I started game 9 months ago. I came from basically nothing (kissless, hugless, never held a girl's hand). I am not some pro or an expert so these are my minor successes. I didn't get any lay but my journey been like this if you wanna read it:-
I rarely get matches on Tinder and only fat girls message me. So I started my gaming journey with social animal on youtube, it kinda worked okay. I was dating this ok looking girl for some months but then I broke up with her because I wanted to find the girl of my dreams. So I started Tom Torero's method and I got few dates but I was bad at escalation and later would get ghosted. The girls who I got dates with were like above average but not the hot ones. Although thanks to Tom Torero's London daygame model, when I tried it in a club, it was my first time when a hot German girl tried to kiss me. I did some indirect approaches too and sometimes on rare occasions, some hot girls would show interest in me but I would still eject the set because of anxiety.
Moving on, I recently found RSD Julian. Usually I would avoid good looking PUAs because I assumed I was ugly (I know social animal guy on YouTube is good looking too but some of his students were not that good looking). So following his advice, these are the things that happened to me recently:-
1. Dancing intimately with the cutest girl in the club. She was sober asf btw.
2. One hot German girl who ignored her friends and the German guys (who were hitting on her) for me, even tried to kiss me (I am Indian btw).
3. Approached multiple groups of hot girls and they were receptive asf to me.
4. One hot girl literally wanted to ditch her boyfriend for me. Even when her boyfriend took her away, she was trying to get back to me. But I ignored her because I didn't want a fight.
5. One girl who bumped onto me in a club literally grabbed my hand when I said "Get away, I am a pure boy" in a sarcastic voice and danced with me.
6. One girl I approached on the street asked me to come to a bar with me. She looked at me too flirtatiously. I dunno why but I got scared and said no.
7. I showed my hand to a hot German girl in a dance floor without speaking anything. Her whole group stared at me but she took my hand and danced with me.
Now these are the changes I made that allowed me these minor successes:-
1. Being unreactive to how the girl responds. I would get fucking depressed if some girl was rude to me and it would ruin my whole night. Now I simply don't care.
2. I don't say stuff like "you are beautiful or cute". I just say "Hi, I am x" with a strong voice and laser eye contact.
3. When I approach a girl, I act like I have never known rejection in my entire life and I will first go and introduce myself to her without hesitation even if she is in a group.
4. I want to be in the center of attention more than I want the girl. I want the whole group to listen to what I say.
5. If one girl rejects me, I move on to the other one quickly.
Although I don't have any lays as I said before. I am not some chad unlike many guys on PUA forums. But this is just my journey. I have come from a place where even average girls would not show attention to me (only below average girls liked me) so yeah I feel very good when such hot girls give me attention. Still learning tho. I am not shilling Julian btw. But I am just wondering if anyone else followed him and got some level of success?
I rarely get matches on Tinder and only fat girls message me. So I started my gaming journey with social animal on youtube, it kinda worked okay. I was dating this ok looking girl for some months but then I broke up with her because I wanted to find the girl of my dreams. So I started Tom Torero's method and I got few dates but I was bad at escalation and later would get ghosted. The girls who I got dates with were like above average but not the hot ones. Although thanks to Tom Torero's London daygame model, when I tried it in a club, it was my first time when a hot German girl tried to kiss me. I did some indirect approaches too and sometimes on rare occasions, some hot girls would show interest in me but I would still eject the set because of anxiety.
Moving on, I recently found RSD Julian. Usually I would avoid good looking PUAs because I assumed I was ugly (I know social animal guy on YouTube is good looking too but some of his students were not that good looking). So following his advice, these are the things that happened to me recently:-
1. Dancing intimately with the cutest girl in the club. She was sober asf btw.
2. One hot German girl who ignored her friends and the German guys (who were hitting on her) for me, even tried to kiss me (I am Indian btw).
3. Approached multiple groups of hot girls and they were receptive asf to me.
4. One hot girl literally wanted to ditch her boyfriend for me. Even when her boyfriend took her away, she was trying to get back to me. But I ignored her because I didn't want a fight.
5. One girl who bumped onto me in a club literally grabbed my hand when I said "Get away, I am a pure boy" in a sarcastic voice and danced with me.
6. One girl I approached on the street asked me to come to a bar with me. She looked at me too flirtatiously. I dunno why but I got scared and said no.
7. I showed my hand to a hot German girl in a dance floor without speaking anything. Her whole group stared at me but she took my hand and danced with me.
Now these are the changes I made that allowed me these minor successes:-
1. Being unreactive to how the girl responds. I would get fucking depressed if some girl was rude to me and it would ruin my whole night. Now I simply don't care.
2. I don't say stuff like "you are beautiful or cute". I just say "Hi, I am x" with a strong voice and laser eye contact.
3. When I approach a girl, I act like I have never known rejection in my entire life and I will first go and introduce myself to her without hesitation even if she is in a group.
4. I want to be in the center of attention more than I want the girl. I want the whole group to listen to what I say.
5. If one girl rejects me, I move on to the other one quickly.
Although I don't have any lays as I said before. I am not some chad unlike many guys on PUA forums. But this is just my journey. I have come from a place where even average girls would not show attention to me (only below average girls liked me) so yeah I feel very good when such hot girls give me attention. Still learning tho. I am not shilling Julian btw. But I am just wondering if anyone else followed him and got some level of success?
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