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Just thought I’d jot down a few tips I’ve picked up or remembered lately now that I’m back in the dating scene .
I have 3-5 chicks on a rotation and getting quite a bit of action.
FYI I’m an older 40s dude so it’s (cougars MILfs and curvy younger ones)
these are for my own memoirs but may help others.
In no particular order;
1. when fucking a chick at some point after the warm up bit when it’s getting hotter I’d recommend start pulling her ass cheeks up and to the side . I’ve had many chicks do this themselves during sex. It exposes more pussy for the pounding afaik and it’s hot for them.
2. Porn star cock moves:
Dip the cock in and out repeatedly porn star style. I Do this 10x then rub the cock up the pussy to the Clit and back down to the hole a few times for a Clit tease , then dip in and out again. Then ease in further with the fucking and then deeper and shallower over a period of a position.
3. I’ve been told by quite a few chicks the most sensitive part of a Clit is at the top of the Clit just under where it meets the “hood” of the labia split. Right there there’s a little small spot that ought to be teased in circles to begin with and then more stimulated faster as the chick indicates. With her breathing and moans and verbals etc etc
4. it’s taken me a long time to learn that for some chicks to have an orgasm the Clit needs to be stimulated quite fast and hard (but also with a build up of teasing strokes firstly) when I actually thought about it - all chicks have a vibrator and the vibrator pulses FAST and HARD ( at times) So I ought to bear in mind and match that energy.
5. with girl on top fucking position. - I must drop the hand down in front to the pussy and work the Clit with the thumb as I fuck her.( this is a new one for me and chicks love it)
6. Grab their hips hard when fucking.
Especially on the Doggy style position.
7. slap the ass when it’s getting hot that will make it wilder.
8. the “scissors” sex position is best for curvier chicks with a bit of a gut. and is an all round good extra position for me I throw in the mix now. (Yeah I fuck curvies - but not fatties)
9. give good head. Period. Find a chick with a tidy , tight pretty pussy and go to town on it . Include a rim job in a teasing fashion.
10. use lube. Lube is awesome.
11. don’t ask for permission to go for anal.
(This was a big sticking point for me in the past I never went about this the right way)
Just use lube when fucking.. wait till she’s cum once or twice then put her in the side -doggy and go for the ass. But teasingly at first , just rub it around with lots of lube on , use a finger to prepare then go for penetration . I’ve gotten a bit of ass lately this way. If the chick doesn’t wanna she will tell me and it’s a no-go.
But it’s much hotter and more likely a go to go for it as above.
12. use lube and bring sex toys , a sex dress , a butt plug, a choker or whatever in a bag and surprise her with it. She may get super turned on and go for it.
13. Most girls if they think it’s a hot session are happy to watch porn during the act, that’s hot,
14. start slow and sex my then build up to flat out pounding and punishing if it’s that kind of chick (most are).
Watch Ali Wongs Baby Cobra stand up show and “single lady” stand up show for sex tips and what cougars want from a lover man.
thats is all. These are mostly for my own memorisation. Cheers Jim.
Just thought I’d jot down a few tips I’ve picked up or remembered lately now that I’m back in the dating scene .
I have 3-5 chicks on a rotation and getting quite a bit of action.
FYI I’m an older 40s dude so it’s (cougars MILfs and curvy younger ones)
these are for my own memoirs but may help others.
In no particular order;
1. when fucking a chick at some point after the warm up bit when it’s getting hotter I’d recommend start pulling her ass cheeks up and to the side . I’ve had many chicks do this themselves during sex. It exposes more pussy for the pounding afaik and it’s hot for them.
2. Porn star cock moves:
Dip the cock in and out repeatedly porn star style. I Do this 10x then rub the cock up the pussy to the Clit and back down to the hole a few times for a Clit tease , then dip in and out again. Then ease in further with the fucking and then deeper and shallower over a period of a position.
3. I’ve been told by quite a few chicks the most sensitive part of a Clit is at the top of the Clit just under where it meets the “hood” of the labia split. Right there there’s a little small spot that ought to be teased in circles to begin with and then more stimulated faster as the chick indicates. With her breathing and moans and verbals etc etc
4. it’s taken me a long time to learn that for some chicks to have an orgasm the Clit needs to be stimulated quite fast and hard (but also with a build up of teasing strokes firstly) when I actually thought about it - all chicks have a vibrator and the vibrator pulses FAST and HARD ( at times) So I ought to bear in mind and match that energy.
5. with girl on top fucking position. - I must drop the hand down in front to the pussy and work the Clit with the thumb as I fuck her.( this is a new one for me and chicks love it)
6. Grab their hips hard when fucking.
Especially on the Doggy style position.
7. slap the ass when it’s getting hot that will make it wilder.
8. the “scissors” sex position is best for curvier chicks with a bit of a gut. and is an all round good extra position for me I throw in the mix now. (Yeah I fuck curvies - but not fatties)
9. give good head. Period. Find a chick with a tidy , tight pretty pussy and go to town on it . Include a rim job in a teasing fashion.
10. use lube. Lube is awesome.
11. don’t ask for permission to go for anal.
(This was a big sticking point for me in the past I never went about this the right way)
Just use lube when fucking.. wait till she’s cum once or twice then put her in the side -doggy and go for the ass. But teasingly at first , just rub it around with lots of lube on , use a finger to prepare then go for penetration . I’ve gotten a bit of ass lately this way. If the chick doesn’t wanna she will tell me and it’s a no-go.
But it’s much hotter and more likely a go to go for it as above.
12. use lube and bring sex toys , a sex dress , a butt plug, a choker or whatever in a bag and surprise her with it. She may get super turned on and go for it.
13. Most girls if they think it’s a hot session are happy to watch porn during the act, that’s hot,
14. start slow and sex my then build up to flat out pounding and punishing if it’s that kind of chick (most are).
Watch Ali Wongs Baby Cobra stand up show and “single lady” stand up show for sex tips and what cougars want from a lover man.
thats is all. These are mostly for my own memorisation. Cheers Jim.
