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Fan7as7icMrFox

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Ok, so if you've read a few of my other posts on here, you'll have read my say "I'm not a fan of night game, its to expected, I feel I'm on the back foot from the offset" blah blah blah, now, to an extent I still agree with that phrase, however, after last night, its a much lesser extent.

A family function has brought me back to the town I've recently moved from for one night, I decided to make the most of that night and catch up with a buddy of mine, my old wingman, for a few games of pool, a few drinks, a good old laugh and to watch him night game, in the hopes I'd pick up a thing or two.

the night started early, around 8:30pm at my suggestion so we could get a pool table and build some social momentum and get into the swing of things before it got busy, we were talking with anyone and everyone, guys, girls, barmaids, security. you name it, they new my name and my face before too long.

at around 10 it started getting busy, more women were turning up and many of them new my friend from previous nights out (he's a regular at that bar, so everyone knows his face)

I sat back, watching him open sets, not really paying much attention and just sitting back looking a bit bored, it wasn't long before the following comments and a few similar were being thrown around that I over heard "so, who's your cute friend?" "your friend looks bored, I'm going to cheer him up a bit"

Yep, me sitting there in a confident, open posture with a bored look on my face inspired enough curiosity to get these girls OPENING ME!

by 11pm, I'd had really good interactions with 5 girls from 5 different sets, I made sure to move these girls around the bar with me, so everyone else could see, I had girls investing heavily in the conversations, had these girls not only accepting of my (fairly intimate touch for such a crowded place) but actually moving my hands onto them, taking my hand and placing it on the tops of their thighs etc.

I clicked quite well with 2 of these girls, and after the "Ok, I really have to go and find my friends now, I'll be back in 5 minutes! you'll be here, right?" (practically identical sentences from both of these girls) I decided to let them get on with it, they'll either be back or they wont, either way, who gives a shit?!

almost as soon as the hottest one left, I had another sexy girl literally dive into the empty seat "My feet are killing me from all that dancing, I thought I'd come and say hi to you instead, you've bagged the comfiest seats in here" "I noticed you throwing shapes, you looked like you were way too much fun over there" (cheers Chase! :p)
"I'm Emily, so that girl who just left, is she your girlfriend?"

long story short, I had 3 girls manhandle kiss me, I had built up that much sexual tension they just couldn't take it, by 12:30 I'd had 1 girl say "so you're only here for one night, where are you staying?" "I've not actually figured that out yet, probably a bench somewhere" "well, I'm getting tired and all of my friends have gone to ..... but that bar is shit, why don't we head back to mine?" and other said "Shall we get out of here? there's a taxi rink outside, its only 2 minutes to my place"

truth be told, I kinda regret my decision now, but at the time I was having way too much fun and learning far too much in such a short period of time, cramming in interaction after interaction into a very short time frame, and was more interested in the learning than the lay's, so passed up both EXTREMELY forward offers, I wasn't ready for my night to end!

at 1am, me and my wingman and a few of his buddies (naturals at game) headed over to the busiest bar in town.

I'm getting a little bored of typing all of this, so I'll edit later, but in this bar, I had girls drag me from the bar to the dance floor and start grinding with me, I had one come over from nowhere (I hadn't actually interacted with her before this, only noticed her looking at me and did the "look and smile, where you lock eyes, look away to the side, smile as if you're thinking about naughty things with her, which I actually was, then look back) and sit on my lap before saying "you're probably the cutest guy in here tonight" whilst draping her arms around my neck and resting her forehead on mine, I had another girl come over, take my hand and lead me across the bar to the seats right next to the dance pole, sit me down, said "you're going to get your own private pole dance" then start doing her thing on the pole, followed by her giving me a lap dance, I told 2 girls who were flirting with me hardcore that "I like a woman who's adventurous in her sexuality, have either of you slept with a woman?" "no, we've never even kissed a girl before" "well, there's a first time for everything, you'll probably enjoy it, if I'm honest, I'd be interested to witness your first gay kiss" then, right in front of my face, only inches from my nose, they leant over me, the girl on my left with her hand on my left thigh, the one on my right with her hand on my right thigh and start kissing each other.

EPIC NIGHT!! I've never had such outstanding results!
 

Eternity

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Re: My first Night game FR

This makes me tear up with pride :) You disliked night game only to find out you are a natural at it. I'm inspired man I 'll admit. Usually its the things we think we'll hate are the ones we actually enjoy. Shit, if I was getting those lines thrown at me, I would've dragged both girls by the hand and back to the nearest place for a 3some. Your looks were key here along with the "IDGAF" vibe. But it takes skill to keep pulling and closing which i do not doubt u will have soon. Read Christian Mcqueen, he's great with nightgame if not one the best out there.

Now u know ;) Keep these coming, literally :)

"I like a woman who's adventurous in her sexuality, have either of you slept with a woman?" "no, we've never even kissed a girl before" "well, there's a first time for everything, you'll probably enjoy it, if I'm honest, I'd be interested to witness your first gay kiss"

Say this next time "I like girls who like girls. You? Prove it, let's not stand on ceremony here ( with a sexy smile if she took the bait)"
 

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Re: My first Night game FR

Fan7as7icMrFox said:
I'm getting tired and all of my friends have gone to ..... but that bar is shit, why don't we head back to mine?" and other said "Shall we get out of here? there's a taxi rink outside, its only 2 minutes to my place"

You crazy ;) they where practically begging to fk you ( dw iv done the exact same thing with one of the girls in my social group which invited me to come over to her 'dinner and drinks' place and i was the only one invited plus she told me previously that here parent where going to be away for 2 week, but due to having a party at another town i had to decline. Then about a week later our social group went to the beach we all parked at her house so when we all game back and everyone left it was only me and her standing at the front of her house and she was twirling her hair and biting her lip before asking me what are you going to do now and oblivious me said 'better head home as well then' hopped in my car drove home realized what she obviously wanted and was left kicking myself.

im still a virgin and iv been in this situation a number of times but failed to act cause only after evaluating the situation or because of social pressure i buckled :O

Don't wait for a next time if there is a opportunity right in front might as well take it

(sorry if there is any grammer issues in a rush should be doing an assignment)
 

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Re: My first Night game FR

Yoda said:
Fan7as7icMrFox said:
I'm getting tired and all of my friends have gone to ..... but that bar is shit, why don't we head back to mine?" and other said "Shall we get out of here? there's a taxi rink outside, its only 2 minutes to my place"

You crazy ;) they where practically begging to fk you ( dw iv done the exact same thing with one of the girls in my social group which invited me to come over to her 'dinner and drinks' place and i was the only one invited plus she told me previously that here parent where going to be away for 2 week, but due to having a party at another town i had to decline. Then about a week later our social group went to the beach we all parked at her house so when we all game back and everyone left it was only me and her standing at the front of her house and she was twirling her hair and biting her lip before asking me what are you going to do now and oblivious me said 'better head home as well then' hopped in my car drove home realized what she obviously wanted and was left kicking myself.

im still a virgin and iv been in this situation a number of times but failed to act cause only after evaluating the situation or because of social pressure i buckled :O

Don't wait for a next time if there is a opportunity right in front might as well take it

(sorry if there is any grammer issues in a rush should be doing an assignment)

I've been there, too blind to see it, however, Saturday night wasn't one of those times, I CHOSE not to go, It was still early (I think this was all before 1AM) and I hadn't finished partying lol, I was having way too much fun to call it a night..

both these girls have screened Facebook to send me a message (I never told either of them my last name or exchanged numbers, intentionally) asking when I'll be in town next and would I like to go for drinks...

I don't think they're used to meeting a guy who they know full well knew that they were offering it on a plate and turned it down, tactfully...
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Fan7as7icMrFox

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Re: My first Night game FR

Eternity said:
This makes me tear up with pride :) You disliked night game only to find out you are a natural at it. I'm inspired man I 'll admit. Usually its the things we think we'll hate are the ones we actually enjoy. Shit, if I was getting those lines thrown at me, I would've dragged both girls by the hand and back to the nearest place for a 3some. Your looks were key here along with the "IDGAF" vibe. But it takes skill to keep pulling and closing which i do not doubt u will have soon. Read Christian Mcqueen, he's great with nightgame if not one the best out there.

Now u know ;) Keep these coming, literally :)

"I like a woman who's adventurous in her sexuality, have either of you slept with a woman?" "no, we've never even kissed a girl before" "well, there's a first time for everything, you'll probably enjoy it, if I'm honest, I'd be interested to witness your first gay kiss"

Say this next time "I like girls who like girls. You? Prove it, let's not stand on ceremony here ( with a sexy smile if she took the bait)"

Now, I'm going to think back to this night every time I go out, head out with the mindset I did Saturday (I don't intend on pulling, just going to enjoy the night with my friend) and use it to get myself into that character... hopefully I'll be able to turn it on and off like a light switch.. I don't want that night to be a one off!

definitely need more night game practice, but this weekend, a mate has arranged a weekend trip to Newcastle (other end of the UK from me) for 3 nights of clubbing, perfect practice ;)
 
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