
Me - "Ah, the lessons from your dad. Did you enjoy the job though?" (Reconnecting to an important topic and unraveling the job a bit - I could have transitioned more into her life now, but was genuinely interested her past).
Sarah - "Oh yeah, I loved it. I met a lot of great people, made some good business connections, but knew that I needed to see the world. So I just bought a one-way ticket to Rome. It took me a while to muster the courage. I first told my dad a few months before I bought the ticket that I would do so and he sorta disregarded it as a dream I'd never fulfill. He kind of said to me "Okay, Sarah, sure.""
Me - "Do you feel like he was discouraging you, or was it just that he wasn't used to anyone doing anything that extreme and spontaneous? Like he might have just been unable to relate to it since he was a work-horse." (I added to exception to remove any possibilities of a negative father frame, and I put it last, because as Chase pointed out, you always want to put the option you desire at the end, since it's the most recent option the listener hears).
Sarah - "It was definitely that. He was shocked when I told him I bought it a month before I left. But he was supportive once he recovered from the shock. He and my mother said that I'd have to support myself though."
Me - "I feel like you gain more from that independence though. Even if you have to work a lot while in Rome, you grow much more as a person from supporting yourself."
Sarah - "Exactly
"Again, we just locked eyes for what felt like 20 seconds. I just kept giving her a sexy smile and dominated the eye contact, as she eventually blushed, looked down, and and then laughed "what?!" I kept maintaining eye contact until she reengaged me. I kept the frame sexual as fuck. I was gonna take this girl to bed and she knew it.
Sarah - "So are you enjoying your travels?"
Me - "It's amazing. When I traveled alone this summer, though, that was life-altering. It was a bit scary at first, but once I realized that no one was there to save me, that I was completely and utterly alone - that's when I had the epiphany. I could literally walk out of my apartment in Sweden and do whatever I wanted. The freedom was both liberating and limiting. With so many possible choices, what to do?" (express high-value with my adventurousness, but I tempered it with "I was at first scared" and then presented a life-changing experience that I knew she'd relate to. I may have front-loaded my response with too much information and should have baited some more, but I felt that I was already in and could speed up the deep diving, so that I could move her quickly after this killing blow).
Sarah - "So what did you do, then?"
Me - "I walked around Malmo and Copenhagen all day. I just walked up to random people and said "Hi." Haha" (demonstrating courage and social prowess).
Sarah - "Oh wow!"
Me - "Yeah, but half the people I approached thought I was weird. It may be because Scandinavians are some of the shyest people on the planet...or because I was just too outgoing haha. I'm sure I was actually kind of weird" (Humility to temper my previously expressed courage).
Sarah - "Did you meet any cool people?!"
Me - "Tons. I ended up just spending my days with random people and then never seeing them again. I only saw a few of the people I met more than once" (I wanted to communicate my abundance mentality here - I was willing to meet new people all the time).
Sarah - "That's really great."
Me - "Thanks. It was definitely a great experience."
Again, more strong eye contact, and touching. Somewhere in this exchange I had grabbed her hand and caressed it. She returned the kino equally most of the time.
Me - "Hey, I'm gonna head to the bathroom; you finish that beer and then let's get out of here."
Sarah - "Okay."
I didn't need any plausible deniability here. We both knew what was going down.
We gathered our things and left the bar. I asked her where she was staying and we headed in that direction. She had previously mentioned that she was "traveling alone," but I had interpreted that also as "staying alone."
We got to her hostel, went up to her room, walked in, and then I was reminded of just how important logistics were.
One Japanese fucker in the bunk beneath hers. Three Brazilians bitches who gave me and her really dirty looks, and then some other dude camped out in a bed in the corner. Seriously, a 6-person hostel. Fuck me.
She put up her coat and was going to change into something more comfortable. I had to think quick. So I told her to do what she had to and then meet me outside. I waited outside her room for what seemed like forever. I actually thought she might never come out. I almost left, but remembered that I wasn't yet chasing and was still in the realm of persistence. Eventually she came out and we went downstairs.
I then did something ballsy and kind of expensive. I walked up to the desk, asked if they had any private rooms available. As I did this, Sarah sat at the hostel bar. I was kind of worried that all my work would be for nothing, but I just kept reminding myself of abundance mentality and that even if I went home alone, I performed very well and learned a lot. Sarah kept looking at me as she sat at the bar and I knew she wanted me as bad as I wanted her.
And then a miracle happened. The receptionist alerted me that there was a room available, it was pretty cheap, and they took credit cards.
Let's. Do. This.
I quickly pay, grab my keycard, and we go to the room.
We slowly undressed whilst giving each other sex eyes and then once in her underwear I finally kissed her (I really internalized Chase's advice of not kissing a girl before being alone and risk extinguishing the sexual tension), and threw her on the bed. Her underwear slid off instantly, and I was already naked. As she laid back, I push her thighs up with my knees and just slid right in.
Last Minute Resistance took a vacation that night. Literally didn't even catch a glimpse of it.
We then proceeded to fuck for four hours straight. The sex was second only to my ex-girlfriend (the one mentioned in my introduction) but honestly, I might even say she tied. This girl was Mexican and had an ass straight from Planet Nice-Ass. She was my thirteenth lay.
Some fun comments throughout the night:
"You're like the hulk of cumming. Normal people shouldn't last that long."
"I love your dick. It makes me numb."
And many others that I can't remember.
But one quick conversation we had in between our fuck-sessions really struck a chord with me.
Me - "So, just curious...when did you know you were going to fuck me?"
Sarah - "When I first saw you."
Me - "Really?"
Sarah - "Yeah...you just had this vibe about you. A really sexy vibe."
I think I came harder in response to this comment than I did all night. I'd been polishing my fundamentals every moment for a week straight and here was vocal proof (and results) that my hard work had paid off. I had attained a "sexy vibe."
Thank you Chase. Thank you everyone. This lay taught me that I had learned from my failures and that the sky was the limit. The interaction lasted about 3 hours before sex. I learned so much from it.
I'm very happy to be a part of this community. I would love to hear from you guys! Comments, criticisms, praise - anything! I hope you enjoyed the read. I have another LR from the night after (which is pretty awesome, too, not gonna lie) and many LR-s (oral sex but lots of LMR) and FRs.
- Anatman
_____________
I remember this pretty vividly, too. This girl is actually living in a resort destination now, has her own clothing line, and seems to be living the dream (she also has some super serious boyfriend now, and is always posting about how amazing he is...so yeah, pretty much the opposite haha. She's quite sexually liberated so I wonder if they have an open relationship). Kinda funny to think about her, but the nostalgia only lasts a few minutes...
I don't feel envy for the past. I did cringe a bit at some of my writing here, and my mindset then, but that isn't too bad either.
While I'm excited for the future, I don't seem to glorify that, either.
I think I'm actually quite content.
But I do hope that this memory provides some inspiration for you to get better with women. A year and a half after posting this I got a job writing for girlschase....so a lot can happen in a few years.
And now 6 years later, I'm having a ball and magnified my laycount ten-fold.
Fun stuff
Hector
