LR My first time

[Blasian Casanova]

Hey Everyone,

This is about the first time I lost my virginity. I finally lose my virginity last night 2-4-2018. First I want to say I am 17 years old and still in Highschool, I started reading girlchase to start getting girls. I started my journey 6 months ago & man it's been hard. There where the time I felt like giving up and I was telling my self "You don't need girls to be happy" That was a lie. Anyway, back to last night, she wanted to come over to my house and I said "Sure I'll be home in 20" she replies saying "Great I'll start heading over in 10". She gets to my house I take her straight to my room & I start deep-driving and escalating, after 10 min we start kissing and I started making out with her neck & before I knew it I was taking her clothes off and putting on a condom. Now I was always told that your first time you would come in seconds, I had sex with her for an hour and not ones I came. I made her come 3 times in that whole hour, but I had a hard time coming myself. I believe I was overthinking like always, Making sure I was doing the sex position right and making sure I had a good rhythm. Overall I believe the sex was good for her, but not me! I am glad I finally hit my goal of losing my virginity but I also want to get better at having sex and be able to enjoy more. Other then that I was every satisfied last night I feel more like a man. The journey is not over yet, It just started!

Thanks everyone for reading my post and I hope in the future I can get more help and talk to you guys more!

I also would love to hear some new advice.

 

[Sandman]

Hey man! Congratulations on popping the cherry

In the future if you want specific advice I recommend describing the interaction more throughly such as how you met her, what did you talk about, what was her body language like...

This site is a great place to get positive advice, welcome aboard.

 

[Blasian Casanova]

Hey Sandman,

I really would love some advice on how to make the sex better! You see I ran into some technical difficulties, Again like I said I really had a hard time cumming! Also, her pussy was very tight, Did I not turn her on enough? I would love to know what to do If I run into situations like this again!

The sex started with me making out with her body, after about 2 minutes doing so, I started taking her clothes off, I told her "Why don't you get ready, I'm going to slip on a condom". I get back in bed and get into an adept missionary, she was very tight I had a hard time putting my penis in her. After a minute and a haft, I finally get it in. At this point, I'm fucking her, but more then ones my penis keep popping out, how can I stop this from happening? She Orgasm about 10 minutes later, I wanted her to suck my dick so she started giving me a blowjob. About 5 minutes of getting the most pleasurable blowjob in my life, I slip a new condom one, because for the blowjob I took the old condom off, I get her into Doggystyle & again her pussy was tight. I told her to give me a minute and I grab lubricant, after using that stuff it was very easy fucking her at this point. The rest of the whole hour I fucked her and she Orgasm 2 more time, but again I didn't cume the whole time fucking her Overall the sex was good for her, I enjoy the sex as well But I would enjoy it even more if I was able to Orgasm.

Sandman, have you ever had any of these problems? I would love to know what I should try or do to make the sex more pleasurable for me.

Thank you for replying again.

 

[BMD]

KevinC,

Firstly congrats man! Here's to many more

I'm at the beginning of the journey myself having been with 2 girls so far. I'm having the exact same issue as you, no problems getting and keeping an erection during sex but just can't cum for the life of me

I've done some research and apparently it could be due to all the years of solo fun and maybe using too tight a grip and getting used to that sensation. Although in your case if your girl's vagina was very tight as well then it could be something else Idk

Let me know if you've found a solution for this (or anyone else on the board)

Peace

 

[Nico]

Congratulations man, lost mine not long ago tho im 20! Im sure u have many lays to come
Greetings from Russia!

 

[Average]

Congrats bro!

 

[Blasian Casanova]

Congratulations man, lost mine not long ago tho im 20! Im sure u have many lays to come
Greetings from Russia!

Thank man, and Congratulations on losing your V-Card too. I thanks girlchase and everyone on this site, because if I didn't have that fire to get better with women, I would never lose my V-card that fast. Girlchase is a great website and men should take advice from this website. I mean they teach you everything about women.

 

[Sandman]

Hey Sandman,

I really would love some advice on how to make the sex better! You see I ran into some technical difficulties, Again like I said I really had a hard time cumming! Also, her pussy was very tight, Did I not turn her on enough? I would love to know what to do If I run into situations like this again!

The sex started with me making out with her body, after about 2 minutes doing so, I started taking her clothes off, I told her "Why don't you get ready, I'm going to slip on a condom". I get back in bed and get into an adept missionary, she was very tight I had a hard time putting my penis in her. After a minute and a haft, I finally get it in. At this point, I'm fucking her, but more then ones my penis keep popping out, how can I stop this from happening? She Orgasm about 10 minutes later, I wanted her to suck my dick so she started giving me a blowjob. About 5 minutes of getting the most pleasurable blowjob in my life, I slip a new condom one, because for the blowjob I took the old condom off, I get her into Doggystyle & again her pussy was tight. I told her to give me a minute and I grab lubricant, after using that stuff it was very easy fucking her at this point. The rest of the whole hour I fucked her and she Orgasm 2 more time, but again I didn't cume the whole time fucking her Overall the sex was good for her, I enjoy the sex as well But I would enjoy it even more if I was able to Orgasm.

Sandman, have you ever had any of these problems? I would love to know what I should try or do to make the sex more pleasurable for me.

Thank you for replying again.

You're most welcome!

Dick popping out, as far as my experience goes, is usually because your rhytims don't match, in that case get her to a position where she doesn't move such as her lying on her belly and control the whole rhythm yourself.

Only girls I've enjoyed that were super tight were virgins or girls who just lost their virginity and haven't had much sex. It might also be because the girl wasn't that wet. You did the right thing by grabbing the lube

Not being able to cum sucks! If that happens just imagine stuff that makes you super horny like cumming in her pussy raw, imagine how good it would feel to cum, whatever makes you horny the most works as well.

You'll learn what makes sex pleasurable for you along the way just keep practising!

 

[Blasian Casanova]

Hey Sandman,

I really would love some advice on how to make the sex better! You see I ran into some technical difficulties, Again like I said I really had a hard time cumming! Also, her pussy was very tight, Did I not turn her on enough? I would love to know what to do If I run into situations like this again!

The sex started with me making out with her body, after about 2 minutes doing so, I started taking her clothes off, I told her "Why don't you get ready, I'm going to slip on a condom". I get back in bed and get into an adept missionary, she was very tight I had a hard time putting my penis in her. After a minute and a haft, I finally get it in. At this point, I'm fucking her, but more then ones my penis keep popping out, how can I stop this from happening? She Orgasm about 10 minutes later, I wanted her to suck my dick so she started giving me a blowjob. About 5 minutes of getting the most pleasurable blowjob in my life, I slip a new condom one, because for the blowjob I took the old condom off, I get her into Doggystyle & again her pussy was tight. I told her to give me a minute and I grab lubricant, after using that stuff it was very easy fucking her at this point. The rest of the whole hour I fucked her and she Orgasm 2 more time, but again I didn't cume the whole time fucking her Overall the sex was good for her, I enjoy the sex as well But I would enjoy it even more if I was able to Orgasm.

Sandman, have you ever had any of these problems? I would love to know what I should try or do to make the sex more pleasurable for me.

Thank you for replying again.

You're most welcome!

Dick popping out, as far as my experience goes, is usually because your rhytims don't match, in that case get her to a position where she doesn't move such as her lying on her belly and control the whole rhythm yourself.

Only girls I've enjoyed that were super tight were virgins or girls who just lost their virginity and haven't had much sex. It might also be because the girl wasn't that wet. You did the right thing by grabbing the lube

Not being able to cum sucks! If that happens just imagine stuff that makes you super horny like cumming in her pussy raw, imagine how good it would feel to cum, whatever makes you horny the most works as well.

You'll learn what makes sex pleasurable for you along the way just keep practising!

Hey Sandman, thanks for the pieces of advice. I will try that out the next time I'm with a girl. The sex has been better lately, so practice does help!